Thoughts put to writing

[RedHairedandFriendly]

I haven't really looked. I have found any blokes on here that really want to play the role of a cuckold. I have one thread idea on hold because of that

Ah, that can be hard for some men to want to write. You may have to consider writing both male perspectives.

 

[EkedSad]

Ah, that can be hard for some men to want to write. You may have to consider writing both male perspectives.

Hard to put myself in that postion, as my real self would never allow it.

 

[chronicle_tenko]

Hard to put myself in that postion, as my real self would never allow it.

Which is really part of why other men won't want to write it either. The appeal is not in being the cuckold. For some maybe, but by and large, there are exceedingly few men who want that to happen, and thusly want to write it. Especially in the sense of Role play. Because your character is only there to be humiliated, and cheated on.

In a sense. You really might have to write both sides to that.

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

I guess you have to decide a few things.

Do you like the story enough to write both parts? Do you want to expand your writing ability by writing both the weaker male and the stronger one? Or are you simply writing the story for the erotic charge you'll get from the sexual scenes?

I've written Dominate women and men, and I find writing dominate men easier for me to write than women, and struggle with writing a Domme, but I do it, because it helps me become a better writer in the long run. I'm not a Domme sexually, not at all, but writing one forces me to grow and reach beyond the sex.

Edited to add:

With that said I can write a sadistic dominate woman - but it's hard to write that loving dominate woman.

 

[EkedSad]

Will respond to you shortly Red, but had to post this picture cause I really thought it was hot/cool

 

[EkedSad]

mmmmm...

 

[EkedSad]

I guess you have to decide a few things.

Do you like the story enough to write both parts? Do you want to expand your writing ability by writing both the weaker male and the stronger one? Or are you simply writing the story for the erotic charge you'll get from the sexual scenes?

I've written Dominate women and men, and I find writing dominate men easier for me to write than women, and struggle with writing a Domme, but I do it, because it helps me become a better writer in the long run. I'm not a Domme sexually, not at all, but writing one forces me to grow and reach beyond the sex.

Edited to add:

With that said I can write a sadistic dominate woman - but it's hard to write that loving dominate woman.

Here's my concern, writing as a submissive male lowers me to their level. I don't want to think like them, it's just not in my nature. This conflicts though with my easy going nature. So yes it might make me a stronger writer...but do i really want to put myself in that mind set...not really..

 

[DarkWarrioress]

My two cents:

Write what you feel. There are other challenges that can make you a stronger, better writer. Maybe, later, who knows? You'll feel comfortable exploring other horizons or then again, maybe not. To each his/her own. When push comes to shove, you need to enjoy what and how you write or why do it? If you try to push yourself into a role you don't feel comfortable with or don't particularly want to explore, your writing will suffer for it. I know someone who wouldn't mind playing the type of role you're looking for. Is it a demeaning role? It could be. But then, he's shown me through his eyes, that isn't necessarily so and in some odd way, it can be very erotic. It's just a matter of finding the right male to write the part.

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

Here's my concern, writing as a submissive male lowers me to their level. I don't want to think like them, it's just not in my nature. This conflicts though with my easy going nature. So yes it might make me a stronger writer...but do i really want to put myself in that mind set...not really..

I understand what you're saying and if you don't want to then you've answered the question and you've explored whether or not you wish to go that route, which is really the best thing if you're not wanting that. You wouldn't enjoy it and in the end you'd not be happy with the story.

My two cents:

Write what you feel. There are other challenges that can make you a stronger, better writer. Maybe, later, who knows? You'll feel comfortable exploring other horizons or then again, maybe not. To each his/her own. When push comes to shove, you need to enjoy what and how you write or why do it? If you try to push yourself into a role you don't feel comfortable with or don't particularly want to explore, your writing will suffer for it. I know someone who wouldn't mind playing the type of role you're looking for. Is it a demeaning role? It could be. But then, he's shown me through his eyes, that isn't necessarily so and in some odd way, it can be very erotic. It's just a matter of finding the right male to write the part.

