Things That Make You Uncomfortable....But Also Turn You On

[Dreamliner]

Part psychological then Kim, that sensory overload sitting alongside your ËW"factor, but the senses override that as it is just so good. Being in tune with your partner helps.

 

[Mtnmike]

This was our first step on the road to perversion. Usually I would provide a foot rub or calf massage while she worked.

I tried forever to get the wife too do that but to no avail

 

[gracie920101]

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GET YOUR NAKED ASS OFF MY KITCHEN COUNTER!

 

[Dreamliner]

GET YOUR NAKED ASS OFF MY KITCHEN COUNTER!

I agree gracie, they have it wrong, it should be her butt on the counter, just the right height.

 

[KimGordon67]

Is it the blindfold that's the issue, or just the whole thing?

 

[gracie920101]

I agree gracie, they have it wrong, it should be her butt on the counter, just the right height.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

His disappointment, his displeasure.

Bear with me.

It's a dreadful place to be, desperate at the bottom of the well of his disapproval. What if I fail, what if i cannot please him? What if I never please him again? The shame! The humiliation! But... I like shame. And there's the delicious opportunity to claw my way up and out and earn his favor once more. Earn my place in his arms, earn my place between his thighs, earn my place at his feet.

The anticipation of the joy ahead, the expectation of effort rewarded, these are what I have to look forward to. His eyes on my face, his hand on my head, his voice in my ear, saying my name. The satisfaction of this achievement is in direct proportion to how hard I had to work for it. And there is thrilling shame in that, too.

Uncomfortable because I hate disappointing him.
Aroused because it means I get to work for him again, and hear him say the words that make me burst, hot and bright, at the end of his tether.

 

[cookiecat]

His disappointment, his displeasure.

Bear with me.

It's a dreadful place to be, desperate at the bottom of the well of his disapproval. What if I fail, what if i cannot please him? What if I never please him again? The shame! The humiliation! But... I like shame. And there's the delicious opportunity to claw my way up and out and earn his favor once more. Earn my place in his arms, earn my place between his thighs, earn my place at his feet.

The anticipation of the joy ahead, the expectation of effort rewarded, these are what I have to look forward to. His eyes on my face, his hand on my head, his voice in my ear, saying my name. The satisfaction of this achievement is in direct proportion to how hard I had to work for it. And there is thrilling shame in that, too.

Uncomfortable because I hate disappointing him.
Aroused because it means I get to work for him again, and hear him say the words that make me burst, hot and bright, at the end of his tether.

oooooooooooooooooooohhhh -- Very interesting because it's true!

I think, though, it's this disappointment within a super secure relationship. Knowing he'll give you grace, absolution in the form of (fill in this blank - a face fuck? spanking? corner time?) and the slate is wiped clean.

Shame is such a huge and weird arousal factor.

 

[subliminalmassage]

People who twist in the deep places. My gender, my neediness, my love. People who aren't afraid to really hurt me to get what they want tonight.

 

[AveryElle]

When my scalp hurts for days after good grips and tugs. Uncomfortable but a hot reminder of a good time

 

[gracie920101]

Bunny ear masks kinda freak me out.

 

[gracie920101]

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[Orchidea73]

Having control taken away from me.

This.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Cutting off clothes...

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

So vulnerable

 

[base10]

Extended submission. Not just for playtime, but for a longer period of time, like a whole day or weekend. To try to keep a sub totally under control and in subspace the entire time. To control her completely, making all decision: clothing, eating, drinking, bathroom, sex, where to sit, everything.

It seems overwhelming and exciting at the same time.

 

[AnnieLit]

Extended submission. Not just for playtime, but for a longer period of time, like a whole day or weekend. To try to keep a sub totally under control and in subspace the entire time. To control her completely, making all decision: clothing, eating, drinking, bathroom, sex, where to sit, everything.

It seems overwhelming and exciting at the same time.

You probably meant extended TPE, not keeping her in sub-space for that long.

 

[base10]

You probably meant extended TPE, not keeping her in sub-space for that long.

Yes, wrong terminology, but that's what I meant.

 

[base10]

Check, please!

I couldn’t do it.

Would be interesting and fun to try

 

[AnnieLit]

So vulnerable

So His.
For me it is hard to think of a more emotionally comfortable position.

 

[BadAmy]

Extended submission. Not just for playtime, but for a longer period of time, like a whole day or weekend. To try to keep a sub totally under control and in subspace the entire time. To control her completely, making all decision: clothing, eating, drinking, bathroom, sex, where to sit, everything.

It seems overwhelming and exciting at the same time.

god...if only.


but i wouldn't feel uncomfortable. I would be in my happy place.

 

[AnnieLit]

Check, please!

I couldn’t do it.

But you did try?
Which part turned out to be the hardest? Food? Sleep? Something else?

 

[Orchidea73]

No.

I’m not interested. It doesn’t make me uncomfortable because it doesn’t intrigue me in the least.

Ditto!
I don't find it Gahhh!

 

[Orchidea73]

Ahaha!
I adore you, O.

Right back at you.

 

[riverj]

This is a superlative post....