Time to try sex with out objectification

[LadynStFreknBed]

Oh, that's quite fine. Maybe I'll bring my snorkel just to make the uninterrupted flow more progressive!

geez, I must need it more than I thought since the mention of the snorkel got me thinking...

 

[AlphaMale215]

Just shut up and bend over lol

 

[IrezumiKiss]

geez, I must need it more than I thought since the mention of the snorkel got me thinking...

Hey, hey, hey! You're not thinking of using that snorkel without me, are ya?

I'm not eighteen years old anymore, but I'm perfectly good to go for at least three times, ey!

 

[LadynStFreknBed]

Hey, hey, hey! You're not thinking of using that snorkel without me, are ya?

I'm not eighteen years old anymore, but I'm perfectly good to go for at least three times, ey!

I don't really care how many times you are good to go.. I'll cum 6 times before your first. LOL

 

[IrezumiKiss]

I don't really care how many times you are good to go.. I'll cum 6 times before your first. LOL

Hence, the need for that snorkel. I don't wanna drown before I get to have my first goodie, you know?

 

[LadynStFreknBed]

Hence, the need for that snorkel. I don't wanna drown before I get to have my first goodie, you know?

yeah... you'll definitely need it...

 

[IrezumiKiss]

yeah... you'll definitely need it...

Might I be able to see what will be consuming my lips & cock before I take the plunge?

 

[LadynStFreknBed]

Might I be able to see what will be consuming my lips & cock before I take the plunge?

Aren't you just an eager beaver...
oh, wait.. that's me.

LOL
I think I may have objectified myself on this thread. LOL

What's the difference between a woman or character who is objectified or just loves sex anyway? I assume the "objectified" woman would not enjoy the sex she was having. A lot of women enjoy a lot of different things. Something that is degrading to one is a real turn on to someone else. It would be very difficult for a woman to point to a story and say, "See! That objectifies women," when not all women would see it that way at all.

-Sheila

 

[emap]

Hey now, I don't think we were supposed to think in this thread.

So funny thing, if women are objectified in porn, wouldn't it stand to reason men are as well? I mean I know I watch porn to see a man and a woman, or a woman and a woman or a man and a man having sex. Oh wait I forgot the transsexuals, I like those to. So it stands to reason that a woman, man or transsexual is objectified by being in those videos having sex for money that the partner in said acts is also being objectified.

Last I checked being objectified by a video means everyone in said video is also objectified. Kinda weird how we never hear men complain about how they are turned into sex toys by porn. I don't know maybe that is because just about all men have watched and own porn. At least that was according to a survery I remember seeing a few years, said 94% of all men aged 18-30 have watched and own porn. Hmmm, come to think on it a bit more, i beleive it was only 80 % owned, but still.

Oh shoot, I thought in this thread, bad me bad.

 

[starrkers]

Bare with me. I already know that many people will react poorly to my claims. But the key word here is "react." Rather than reacting, why not respond? Take time to use critical analysis and then respond thoughtfully.

I am a fan of erotic literature. It is a pleasant way to experience arousal without being bombarded with the gonzo tactics of visual pornography. Sadly, I am noticing more and more, that writers for Literotica are simply relaying the same messages that gonzo porn aims to relay: women are not people they are objects with holes to be used at their male partners' whim. The other myth being displayed is that a women's pleasure is contingent on the pleasure of her male partners.

My holes are not meant to be used by pool sticks, multiple “cocks” or for the visual stimulus of men. Believe it or not, female sexuality is much more than a collection of holes awaiting male penetration.

I am tired of having to stop reading stories because they become degrading (towards anyone really) or are just outright abusive. If anyone is confused about what FEELS GOOD to a woman, I can assure you that being used for our holes – DOES NOT FEEL GOOD and is a sexual buzz kill.

I know there are people who disagree with me – but I also know that many people do not have a sense of what sexuality is separate from what they have been exposed to in the media.

We have serious sexual dysfunction happening in our culture and I challenge everyone to step outside of the porn-controlled idea of sex and step into the true eroticism of sex... Which is in no way about harm or objectification. If you associate sex with causing harm, then you may need to ponder why. It is not to judge people – my intent is to say that MANY WOMEN are tired of being portrayed as sexually insatiable THINGS that just want to fuck anything and suck cock until the cows come home.

Writers... try to be imaginative. Try to actually be erotic rather than just regurgitating the BS perpetuated by the multi-billion $ porn industry.

Remember your mother, your sister and your daughter are being treated as objects because of the belief that women are things to use.

Think about it.

And I'm sure many men are just as tired of being portrayed as the life suppport system for a cock.

Please go and read a few stories, get off and loosen up a bit before ranting at us.

 

[IrezumiKiss]

Has anyone tried sex without subjectification yet?

 

[off2bed]

Now that we've got the "reaction" part out of the way , I'll "respond" to the OP with an agreement. I'll also agree with the post about men being the life support system for a cock. How boring!

The main reason I like Literotica is because it's an alternative to the bang bang bang bang switch positions bang bang bang bang switch positions, bang bang bang, spurt that you see everywhere. Sure, there are stories written like that here, but if I see one I just skip it and move on.

She's right that eroticism comes from the whole being, the situation, the mind. The sexual organs are secondary.

 

[TxRad]

Now that we've got the "reaction" part out of the way , I'll "respond" to the OP with an agreement. I'll also agree with the post about men being the life support system for a cock. How boring!

The main reason I like Literotica is because it's an alternative to the bang bang bang bang switch positions bang bang bang bang switch positions, bang bang bang, spurt that you see everywhere. Sure, there are stories written like that here, but if I see one I just skip it and move on.

She's right that eroticism comes from the whole being, the situation, the mind. The sexual organs are secondary.

The brain is the biggest "sex organ" in the body. That about sums it up.

I would like to add, that I have had a lot of comments over the years that point to the fact that I like women. Yeah, I do as a matter of fact. The commenter went on to say that it showed in my writing. I'm glad of that.

So I guess there are stories on Lit that treat women like objects in a porn movie. I'd hope they were in the minority. We have a lot of writers here from every walk of life and every age group. Some may not even know anything about sex except what they've seen in porn.

Oh well, back to being objectified as a dirty old man from Texas.

 

[tickledkitty]

Never mind. In a mood.

 

[Oblimo]

Fetish pornography is about personifying objects, oh holey one, not the other way 'round.

 

[The_Fractal_King]

Fetish pornography is about personifying objects, oh holey one, not the other way 'round.

Not in forniphilic porn. (ain't wiki grand?)