Threesome experience

He wasn't really my boyfriend ... more a casual thing that really was pretty much just about the sex.
Oh then he has no standing for jealousy lol

But i suppose not everyone is like me. Just go to regular club and come home with a harem.
 
Men 🙄 lol..id do fmf but not if the man was my bf to be fair

To be honest FMF threesomes are more fun and easy as almost all the participants are involved and excited to be part of.. (experience from the few that I had)

My MFM experience teaches me that, I have to satisfy two people who won't even acknowledge their own touch.. and act like spinx for few seconds if they touch each other even by accident.
 
To be honest FMF threesomes are more fun and easy as almost all the participants are involved and excited to be part of.. (experience from the few that I had)

My MFM experience teaches me that, I have to satisfy two people who won't even acknowledge their own touch.. and act like spinx for few seconds if they touch each other even by accident.

I'm engaged in a long term process of organising one with two guys who have discovered, later in their lives, that they're a bit bi. I introduced them too each other on the site that I met both of them on, and they're getting on like a house on fire, in a cutely sexy way. Unfortunately we're all at a bit of a distance, and have slightly complex lives, so organising meeting up is tricky ... I'm hopeful it'll happen after Christmas. But they're totally on board with the whole 'we're all in this together' concept. I'm quietly optimistic.
 
I'm engaged in a long term process of organising one with two guys who have discovered, later in their lives, that they're a bit bi. I introduced them too each other on the site that I met both of them on, and they're getting on like a house on fire, in a cutely sexy way. Unfortunately we're all at a bit of a distance, and have slightly complex lives, so organising meeting up is tricky ... I'm hopeful it'll happen after Christmas. But they're totally on board with the whole 'we're all in this together' concept. I'm quietly optimistic.


This sounds like a fun situation. I hope it works out.
 
This sounds like a fun situation. I hope it works out.

Me too. They're both around my age, and just nice and easy about the whole thing. I love that they've hit it off so well ... I feel like a little dodgy website cupid. They keep messaging me independently to report on their chats, and how excited they are to find a guy they get on with.

Maybe I missed my calling.
 
Thread dedicated to all the people to learn more about Do's and Don'ts in the threesome world..
Please share your experiences good, bad, nasty, kinky any experience is good as it's a learning for rest.

LOL Mine is DO NOT pick the other person if YOU are the ONE suggesting it. I would ALWAYS let the other person pick the 3rd. that way most insecurities are out the window, lay down the ground rules Before hand. and stick to them. watch your partner to make sure they are 100 in the sitch and roll with it. I have found being a 3some vet (LOL) that the other person MUST NOT feel threatened in any circumstance because when the other person leaves there is ALWAYS a linguring feeling of ...Is he thinking about her or are they texting each other. so its best to keep the 3rd a n almost complete stranger...if you are "new in the game"... if you are not you probably have been down the path multiple time and have gained your own technique :) That is how I handle my threesomes <3
 
LOL Mine is DO NOT pick the other person if YOU are the ONE suggesting it. I would ALWAYS let the other person pick the 3rd. that way most insecurities are out the window, lay down the ground rules Before hand. and stick to them. watch your partner to make sure they are 100 in the sitch and roll with it. I have found being a 3some vet (LOL) that the other person MUST NOT feel threatened in any circumstance because when the other person leaves there is ALWAYS a linguring feeling of ...Is he thinking about her or are they texting each other. so its best to keep the 3rd a n almost complete stranger...if you are "new in the game"... if you are not you probably have been down the path multiple time and have gained your own technique :) That is how I handle my threesomes <3

💯% right.. feeling of insecurity can dampen any relationship. I hear what you are saying.. I feel the same. Strangers are less risky.
 
So you need to find two guys with exactly the same sized cocks, in case the other guy has the same issue.
Lol. The stupid thing was, the guy I was talking with about there had a HUGE penis. Biggest I've ever seen outside porn.
 
Reminds me of an open relationship rule that I have seen some cisgender men enforce with their partners, those partners usually being either cisgender women or transmasculine. The rule is coloquially referred to as the One Penis Policy (especially by those who criticize it): You can fuck whomever you want, as long as they don't have a penis.

Eugh.

The possessiveness and insecurity of it all. Also, the devaluation of the vagina. Among other nonsense going on.

Yep, I've seen this with my own two eyes.
saw a friend get roped into an arrangement like that, it didn't end well
 
Reminds me of an open relationship rule that I have seen some cisgender men enforce with their partners, those partners usually being either cisgender women or transmasculine. The rule is coloquially referred to as the One Penis Policy (especially by those who criticize it): You can fuck whomever you want, as long as they don't have a penis.

Eugh.

