the herd mentality...

bridgeburner said:
Okay, you have a point there. Dom wannabe but never gonna be. Don't you think he's just conflicted? Crying out for a beating not to mention a ball gag?


-B

Why never gonna be? Methinks he has the first requirement: sexual rage. I saw his facefucking story. Gnomery of the first water.
 
Why never gonna be? Methinks he has the first requirement: sexual rage. I saw his facefucking story. Gnomery of the first water.


It takes more than sexual rage and wanting to call the shots. People have to want to please you on some level. They need to want your approval. Just because you walk into a joint and say "On your knees!" doesn't make you a Top --- especially if it provokes giggles and derision.

-B
 
bridgeburner said:


It takes more than sexual rage and wanting to call the shots. People have to want to please you on some level. They need to want your approval. Just because you walk into a joint and say "On your knees!" doesn't make you a Top --- especially if it provokes giggles and derision.

-B

Wrong. It makes you an unsuccessful top.

The desire provides the indentity.
 
I had more abuse in my "normal" 'nilla marriage than I have in our D/s relationship......now I have respect both from Him and for myself.......I have the right to say "stop" at any time and know that He will do so immediately......I am not emotionally pressured into doing anything I do not want to do.....

I am a happy slut.......;) :D
 
bytor2112 said:
is precisely why no one on this site will agree with me and my views about the emotional and mental problems shared by the BDSM'ers.....to agree, if only slightly with me, risks one being ostracized by his "internet" friends and clique.....

some of the reason defending the maladjusted psyche's of the members here are laughable, if they weren't so pathetic...

sad......

Your posts are boring.
We have been "saved" before, by others who desires were kinkier than ours, but their concience stood in the way of what they wanted, so they decided we shouldn't have it either.

You haven't said anything that hasn't been said before.
You haven't said anything that hasn't been responded to before.
Use your search option, read the threads concerning BDSM as it relates to abuse, emotional health and blah blah blah and you will read all you could possibly want to know concerning our views on the matter.

If you are truly interested in assisting people with mental health issues or who are in abusive relationships, get off the computer and volunteer at your local woman's shelter or mental health clinic.
 
Re: Re: the herd mentality...

MissTaken said:
Your posts are boring.

We have been "saved" before, by others who desires were kinkier than ours, but their concience stood in the way of what they wanted, so they decided we shouldn't have it either.

You haven't said anything that hasn't been said before.
You haven't said anything that hasn't been responded to before.
Use your search option, read the threads concerning BDSM as it relates to abuse, emotional health and blah blah blah and you will read all you could possibly want to know concerning our views on the matter.

If you are truly interested in assisting people with mental health issues or who are in abusive relationships, get off the computer and volunteer at your local woman's shelter or mental health clinic.


he has no interest in any of that...he has one thing and one thing only to say. He's said it, and he'll continue to say it. he hears nothing, sees nothing. he has is opinion and that is all. he will never allow himself to change.

He is the one who makes me sad and here is why (not that he'll read it).

in his vanilla life, he fucks his wife for 3.5 minutes, then limp dicked rolls over and falls asleep as his wife quietly heads to the bathroom to "clean up" what she's really doing is finishing up.

meanwhile, me and my mentally disturbed girlfriend and submissive are carrying out our herdlike behavior. She's telling me all the bad things she did in japan. How she shopped for sexy sleepwear and dreamed of modeling it for me. I'm spanking her for her nasty thoughts as she's telling me them. Strangely enough she never even asks for me to stop as the strikes inch closer to her pussy. When my hand finally hits squarely making a loud clap, she cries out, but not in pain, it's a different sound altogether. It's a cry of pleasure and I hit her again, and again as she moans and cries until her orgasm hits her.

we hug and kiss, sometimes she'll cry as she holds me, sometimes i come close to feeling tears as well. It's tender, it's beautiful and WE like it.

If you don't like it, to fucking bad. you were funny for a day, you're on my nerves now. I'll see what you reply to this out of some morbid curiousity, but then you'll be on the ignore list.
 
rosco rathbone said:
Wrong. It makes you an unsuccessful top.

The desire provides the indentity.



Hmmmmm.......yeah, okay I can accept that. I tend to get my Top and Alpha definitions a bit twisted up. One is defined by one's desires and the other is defined by one's capabilities.


