Tongue in the bum

[bound4_fun]

I don't get it?

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[Lizzie_Borden]

What is Dr. O. talking about?

What I'm saying is she draws a line between romantic sex and kinky sex when props or scenes are introduced. For guys, at least me, I can have it either way as long as there is an emotional connection and trust.

Why is there a problem with her having the difference between the two?

There's very little I won't do, kink wise, but I do also differentiate it from 'romantic' sex, and I like both.

I just want to have a fun and creative love life. She / women need so much more. I'm willing to do what she wants to make her happy.

Has she ever said she's unhappy with what you've been doing? Just because *you* think she should want more, doesn't mean she isn't happy with the level of action she's getting.

 

[bone251]

I have had this conversation with my fuck buddy. She has crones and I have issues that mess up my stuff.
We are both very comfortable that until the monkey's stop jumping out of our asses nothing else will touch them.

 

[Dr_O]

What is Dr. O. talking about?

What I'm saying is she draws a line between romantic sex and kinky sex when props or scenes are introduced. For guys, at least me, I can have it either way as long as there is an emotional connection and trust.

I'm saying I don't think you're reading her right. You say this about her:

If she knew she would still be a respectable lady no matter how wild she got it bed, I believe it would help.

and you said she is 'inhibited,' which means you think that she is repressed, or has guilt issues, or something.

But she voluntarily licked your asshole.

I've fucked some inhibited women before, and trust me when I say that they were never, I mean never, going to voluntarily lick my asshole. In fact, when I mentioned it to them, they looked at me like I had said I was a child molester.

The point is, a woman who is comfortable enough to put her tongue the old cinnamon ring doesn't sound like Emily Dickinson.

Then you said she didn't want to be tied up, but then you sort of off-handedly mentioned that it was your anniversary.

Well, duh. On your anniversary, maybe she does want something a little more vanilla, something romantic, where you take her in your arms and gently make sweet sweet love to her.

Here's another tip: on her next birthday, try to refrain from telling her your present is to jerk off on her face.

It doesn't mean she won't consider being tied up the other 364 ... 363 days a year.

And if she thinks being tied up is "slam-bam," then tell her to give you one more chance, tie her up, put a vibrating egg in her pussy, and go to the movies.

 

[Lilac_Sky]

And if she thinks being tied up is "slam-bam," then tell her to give you one more chance, tie her up, put a vibrating egg in her pussy, and go to the movies.

LOL, Dr O, I read your post and agree with you whole-heartedly ... though maybe not quite as much with this last line

 

[kimuk]

Huh.
Let's think about this; why does she think that sex after bondage is "slam bam?" Could it be that's all she's getting after getting all tied up-- "slam bam?"

Like, it's so damn hot to see her like that that you stick in her and go off like a happy little (or well hung) rocket?
Ask any woman; Mr Dude is plenty satisfied, and her-- she gets rope burn.

Even as a female butch, topping someone I love and am connected to can send me shooting off ahead of time. Since my dick doesn't go limp though, I can continue untill she's happy as I am.

My suggestion to you is that you show her exactly how romantic bondage sex can be. That means you're going to have to keep control.

Jack off earlier in the day if you need to take the edge off.

Once you've got her tied up, make it about her and how much you luuurve her. And drag at least two orgasms out of her before you let yourself come -- in fact, try your damndest to come with her, or even-- pretend you did.

Now you've got some romance cooking, baby.

Ask her *which words and phrases she finds bothersome.*

Do not use those words for at least ten years. She'll get her sense of humor and enjoy the raunch once more-- but at her speed, not at yours. You have to use the language she speaks, if you want to get what you want. This isn't really negotiable, in my experience. If you want to negotiate, this is how you're going to have to do it.

IMO, the biggest problem between men and women is that women are wordy and men are inarticulate.

I could listen to your advice all day Stella.

I vote you the BDSM relationship guidance councellor!

Hugs hunnie x

 

[Felix_Jones]

Most of have done something we have regretted while high - especially when we were younger. I'm just saying it is easier to to let go with a little buzz on and you can always later blame the kinkiness on the booze.

Raised in New England with the Victorian sexual modesty, its difficult for many to just have fun with love making.

Just think, for people who don't drink when they wake up in the morning that's as good as they're going to feel all day.

 

[SheWolfe07]

tongue in the bum < bound4_fun > 05/15 02:33:25

Last night, I go to tie my wife up and she says, You aren't going to get freaky on me." Then while doing a 69 she puts her tongue in my ass.

Isn't putting your tongue in someone's ass more freaky than getting tied up?

Confused in CT...........

God no!

I love doing that. Every guy I ever tongue-fucked, has shot their load fairly quickly at that point.

mmmm!

 

[davalene]

God no!

I love doing that. Every guy I ever tongue-fucked, has shot their load fairly quickly at that point.

mmmm!

My gosh, just go for it! Eat that butt hole and then stick your dick in it if you are male. If you are female just think how much fun it would be to run your tongue in and out of her ass and fist fuck her at the same time. Wow what a cute tight little ass you have SheWolfe.

 

[raffi_sandoval]

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[anneski]

Why has the OP deleted all his posts and put silly comments instead? Having a bit of a sulk cos he wasn't being agreed with? How rude is that - there was some cracking advice on this thread too! People take the time to try and help and this is the thanks they get? Charming!

 

[davalene]

Keep this thread going

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OOPS - Appears that wifey may have caught up with him.

If you like to have a tongue swirled round your butt hole and feel the saliva coat you or maybe you just need some answers about having your butt tongue fucked - If so just post here and get more information than you may want. The folks here are a fun group with lots of knowledge about anal tongue. Remember, "You are the only one who knows the feeling you arrive at."

 

[SirLeo]

I love to tongue the bum and m loves to have hers tongued. Sadly, she is not a big fan of doing the tonguing, usually just a few tentative probes... Nnnetheless, my tonguing is almost always a prelude to a hot cock in ass fucking or perhaps one of my al time fav's a good cock in pussy fuck with either my thumb or a dildo/vibe in her ass.......

Talk about blow your toes off orgasms!

 

[davalene]

How about a BUMP?