Thoughts On Reverse Cowgirl

Was reading some of the posts and it seems half and half. For me it’s one of my least fav positions. Never feels like the right angle and not the most comfortable. Either the angle of my vagina or the angle of his dick or both. I enjoy most other ‘behind’ me positions but this one is not as good lol. One fun one we do do sometimes I will start that way then lean back on his chest looking up. Like spoon but both of us looking up. Just chiming in in case anyone cares 🤣
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Like other guys have said, I enjoy the view, one of my old lovers used to love this position for both anal and vaginal sex - she said that my cock rubbed her in a whole different way in this position. I don't think she found it any more tiring than being on top facing me.
 
I am a larger lady and don’t have much stamina for being on top. It is more of a grinding for me. I do prefer the eye contact and being able to see my husband while in regular cowgirl. However he loves the view of my big ass and hips in reverse cowgirl so when we do have sex that position is used occasionally.
 
I am a larger lady and don’t have much stamina for being on top. It is more of a grinding for me. I do prefer the eye contact and being able to see my husband while in regular cowgirl. However he loves the view of my big ass and hips in reverse cowgirl so when we do have sex that position is used occasionally.
My wife and I just enjoyed a reverse cowgirl and seeing her ass grinding was indeed a major turn on.
We don't do it every time but variety is the spice of life
 
Was reading some of the posts and it seems half and half. For me it’s one of my least fav positions. Never feels like the right angle and not the most comfortable. Either the angle of my vagina or the angle of his dick or both. I enjoy most other ‘behind’ me positions but this one is not as good lol. One fun one we do do sometimes I will start that way then lean back on his chest looking up. Like spoon but both of us looking up. Just chiming in in case anyone cares 🤣
It's a work in progress, you gotta find the right fit. Think of it like trying to fit a round peg through a square hole, and once you get the correct fit everything works out great.:)
 
I had a girlfriend who loved this position because it stimulated her g-spot. If we started in cowgirl, it wouldn't be long until she spun around into the reverse position. I also liked it because the sensitive underside of my dick rubbed against the front wall of her vagina. If you've tried reverse cowgirl and don't like it, fair enough. If not, give it a go 🙂
 
I don’t think my hole is THAT square 🤣
And here I always thought your special gift is similar to playdough, you can make it into whatever shape is needed to get the correct result, then like magic it snaps back into the original shape (after you re-shaping of course). Will wonders never cease...:)
 
Was reading some of the posts and it seems half and half. For me it’s one of my least fav positions. Never feels like the right angle and not the most comfortable. Either the angle of my vagina or the angle of his dick or both. I enjoy most other ‘behind’ me positions but this one is not as good lol. One fun one we do do sometimes I will start that way then lean back on his chest looking up. Like spoon but both of us looking up. Just chiming in in case anyone cares 🤣
I love when she lays back on me as you described. My hands can reach her breasts and clit while I’m buried inside her.
 
I feel that reverse cowgirl is one of those positions that's better in porn than in the bedroom. ... Has anyone else tried reverse cowgirl? Do you enjoy it?
Speaking as a PWaP (person with a penis), I love to get ass fucked this way. Very sensual, gives me complete control of the situation— and the other person loves the view.

(If you want to experiment further, try this: instead of this porn version you describe, make it slow and sensuous. No thrusting, on his part. Have him lie passively. You focus on your own pleasure, and let him just ride your tailwind (so to speak). Spread his thighs a bit and put your hands on his knees or lower thighs for balance. Lift with your thighs. He can put his hands on your hips or ass, provide a little bit of lift— but not so much that he's doing all the work, and especially not so much that you're not in complete control.)

And always remember: porn is not an instruction manual— porn is a very poor imitation of real life.
 
Was reading some of the posts and it seems half and half. For me it’s one of my least fav positions. Never feels like the right angle and not the most comfortable. Either the angle of my vagina or the angle of his dick or both. I enjoy most other ‘behind’ me positions but this one is not as good lol. One fun one we do do sometimes I will start that way then lean back on his chest looking up. Like spoon but both of us looking up. Just chiming in in case anyone cares 🤣
Would enjoy trying this out wuth you...:)
 
I occasionally like to watch a porn video for story inspiration or for fun with my husband, and reverse cowgirl is one of my favorite sex positions on video - but only on video.