-B
 
AngelicAssassin said:
And a lucky few are defined by both.

That's the ideal, but I agree that it's rare. There are far more people who want to be in charge but aren't equipped than there are people who are truly suited for it. Or perhaps my standards are too high.

-B
 
Lancecastor said:
I'm crushed.

But back to the subject...herds.

You're allegedly a 35 year old happily married man with a career in the chemical industry and you're here cruising an erotic literature site by day.

Lots of men your age sit in their cubicles at work reading about what is for them, depraved, kinky sex, fantasize about fucking their co-workers, wait till their erection subsides before going to lunch or to jerk off in the can...there are large herds of men just like you all over north america.

Would you like us to join your herd?

I kinda like the herd I'm in wherein I travel freely and meet kinky shaved younger women in fetish clubs who before long are begging to suck my cock before I spank their pussies and take them hard from behind, their wrists tied to my bedposts.

So what exactly are the benefits of the insignificantly bland married guy working at a large corporation jerking off in his cubicle again?

To be fair, I'd like to compare.

Damn, I like you...
 
Re: Re: Re: the herd mentality...

NCShin said:
he has no interest in any of that...he has one thing and one thing only to say. He's said it, and he'll continue to say it. he hears nothing, sees nothing. he has is opinion and that is all. he will never allow himself to change.

He is the one who makes me sad and here is why (not that he'll read it).

in his vanilla life, he fucks his wife for 3.5 minutes, then limp dicked rolls over and falls asleep as his wife quietly heads to the bathroom to "clean up" what she's really doing is finishing up.

meanwhile, me and my mentally disturbed girlfriend and submissive are carrying out our herdlike behavior. She's telling me all the bad things she did in japan. How she shopped for sexy sleepwear and dreamed of modeling it for me. I'm spanking her for her nasty thoughts as she's telling me them. Strangely enough she never even asks for me to stop as the strikes inch closer to her pussy. When my hand finally hits squarely making a loud clap, she cries out, but not in pain, it's a different sound altogether. It's a cry of pleasure and I hit her again, and again as she moans and cries until her orgasm hits her.

we hug and kiss, sometimes she'll cry as she holds me, sometimes i come close to feeling tears as well. It's tender, it's beautiful and WE like it.

If you don't like it, to fucking bad. you were funny for a day, you're on my nerves now. I'll see what you reply to this out of some morbid curiousity, but then you'll be on the ignore list.

blah blah blah i need help.....blah blah blah....i have no self esteem...blah blah blah....

nice post now back to your morbid girlfriend...
 
Lancecastor said:
I'm crushed.

But back to the subject...herds.

You're allegedly a 35 year old happily married man with a career in the chemical industry and you're here cruising an erotic literature site by day.

Lots of men your age sit in their cubicles at work reading about what is for them, depraved, kinky sex, fantasize about fucking their co-workers, wait till their erection subsides before going to lunch or to jerk off in the can...there are large herds of men just like you all over north america.

Would you like us to join your herd?

I kinda like the herd I'm in wherein I travel freely and meet kinky shaved younger women in fetish clubs who before long are begging to suck my cock before I spank their pussies and take them hard from behind, their wrists tied to my bedposts.

So what exactly are the benefits of the insignificantly bland married guy working at a large corporation jerking off in his cubicle again?

To be fair, I'd like to compare.

One of my friends told me that a men's room at the commuter train station he uses has a suckhole in the stall. Every day, hordes of 9-to-5 cubicle guys stop in after work hoping for a quick blowjob before getting on the train and going back to their suburban lives. Maybe bytor feels guilty for stopping in there too, although I'm not sure which side of the suckhole he's on.
 
LadyJeanne said:
One of my friends told me that a men's room at the commuter train station he uses has a suckhole in the stall. Every day, hordes of 9-to-5 cubicle guys stop in after work hoping for a quick blowjob before getting on the train and going back to their suburban lives. Maybe bytor feels guilty for stopping in there too, although I'm not sure which side of the suckhole he's on.

yeah i live in the same town as your "friend"...what a moronic post....
 
bytor2112 said:
yeah i live in the same town as your "friend"...what a moronic post....

Do you really expect us to believe you vent your sexual frustrations solely on this board?
 
LadyJeanne said:
Do you really expect us to believe you vent your sexual frustrations solely on this board?

only if your DOM tells you to..

baa baa baa
 
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