Personally, I think a lot of men dream about MFM. We all know that men obsess about FMF and its over played in the media. As for the menage (mfm) some men are afraid to admit they love watching their wife being pleasures (insecurities some times set in), the sight of a hard cock excites them (fear of being labeled as bi or cuckold), and of course in the back of a lot of men's mind is the fear that the wife might leave him for a man with a bigger cock.
A lot of women are bi curious but hate to have another woman in her territory
I love the assumptions, based on the "Media"... 'We all know me are obsessed with FMF, On the contrary, it's girl/girl, watching or the wife telling the details. As for the lame-stream media...If you haven't noticed. There wrong more often then not...
You are correct...the insecurities are true. Maybe even the labels..that is, if you're telling the world your sharing your wife.. The; leaving for that big cock, might play in...if your seeking a guy with a big cock.. Maybe he has a small dick, great personality and lot of money...
I have another perspective...I've been the man (#3 of the 3sum) invited in...though my invitation was different than most..those details aren't necessary. I wan't at all experienced with this idea of MFM. The couple had tried it once before, and it didn't turn out the way they had thought...so much for the big cock...came a big ego...
I can say. It was more them than me...they made it comfortable, then we all made it exciting. They were a wonderful secure, happy couple. If the MFM never happened, they wouldn't have lost any sleep. the first time was rather clumsy to say the least...nerves, everything you thought, the way it looked on porn...you realize, real life, bumping heads...positioning. You could say rather comical. Then he said....." I'll watch for a bit"
jsonny....don't 'obsess' over it. You might think bungee jumping or jumping of a 40' cliff into the Colorad'a river is great fun..until you're standing on the edge. Your brain is telling you...Don't jump. Just counting to '3'....that hesitation is real. Trust it. You may jump, but trust you first instinct. If you want it to happen, you'll find a way.
