To give or receive

[kingkoll]

I really do love the gift of giving

you can give to me

 

[TatteredRagDoIly]

To give or receive

I much prefer giving!

 

[Jason37]

My first time was giving... and what I lacked in technique I made up for in enthusiasm. And was completely hooked from the start and very eager to practice and get better and better.

Don't get me wrong, receiving is great.

But I'm a giver at heart

 

[lil_jenni]

First time was giving. My cousin's BF at the time 'taught' me. He was actually a misogynistic predator, but I did not understand all that at the time.

My first time receiving was from my cousin. Her boyfriend's attitude was that women were there to please men and it was not a man's job to please a woman. He would tell us that the only three ways a woman should get off was if it was incidental to pleasing a man, if they did it themselves, or if another woman made them come. He also said that women had to get themselves off or do it for each other if it gave a man pleasure to watch them. So, my first time receiving was in the context of him watching us together for his pleasure.

It took me years to understand that one of the reasons I almost never came from a man giving to me was because that asshole polluted my mind with his nonsense.

 

[suckonsimon]

A lovely thing for me yesterday, kinda on the thread theme:

My woman was doing the giving like she often does, long and gorgeously. Meanwhile I was at work with my fingers, thinking I was preparing her for the main course. But this became the main course! So, for the first time ever my woman went through the whole distance of a really grand orgasm with her mouth full of man-meat. Her movement, her muffled moaning, and then her waves of after-pleasure while I fucked her - all spectacularly delightful.

 

[ChattyAnnie]

Giving. I had no idea what I was doing. He told me to put it in my mouth and not bite so I did.

 

[TomBoner]

It was teenage experimentation with another guy. I told him I'd pretend to be his girl friend and give him a blowjob if he did the same thing for me. So it was giving, but only by a matter of 10 minutes. I've always loved oral with either guys or girls ever since then.

 

[suckonsimon]

Giving. I had no idea what I was doing. He told me to put it in my mouth and not bite so I did.

You're totally gorgeous, ChattyAnnie. And you certainly were that day! xx

 

[Bigcoat]

100 % giving for me,
To be honest, blow jobs don't do a lot for me, but if I was unable to offer a lady oral ever again, well that's game over for me, shut up shop and head home.

 

[justlookingin]

My first oral experience was receiving, but like the original poster it made me really want to return the favour. But she was anxious about "drowning" me as she was self conscious about how wet she got. We were together several months and I never got to go down on her despite really wanting to. I think future gfs have benefitted as it made me want it more and influenced my fantasies. I absolutely love to give.

 

[ErosArtist]

My first oral experience was as the recipient...and as many have said, I was most excited to return the favor...

Giving and receiving oral remains one of most favorite activities!

 

[blackstallion21]

Had to Answer this...

I had too, haven't answered to anyone's threads like this in a while...

Anyway, My first ever experience was being the giver, and things haven't slowed down a bit! I don't ever claim to do everything right in the bedroom, but the one sentence I hear more than anything from lovers is...

How did you do that so damn well?

and it makes me smile every time!

Now, I like doing both though, getting and receiving, but I don't get to receive anywhere as near as I give, and most of me ain't mad about it! And a man can NEVER get too much head, but I don't get nearly enough!

And of course, giving and getting it at the same time...

 

[tallyguy]

Receiving

The first time I was receiving, and I probably lasted less than a minute. Wow, I never knew something would feel so great. I came back for more, and did much better. I doubt most women have any idea how much control they have over men with blowjobs.

 

[allstarhockeynutguy]

I didn't get any views for this in the playground, so I figured I'd try here. In your first experience with oral sex, was it giving or receiving? My first time was receiving, but made me very anxious to return the favor. Talking with a few in my circle of misfits, it was the same. Has anyone given oral pleasure for their first time? I'm likening it to a worldwide game of tag. What came first, cunnilingus or fellatio? Your thoughts and theories?

my first was giving, and if i recall i never received from her but a hj in return, but it did turn me into a connoisseur of the art of giving

 

[GingerChambers]

I would say giving is more satisfying than receiving at least in my opinion.

 

[Pennyshub]

Giving. Love making her happy.

 

[cliteatingman]

I love both!!!!

 

[jennyxiaoxoxo]

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[4yourpleasureiam]

first few times received then discovered I prefer giving. You would say I live to give.

 

[carlsnake]

First experience: giving. It was a couple of years before I received, and I still enjoy giving more than receiving. (Although receiving is great!)

 

[knottywifenhub]

I'm pretty sure I gave for my first time

-cece

 

[tnhardon]

My first time was giving and it went over very well. That girl loved me giving but refused to do it herself.

All things considered I probably enjoy giving more than receiving. It is fun to watch the reaction. Blowjobs are nice but don't remotely compare to actual sex in my experience. Maybe I haven't received a good enough blowjob yet lol

 

[Trigger6]

I love both giving and receiving. Love to have a women come while licking her.

 

[hottiebonnie]

My first time was giving. I was barely in my teens and my mother's boyfriend at the time "suggested" I give him oral. Even though I had no idea what I was doing, he must have enjoyed it because he came very quickly. Thank goodness he pulled out of my mouth just as he exploded because he made such a huge mess!

 

[oldnakeddad]

Ate out my girlfriend, first. Later asked her to suck my cock...she did. We both loved it all through our marriage, too.