The Perve Curve

[AngelicAssassin]

AA- First, I know Doms, and I know Tango, and I know some Doms who lead poorly. Tango & D/s have much in common. Communication is critical to both, but in D/s, it's often about not letting the sub know what's coming next, and on some rare occassions, not allowing her to know what you expect of her.

Like a rose, with healthy greenery, the thorns stay hidden until the time arrives for a prick.

... Ballroom is a dance.

So is fucking darlin', if you know what you're doing ...

And I've read your fictions. Yes. You come through quite clearly.

What makes you think they're all fiction?

 

[rikaaim]

I haven't really read any of the others tests, but I'll just kinda throw a little of myself out there.

To me, any of the bondage that is just one sesssion long, meaning sans cage or days one end activity, it's scarecly more than a 4 in my book, and usually much more vanilla. I just feel that a marriage couselor would recommend something light like that to kinda re-spark things.

However, getting into the serious floggers and toys of the like, cracking skin and causing the real stings and thuds that seem to make up the average pain person gets a solid 5 in my book. Nothing wrong with it at all, just a nice healthy kink.

When things start to last days, or forcing becomes involved, then it gets kicked up a notch or two to a 6 or 7 depending on the severity. Now, I have nothing against any of this, as long as it's a consensual arrangement. I'm even for a fantasy rape as far as a healthy kink. However, when it starts to become literal force, and the invasion and violation of another person, it becomes a crime with me. No excuses.

As far as perversions go, I would really only call a few things actual perversions. Animals being at the forefront. I have nothing against those wishing to involve themselves with the water sports or even the suggested feces play, but it's just not for me, that's for sure. And I do consider it a perversion.

Is any of this negative in my book? No. Is any or all of it for me? Well, like everyone sure, some is and some isn't.

I'm into the mid-range pain thresh hold as well as the bondage. Fortuanately I'm young enough to learn how to really harness the toys and learn some great rope techniques as I am just learning exactly what I like.

The only things I can't consider kinks or perversions, are the activities that are crimes. Kidnapping, rape (real not fantasty), murder, etc...

Everything that is consensual between two adults is fine by me. It may not be my thing, but it's fine by me.

 

[Technodivinitas]

Pricks with thorns...? Ow. Ow Ow. (And yes, please. ) You can leave the greenery aside, if it please you. Unless you have a thing for nettles...

Fiction or no, I enjoyed it immensely.

And Argentine Tango you don't even have to do right- it's virtually scene-play D/s on the dancefloor, fucking and all. (They have this thing they call El Cabeceo, or the Eye game, which is all about communication between dancers from across a room or crowded dancefloor, wordlessly. It's wonderful.)

So... please, Angelic One, will you favor me with your time on the survey, or are you planning to test my begging skills?

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Unless you have a thing for nettles...

No, i'm thinking along the lines of:

• presenting a dozen roses for a traditional celebration (anniversary, birthday, etc.)
• plucking the petals after dinner for the romantic "bed of roses"
• stripping the remaining greenery from the stems
• binding the remaining 12 rods into an all natural scourge.
• and ...

Let your imagination wander from there.

Fiction or no, I enjoyed it immensely.

My pleasure.

So... please, Angelic One, will you favor me with your time on the survey, or are you planning to test my begging skills?

i'm working on it.

 

[rcuhljr]

LoL nah, the av is just there because I found it funny, I'd be the worst top e v e r.

 

[Technodivinitas]

LoL nah, the av is just there because I found it funny, I'd be the worst top e v e r.

No- that title is reserved for DorkyDom. (Look him up on the 'net some time if you want a good hour or so of belly laughs.)

 

[freaky_fl]

golden showers

i used to live with a women very much into pee play, her fav was laying down on her back and i'd pee from her cunt to her face, but rarely did she open her mouth, only after i'd had 4 or 5 beers, or her but the things she could think of to do with pee was down right amazing,,,, without any swallowing it, and a few times she requested that i pee in her ass, which at the time i thought was the most perverted things ever, shit,,, little did i know

 

[Technodivinitas]

i used to live with a women very much into pee play, her fav was laying down on her back and i'd pee from her cunt to her face, but rarely did she open her mouth, only after i'd had 4 or 5 beers, or her but the things she could think of to do with pee was down right amazing,,,, without any swallowing it, and a few times she requested that i pee in her ass, which at the time i thought was the most perverted things ever, shit,,, little did i know

So then, your tabboos have since been lessened? Or do you simply find you're more willing to accept things which you still consider to be "extreme"? Coversely, do you instead find that, now that you are aware of more extremes than you had realized existed, that seemingly innocuous practices become loomingly suggestive and/or pervy?

 

[freaky_fl]

hhmmm,, i think all of the above are a bit on the mark

but as i've gotten older and been with more people under all sorts of settings i've gotten less shockable. a few years ago i cuaght a woman sucking on her horse cock, i walked into my stall and scared the hell out of her, she wanted me to watch but
that was a little extreme, even for me at this point in my life.......

 

[Technodivinitas]

So then, are you going to share your curve survey with us freaky? (And maybe a bit about your regular predilections- Male/female/dom/sub, etc....?)