The Journey Begins in the Mind

[Shadowsdream]

(His voice alone can send me over the top,get me filled with Desire so easily it seems ,I agree with the yelling being a sign of being out of control but I'd like to add that sometimes the "forcefulness in the voice' can be a highly erotic thing for me also..For example >if He were to say "Come HERE my sex slave"! I'd feel more under his control than without that infliction,hope i'm explaining that correctly?"...and if He said"Dont Move!" or Spread those legs wider baby"It just really Shows me(through voice alone) who's REALLY in charge here.)

dream...could you clarify forcefullness please...do you mean the inflection of words...the lowering of the voice and enunciation of certain words...or the raising of the voice for certain words.

Voice certainly can be the dynomite that detonates the explosion ~~~smile~~

 

[snowy ciara]

Le Bump...

Another good one.. Too tired to post on it tonight, but will later..

 

[catalina_francisco]

This was such a good thread it deserves revisiting.

Catalina

 

[timberwolf05]

Both Domination and submission begin in the mind. If the eyes are not strong enough to speak without words and the hand is not strong enough to speak without pain there will not be a cuff or a rope that can hold a sub in one spot for long. If the voice can't control without yelling, Domination is a pale caricature of the real thing. I use My voice, My hands and My eyes to begin your journey into safety and contentment. Not a length of chain nor a leather strap can take you deeper than My mind can.

Where does the journey begin for you?

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it begins when a She makes claim She wants me as Her own, and i start to dedicate myself to Her cause, and so far it has ended just as fast, with no one taking physical possession.
and i am a play virgin.

the wolf

 

[Private_Label]

.....(and I believe that it does)...then at what point does the journey become dependant upon factors beyond the mind, if it ever does?

Thought 1: Two meet here on Lit and feel connected. Their journey begins, but at some point, leaves the mind and becomes more and more "of the world"....and either fails or succeeds from there onward on the basis of multiple inputs.

First of all, we are speaking about face to face and skin to skin, not the fantasy world of online. we are talking about the interaction between to people who have met and agreed to be dominant and submissive, so I think that you thought does not make sense in this context. Care to be more specific?

That isn't the way I read m'Lady Shadowsdream's original post. The question as I understood it was "where does the journey begin for you?"

For some of us, the journey begins with curiosity. It begins with a question or request. Doesn't matter if it was here on Lit, or an e-mail, story, phone call or face to face.


For me the journey began during IM and e-mail with a friend. I have met him in RL, but it was before our D/s relationship began. I am here on the Lit forums to explore that aspect of myself. It took some time and thought before I agreed to become my friend's submissive on-line, but when I did, I knew I also meant it for RL. Time has only deepened it for me. If he asked me to go to where he is currently, I would. If he asked me to be His, I would.

It is no less real for me for starting in the on-line world. It starts for me with being true to myself about how I feel and what I want from a relationship.

It starts for me with his attention. To know that he is thinking about me. That he is considering the feel of my skin under his hand or mouth. Him thinking of how I will sound as he plays with me using his body, his voice. Him thinking of how I will look as I take him inside me, or play with myself for his entertainment.

<Um... I'm going to go now... I have new vibrators I meed to break in...>

 

[timberwolf05]

in person?

okay be particular and split hairs. jeeeez louise.

in person? it BEGINS when i drive up to the house and pull into the driveway and have a moment to collect myself after driving across country to find where She said She would be, open my car door, walk up, knock on the door. not yet......
WHEN She opens the door, AND i step-through.........THAT is when it BEGINS!


jeeeez louise.


the wolf
or do you need MORE specific? coz that is about all "I" get.