I completely agree, no one should be forced to write something they don't want to. That's why I asked what I did. I know it is hard to step out of the comfort zone. I still struggle with it and probably always will. Some things I write and look back thinking "Really? Did you really want to go there?" It definitely all comes down to the enjoyment aspect and it's good to consider new things and wipe out the ones you don't desire to play out.

 

[EkedSad]

yummy

yummy

 

[kairotic]

I understand what you're saying and if you don't want to then you've answered the question and you've explored whether or not you wish to go that route, which is really the best thing if you're not wanting that. You wouldn't enjoy it and in the end you'd not be happy with the story.



I completely agree, no one should be forced to write something they don't want to. That's why I asked what I did. I know it is hard to step out of the comfort zone. I still struggle with it and probably always will. Some things I write and look back thinking "Really? Did you really want to go there?" It definitely all comes down to the enjoyment aspect and it's good to consider new things and wipe out the ones you don't desire to play out.

Hi everyone --
I've wanted to get into SRP for a while and have no idea how to start. But reading this thread I really appreciated the intelligent discussion. Whatever I end up writing, I feel I'll be better for it. Much appreciated.

End of threadjack, continue about your business.

 

[EkedSad]

Hi everyone --
I've wanted to get into SRP for a while and have no idea how to start. But reading this thread I really appreciated the intelligent discussion. Whatever I end up writing, I feel I'll be better for it. Much appreciated.

End of threadjack, continue about your business.

Heh, you an't jacking the thread buddy, feel free to add your two cents, thats what this thread is here for. Thanks for stopping by

 

[EkedSad]

Sexy much!!

 

[sapphicus68]

I have a few idea's ...
• woman boss tries to fire one of her employees, but ends up getting fucked by him instead.
•Cheerleader fucking the coach to get her boyfriend some playing time
•Woman at a gym watches her boyfriend\husband get knocked out and gets fucked by some of the other boxers (could be a gang bang)
•Lonely home setter wife gets a visit from a solider passing though
•Husband jokingly bets his wife to his friend that the Cubs will win the world series. When they don’t, the man comes to collect.
•Wife has to pay off Husbands gambling debits, and later starts to just come over for a fuck.
•To save her husband from being beat up or killed in jail, a woman is forced to pleasure a man every time she comes in for congenial visits
•Couple's passports are expired, and the wife has to please the air security in order to get them back in the country

love the tension of the cubs bet.

the female boss pink slip scenario could go several directions...angry? or an act of sympathy for a destraught ex-employee? or a discovery of mutual atraction previously prohibited? very fun

 

[sapphicus68]

Hard to put myself in that postion, as my real self would never allow it.

you might find an interested party on the "> GLBT Chatter > Licking her while she's getting fucked" forum. frequent discussion of cuckold situations. this may be the link http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=788344

 

[EkedSad]

you might find an interested party on the "> GLBT Chatter > Licking her while she's getting fucked" forum. frequent discussion of cuckold situations. this may be the link http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=788344

Thanks for the tip, ill give it a shot.

 

[EkedSad]

Superman never looked so good

 

[EkedSad]

Ok this one too...

 

[EkedSad]

Move like a butterfly, sting like a bee baby!

Kind gives me an idea for a story..

 

[EkedSad]

This one too!!!

 

[EkedSad]

These ones too!!!

 

[EkedSad]

Kind of been slacking the last four days. Its funny because I leave for Brazil on business here in like 4 days (visa pending).

Anyway, I’ve come to the conclusion I like to take things that aren’t mine. Its similar to a child, but I’m no kid. I simply don’t have it in my life, so I take others. Perhaps this explains my odd tastes in roleplay at times, as the talk above as noted, not being able to do a submissive role as I do a dominate role. I don’t want to be the one that has something taken from him.

 

[EkedSad]

 

[DarkWarrioress]

*pops in to leave him a little present*

 

[EkedSad]

*pops in to leave him a little present*

http://youtu.be/um4-d7VzZiE