The Nicest Compliment Ever Recieved

[SweetDommes]

I have already posted my greatest compliment ever, but this one is for the both of us, and it has been voiced in various ways by more than one of our friends (all, of course, submissive): "i must say i just enjoy being with you, for you make me feel so comfortable in my sub position"

Knowing that people are comfortable being themselves around us means a lot to both of us, since there are so many people out there bound and determined to make people uncomfortable.

-Miss Karen & Miss Holly-

 

[Zaudika]

I don't know if its necessarily the nicest one I've ever received, but I do have one that sticks out in my mind because it was sweet, surprising, and cute.

I was talking to this person about middle names and asked him, do you know what my middle name is? ...

He turned, smiled and asked, "Gorgeous?" ...

Just caught me off guard and made me blush and smile so its always stuck in my mind.

 

[Krinaia]

was he staring at your lucious breasts?

 

[catalina_francisco]

'You always manage to help others find a smile and feel valued, even when they know their world is shit, and your own life is not a bed of roses....you give them hope and respect.'

Catalina

 

[Krinaia]

was he staring at your lucious breasts?

i didn't mean to say that was why he would compliment you... mostly i was complimenting your lucious breasts.

 

[thegreenfairy]

along the same lines... the word "opinionated." It's never used for men. Only women are called "opinionated." So take it as a complement... if you were a guy they'd call you "assertive."

To me, being called a bitch is a compliment, I wear the name like a badge of honor.....in that vein, my mom sent me this email and I thought I would share:

When I stand up for myself and my beliefs, they call me a bitch. When I stand up for those I love, they call me a bitch. When I speak my mind, think my own thoughts or do things my own way, they call me a bitch.

Being a bitch means I won't compromise what's in my heart. It means I live my life MY way. It means I won't allow anyone to step on me. When I refuse to tolerate injustice and speak against it, I am defined as a bitch. The same thing happens when I take time for myself instead of being everyone's maid, or when I act a little selfish. It means I have the courage and strength to allow myself to be who I truly am and won't become anyone else's idea of what they think I "should" be. I am outspoken, opinionated and determined. I want what I want and there is nothing wrong with that! So try to stomp on me, try to douse my inner flame, try to squash every ounce of beauty I hold within me. You won't succeed.

And if that makes me a bitch, so be it. I embrace the title and am proud to bear it.

Mistress Tae

 

[SensualMan]

Use of the term Bitch....

Just a male perspective, but I think Mistress Tae is living in the past. Most of the men I know in my generation (I'm 27) appreciate and seek out intelligent women with their own beliefs and identities. I married a woman that I openly admit is more itelligent than I am, and I love the fact that she does not concede to my point of view when we get into an argument. I could never respect, let alone love, a woman that was not self-confident enough to argue with me from a position of equality.

What does all this mean? What I am trying to say is that the term bitch as used by most men now has nothing to do with a woman's sense of self confidence or firmness of conviction. A bitch is a woman that plays both sides. She wants to be respected as a strong individual, but is quick to play the "helpless female" card when it is to her advantage. For example, crying to get out of a traffic ticket, flirting at a bar to get free drinks and any number of other examples that I am sure everyone has heard about.

Like I said, it's just one man's thoughts on the subject....

 

[Mistress Tae]

Re: Use of the term Bitch....

Just a male perspective, but I think Mistress Tae is living in the past. Most of the men I know in my generation (I'm 27) appreciate and seek out intelligent women with their own beliefs and identities. I married a woman that I openly admit is more itelligent than I am, and I love the fact that she does not concede to my point of view when we get into an argument. I could never respect, let alone love, a woman that was not self-confident enough to argue with me from a position of equality.

What does all this mean? What I am trying to say is that the term bitch as used by most men now has nothing to do with a woman's sense of self confidence or firmness of conviction. A bitch is a woman that plays both sides. She wants to be respected as a strong individual, but is quick to play the "helpless female" card when it is to her advantage. For example, crying to get out of a traffic ticket, flirting at a bar to get free drinks and any number of other examples that I am sure everyone has heard about.

Like I said, it's just one man's thoughts on the subject....

Oh so much I could say to that, but I refuse to hijack this thread......

Another compliment from my daughter, "When I grow up, I want to be just like you mom"

Mistress Tae

 

[catalina_francisco]

Daughters are gems....her most recent observation; 'at the very least Im glad Í was brought up in an open minded household - not knowing about some stuff would have hurt me more than helped me I think.'

Çatalina

 

[stutterclutter]

along the same lines... the word "opinionated." It's never used for men. Only women are called "opinionated." So take it as a complement... if you were a guy they'd call you "assertive."

I'm a guy, and I've been called opionated, in a way that wasn't meant to be a positive compliment. I wonder if I should be questioning my maculinity now hahah.

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[sweetbea]

One day at work, the receptionist wanted to go to lunch, so I volunteered to cover the front desk for her.

I was answering the switchboard, and a woman who called told me "You just have the sweetest voice."

For some reason, that totally made my day.

 

[wolf2002]

Sometimes the nicest compliment is the one you don't expect.

Pink, your AV lights my fire...

I bet you didn;t expect that one, huh?

 

[landcruisergal]

I got "you suck as well as a man", from a bi "fuck buddy".I always figure that guys give better head as they know what feels best, so this had me grinning.

 

[SweetDommes]

I got "you suck as well as a man", from a bi "fuck buddy".I always figure that guys give better head as they know what feels best, so this had me grinning.

I've gotten that one before too ... looking back, it is a great compliment ... but at the time, I was a little disturbed - my homophobic ex told me that ...

 

[Guest]

kinky isn't a feather...its using the whole damn
chicken! and you kno it. you are so kinky that
even you are afraid of yourself sometimes.




You look great with your head shaved !!!

 

[fallon2]

Memorable

We have all received various compliments but for me the most memorable one was "your voice has healing qualities." What makes it memorable was the circumstances in which it was said.
(Yes, I know but it is such a looong story!)

 

[willowthwisp]

"Mummy doesn't have to pretend, she really IS a fairy!"

 

[quinntsensual]

"You are so happy, your the sexiest woman here. I hope one day I have a girlfriend who loves me as much as you love your guy"
Shook my partners hand and gave me a rose and dissappeared in to the crowd.

Bizarre