I guess there would be a multitude of reasons why it’s arousing. First off, it’s a validation that your wife/girlfriend is hot and desirable. But it’s more than that. A guy likes to know that his girl is as horny as he is. Subliminally maybe it’s a competition, he’s the guy, out of all the guys she’s fucked, that she has chosen.Sorry if it feels like I’m jumping in here!
My previous boyfriend brought this topic up enough times that I know it wasn’t just a fleeting curiosity. I think it genuinely aroused him!
I was honest with him to an extent, but I didn’t give him the ‘whole’ picture. I know that’s kinda shitty of me, I do feel bad, but I was worried it’d change his opinion of me. However, like I say, I think it aroused him?
My question for any Gentlemen with experience in this particular wheelhouse is: What makes this arousing?
I know I myself don’t like hearing about a boyfriend’s previous conquests, I guess I’m kinda catty like that.
Anyway, was just interested to hear more!
- Dainty x
I love to hear her stories of sex, especially when she was dating me while still fucking other guys. For me, it’s the thought of my wife having been pleased by other men; taken their hot creamy seed in her cunt or mouth and savoring it. Maybe she behaved wilder for other men? Craved a bigger cock? Perhaps I’ve tasted the remnants of their lovemaking a few hours later, or slid my dick into her hole made slippery by another’s semen.
For men as well as women, there’s a difference between love and lust. My wife may love me, but lust after Jamie on Outlander. That’s fine. It means her libido is functioning just as well as mine.