THTM: Two-Hour Torture Method

[rexfelis]

I anxiously await the sound of satisfied purring! Best of luck to you both!

And thanks Rex for the wonderful contibution! BTW, I have used your "teacher" method with astounding results.

Used it, or had it used on YOU? Hehheheh

Petrel, there are lots of creative ways to get something done the way you want it done. The trick is to make it happen in such a way that the other person's ego is not wounded. Most people are fairly insecure as it is, and once they think they have something good enough, they stick with it. It never feels good to be wrong, inadequate, etc.

So, whatever you do, unless he can handle the direct aproach that I prefer, do it in a way that keeps him thinking in an entirely different direction.

One that I would think would be interesting would be to tie him down and then rub yourself on him and "torture" him by getting off that way. Say out loud exactly how you are pleasing yourself as part of the tease. Then show him what he's been missing and what he can expect if he does it your way.

There is also the possibility of telling him you have recently discovered some new technique while masturbating, and explain it in detail so he can try it. That way he thinks that there could not possibly be any fault on his part because you just discovered it yourself. Makes it very easy to share and deal with.

There's a lot of ways. You just have to be creative. Think it through a bit. Sometimes, it helps to work it backwards - recreating the situation as you think it would happen from the end to the beginning.

Yes, do share with us how you tried to get what you want and how it went.

 

[rexfelis]

I just remembered a really good one. Never had it done to me, but I can fantasize.

Straddle him as he lays down so that he is looking directly up into you pleasuring yourself. Then give him a guided tour!

 

[Miltone]

More good ideas ...

There is nothing that makes a journey more exciting than a good tour guide. I don't know if anybody said that before, so I'll claim credit now. One of the best relationships that I ever had was when a woman showed me early on how she pleased herself. She showed exactly how she liked to touch herself, the amount of pressure and style etc. Once having seen that and with a bit of creativity tossed in, we embarked upon a wondrous journey of discovery.

One thing that becomes apparent as we discuss this, is the need for communication, by whatever means suits the purpose or setting. Communicate by showing, by telling, using smoke signals, just so long as the idea gets through.

 

[rexfelis]

Re: More good ideas ...

One thing that becomes apparent as we discuss this, is the need for communication, by whatever means suits the purpose or setting. Communicate by showing, by telling, using smoke signals, just so long as the idea gets through.

Open, honest communication: It's not just for saving your failing relationship anymore.

Personally, I like to ask a lot of questions. I am a firm believer in the power of open, honest communication. It can work miracles.

 

[lizabella]

Thank You Professor


Hiya Professor,
You know I am a huge fan of this method, and of the reverse as well. As long as you have a willing recipient(which I did).....what more could you ask for. As for his reaction, well let's just say he said things he had never before said and done things afterwards never before done!! THANKS SO MUCH!!



Oh BTW.....Good Luck! Have A Great Weekend!!

 

[Miltone]

So glad to be of service, Texas, and nice to see you post here!

You know, your experience is what we're talking about, being able to broaden the range of pleasure for all participants. This isn't news to the guys who have been using the method in some form for a while. Was talking to another friend down in Texas who was well into her twenties before she met a man who knew that oral was reciprocal.

 

[lizabella]

Patience & Restraints

Thanks professor,
Glad to finally be posting! LOL

But I do have one suggestion for everyone....well for those of you who are "patiently challenged", as I am...padded restraints are recomended when the tables are turned and you are on the receiving end!
As someone said earlier making love to someone isn't just you give, he gives, and then get it on....there is no fun in that and where is the lovemaking? When you find someone who is willing to even try to pleasure you for hours at a time....HOLD ON TO THEM!!! I had never known such an experience even existed, man I am glad I finally found it! As for your other Texas friend....know how she feels...must be wearing the same shoes! LOL

BTW for those of you who are unfamiliar with the term "patiently challenged" it means someone that has trouble being patient.....There are support groups out there so check your local phone book for avaliable chapters!LMAO!!!! I promise good things go come from being patient!!!