Porn is obviously meant to be a spectacle. It's a visual performance for the viewer which necessarily involves the performers getting into positions most normal couples wouldn't use, and reverse cowgirl is a perfect example. Aesthetically speaking, reverse cowgirl looks gorgeous, especially in high-quality productions. The woman is foregrounded and centered, showing us the expressions on her face, her bouncing breasts and bare belly, her exposed pussy and legs spread wide with a cock thrusting up in between them. The man is mostly doing the work of fucking her, but he's obscured by the female performer. We only see him below the waist, and that's all we need to see of him; his legs spread wide, his cock penetrating her from below, and his balls bouncing with the force of his thrusting.

Having said all that, I feel that reverse cowgirl is one of those positions that's better in porn than in the bedroom. My husband and I try it once or twice in a blue moon, and it always tires my arms and legs out keeping myself balanced and staying propped up while he fucks me from below. His arms are a lot stronger than mine, but propping my body up is still tiring for him while also coordinating his hip thrusting. It feels like a lot of extra work for both of us whenever we try it, and because we don't fuck for an audience, nobody gets to enjoy the sight of me fully frontally nude. I also don't get to face my husband and interact with him eye-to-eye, which is pretty important to me during sex.

These are obviously my own thoughts. Has anyone else tried reverse cowgirl? Do you enjoy it?
I, like you, don’t ride reverse often. When I do it’s to pleasure myself as much as give him a show from behind and massage his legs and feet simultaneously. I am on my knees as opposed to my feet which gives more lasting power. Maybe you could try that sometime.

I don’t watch porn. So find it interesting that the males are doing the work there. I do it to be the giver in my bed. He is typically the one doing the “work” haha.
 
I occasionally like to watch a porn video for story inspiration or for fun with my husband, and reverse cowgirl is one of my favorite sex positions on video - but only on video.

Porn is obviously meant to be a spectacle. It's a visual performance for the viewer which necessarily involves the performers getting into positions most normal couples wouldn't use, and reverse cowgirl is a perfect example. Aesthetically speaking, reverse cowgirl looks gorgeous, especially in high-quality productions. The woman is foregrounded and centered, showing us the expressions on her face, her bouncing breasts and bare belly, her exposed pussy and legs spread wide with a cock thrusting up in between them. The man is mostly doing the work of fucking her, but he's obscured by the female performer. We only see him below the waist, and that's all we need to see of him; his legs spread wide, his cock penetrating her from below, and his balls bouncing with the force of his thrusting.

Having said all that, I feel that reverse cowgirl is one of those positions that's better in porn than in the bedroom. My husband and I try it once or twice in a blue moon, and it always tires my arms and legs out keeping myself balanced and staying propped up while he fucks me from below. His arms are a lot stronger than mine, but propping my body up is still tiring for him while also coordinating his hip thrusting. It feels like a lot of extra work for both of us whenever we try it, and because we don't fuck for an audience, nobody gets to enjoy the sight of me fully frontally nude. I also don't get to face my husband and interact with him eye-to-eye, which is pretty important to me during sex.

These are obviously my own thoughts. Has anyone else tried reverse cowgirl? Do you enjoy it?
As the man, I do assist, at least part of the time.

I also love when a woman does the squatting fuck, and definitely grab her hips and help with the motion, but that is usually better facing so she can grab my shoulders, lean forward, pivot on her knees.

With one woman, she was kneeling holding my ankles and thrusting back against me. Doing all the work, but in control of how hard. I started stroking her ass; with some lube, I started rubbing her around her anal rim. Then I pushed my thumb inside inside. She was loving that. I know, depends on the woman, some love anal, others not as much. She didn't know she would love it, but pretty soon my thumb was buried to the web of my hand. I held it still so she could control the speed and depth. She was ramming herself back on my thumb and cock, and had a nice orgasm. Then she wanted me to fuck her ass, first time for her, and came again.
 
Reverse cowgirl is my favorite position.

When my wife rides me, it’s more like she gets in position and I fuck her hard from below - with her facing away from me.

In this position, my cock hits her g spot perfectly and she will squirt and orgasm usually after just a few thrusts. I love fucking her hard from this position - she just squirts and squirts and squirts. (It’s soooo hot!)

It’s not a position we do too often, maybe once a month or so. We had a nice session this last weekend and ya gotta plan ahead and put down the towels on the bed. 🤪
 
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