The possessiveness and insecurity of it all. Also, the devaluation of the vagina. Among other nonsense going on.

Yep, I've seen this with my own two eyes.

It amazes me how many guys (and I'm sure women too) can't see their hypocrisy around this sort of thing. Slightly off topic, but I had a boyfriend who I was negotiating a non-monogamous relationship with (which, I know now, should never really be a 'negotiation', but rather a discussion). He said it was OK (yes, another red flag), but had a list of 'needs' that made it almost impossible for me to see anyone else, or at least without it being a huge hassle. In the end, I never DID see anyone else while I was with him ... but he slept with someone else, saying it was 'just to see how it made him feel'. And with no 'negotiation' about what 'needs' I might have around that.
 
I guess some would say I’ve been luck because I’ve kinda had 4. the first one I was real excited about, actually too excited. Then I felt stupid just watching so I left. The second time one girl was Interest in the other and the other was interested in me. So that really didn’t work out. Then the third, I thought the girls were more interested in each other, so I felt like a third wheel and left. Then later I found out that wasn’t the case. The 4th I was in a relationship with one of the girls and shortly into it my gf hit the other girl. So that didn’t really work out.
 
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I’ve had a couple. Fun, but fucking exhausting.

Do’s - pay attention to everyone involved. Mine were fmf, and I made sure I did everything to each of them I did to the other, ask for limits before or ground rules. Be super clean, I showered right before as did they, you don’t need anyone’s funk messing things up as you will be willingly or accidentally getting your nose in places you might not normally. Relax, the first time is really intimidating expect some fits and starts. Hydrate.

donts - don’t get angry / jealous if you get left out for a bit. Don’t be an asshole about what they won’t do. If they dont like eating ass, pussy, et Al don’t try to cajole them into it.
 
I've had 3..
The 1st was when I was being devirginized... My best friend, her BF, myself..I learned how to give head that night.. It was fun!!

2nd..a couple I met on line(mf).. spent the whole weekend in a motel, showered with attention, a movie, meals, booze.. The first night was textbook 3 sum.. Serving night, I let the husband fuck me while she was asleep, the next morning, I surprised her after her shower by eating her pussy and making her cum.. While he was out getting coffee..😈

3rd.. another friend. I wanted to fuck her ex husband, somehow she ended up playing with me too!! He fucked me, while she masturbated.. Then I turned and licked her clean..
 
I've had 3..
The 1st was when I was being devirginized... My best friend, her BF, myself..I learned how to give head that night.. It was fun!!

2nd..a couple I met on line(mf).. spent the whole weekend in a motel, showered with attention, a movie, meals, booze.. The first night was textbook 3 sum.. Serving night, I let the husband fuck me while she was asleep, the next morning, I surprised her after her shower by eating her pussy and making her cum.. While he was out getting coffee..😈

3rd.. another friend. I wanted to fuck her ex husband, somehow she ended up playing with me too!! He fucked me, while she masturbated.. Then I turned and licked her clean..
That sounds intensely hot. Especially number two. My husband and I have been in similar situations quite a few times.
 
Sounds like I was lucky, well the few times I was in a threesome. Same two people each time, my sister and her husband. We just had fun. No performance expectations, just fun being naked and together.

Okay that is hot enough to be a Lit story.
 
25 years ago the spouse and I were figuring out poly and started with a one-penis policy because at the time I was mostly into women anyway and was terrified of getting pregnant. And without the resources now available online, we were making it up as we went along. 18 months later after I'd been dumped by a lady, spouse felt he could cope with me seeing another man as long as they were a decent guy, "like X".

Cut to a year later and X and I got together (we still are). I hoped for kinky threesomes. They were about 90% and 99% straight, not freaked out by each other, but sadly never got them together beyond a quick experimental kiss. Both of them playing with me is OK but thing with threesomes is just too many elbows and knees and generally if one man is giving you mind-blowing sexual pleasure, anything the other does is just going to be annoying, so better not bothering. Not to mention needing one to babysit, back in the day.

Tried having the pair of them topping me. Thing is, when going all dom, one goes very quiet and serious, while the other gets all giggly and manic. Either is fine, but together it's just too much - had to safeword because it does my head in. So beyond a bit of physical assistance, passing water or kit in a club, say, they stay separate.

Now, women - a number of them together can be lots of fun, though again the elbows and knees problem, until your bed breaks...
 
i love a naughty threesome with a devote couple (female/male)
but also i think it is very hot to have a sub/guy and a TS to play with
forced bi - so hot ...
or spank a female and her partner (boyfriend or husband) has to watch it
how i use her
Me, a kinky lady and a TS would be incredibly hot.
 
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