Vintage Champagne: An Interview

Per Ardua ad Astra! Were you in safety boots or did you wear a different shoe to work each day while in the Air Force Annie? I loved maintaining and inspecting my big birds and sometimes miss the close camaraderie with my crew and squadron. But leaving the daily fellowship behind is all part of retirement and I'm blessed to have many other areas of interest to be involved with.

I would never say that I'm an expert in form or poetry, that would take far more effort than I wish to expend for now. But any ability I have with fitting words into a puzzle (that's how I approach formula) has grown up here. I learn so much from the challenges and discussing any results with other poets.

I am ok with crediting my teachers with any poetic development in my middle school years and beyond. In Grade 5 I had the privilege of being taught by an artist with a minor in English Comp. All of my teachers tended to focus on pastimes that anyone could do with paper and pencil. It's just by fluke that I don't draw well.

I once had a little thought about journalism as a career, but I'm so glad I chose to shoot a different rifle so that I married the man I love and with whom I share my terrific kids.

Through Endeavour to the Stars!! No boots for me, I was a Teleprinter Operator often working through the night to keep the planes in the air!! I loved the camaraderie too but by the time I left at 25 I had had enough of communal living in WRAF quarters ....... I once got put on charge for having a dead insect behind a row of books on my windowsill ffs !!
 
Thank you for the trip!! It was even richer than I had imagined.

Ever consider writing a biography?

Hey there swirly-girl. Thank you so much for visiting this thread, it's lovely to offer you a biographical sketch of my outside life and interests. Without further ado, here goes!

The first book I remember reading was Bambi, A Life In The Woods by Felix Salter. This was pre-kindergarten, I'm sure although the details are a little foggy after nearly 50 years. When I was in kindergarten my teacher and the school continually tested me and put my reading comprehension at around a Grade 6 level. I don't remember learning to read, it was just something I've always done. Where children currently are exposed to the classics via DVD and digital tv, my early forays were into my grandfather's library which was a small room with floor to ceiling books. I found Frank L. Baum and Lewis Carroll there and always got new books for every birthday. The poem "Just Another Steinbeck Summer" is an impression of what really happened every year.

I read and re-read books all of the time, currently I'm slogging my way through A Cloud Atlas but it's taking forever to pique me to stick with it. I might chisel away at it, in hopes that it will get moving, but I despair of this happening. It's not often I put away a book without finishing it, in fact it is really rare when I do, and this could be a time when I opt for the video version first.

Colleen McCullough, James Michner, Gary Jennings, Diana Gabaldon (Outlander and not the Lord John Grey books) number just a few of my returning featured authors. There are so many and I fear I've forgotten more books than I replace with new ones. I should have catologued them but I'm not that kind of person: no journals or diaries, very few calendars. I'm a haphazard organizer, although since my valve surgeries I need to always put my keys in the same place and make routines my habits or else I'd never find my glasses.

I joined the armed forces as an Airframe Technician right out of high school. Don't ask me why, it just sounded interesting. I wasn't an avid aviation fan or overtly patriotic (find me a Canadian who is) although I love my nation's reputation and will staunchly defend the rights of her citizens to live a fulfilling and just life, but a career in the military actually fit with what I wanted to do.

In my years of service I once travelled to 13 cities in 16 days on a C130 Hercules as a member of the mobile maintenance crew with a navigation trainer flight. I was 21 years old and got to experience the exotic lands found in all those books that fuelled my daydreams -- Greenland - in the fall, Wales, Germany, Lisbon for lunch << really!, Madrid, Marseilles, Rabat, The Ivory Coast, Brazil, Barbados, The US and home again. Greenland - in the winter - was a regular temporary duty trip since that was the time of year we flew diesel and jet fuel in to supply Alert although I did visit in the summer, once and watched edit: glaciers calve icebergs: edit at Thule Bay. My career spanned the Atlantic since I served five years in Germany with the squadrons of F18 Hornets in Baden-Baden. I injured my knee just prior to the first Gulf War so I was part of the rear party for those who were dispatched to Qatar. I know Canadian soldiers who served in Rwanda, Somalia and The Balkans, I mourn the loss of every life in Afghanistan and fear for those I know are preparing to go to the next hot spot...

I went to college and got a desk job as an administrator after retirement. My son is the family member who lost his arm in a single vehicle accident. My daughter is in her 2nd year of university. I'm happy and content living on the shore of a very cold Cold Lake (at least it is this year, the ice wasn't completely gone until just before the May long weekend). My favourite things include, but aren't limited to: canoeing, walking and swimming the dogs around the area, cooking and visiting my friends.

(B.T.W. my AVs come from setting the filters on Google search to adult and then typing in corsets, bondage, nudes, etc., the one of the dog with the gummed reinforcements on the sunglasses is mine though. He's a cocker spaniel named Spike and is now my senior doggy).

So, how do you do?
 
Did you ever make it to England and if so what did you make of us? :) If not would you ever want to come here?
 
Since opening your thread "A Carrie Retrospective", does this to mean you have files upon files of poems that we haven't seen here on the board yet?
 
Did you ever make it to England and if so what did you make of us? :) If not would you ever want to come here?
Well, as I'd mentioned I was in Wales as part of my Atlantic Rim trip, but that was a flyby drop in...
The men's mess hall at Valley AFB was open for late night supper so we were abandoned there by the senior NCOs and officers for over an hour. Turns out, all that was available was a flat top griddle and some eggs. There was a pool of mutton fat lubricating the grill and the toast was so dry that there was no rescue for it and honestly, I don't think I'd ever seen tea of that particular shade of grey before. So, with no veggies, no real meat and just some eggs available, we chatted with some of the men that were there and chain smoked our duty-free cigarettes until the bus collected us again. The enlisted men were assigned bunks in this god-awful barrack block, seriously, I think prisoners must be treated better than Welsh Hussars! The sinks drained into a bucket, the mattresses on the bunks were stained and rolled up and there weren't any linens. When the guys came out and told the Canadian pilot who was on exchange there the deplorable state of their quarters, he had to go in to see.

I had a room reservation at a lovely little B&B downtown since there were no female quarters there. Well, they had to cancel that and book us ALL into a little hotel that had a pub and offered breakfast in the morning. We all were hungry since we hadn't had anything besides a box lunch on the airplane to eat, since we'd left Sondestrom, Greenland in the morning and it was now past 7 p.m. GMT. After asking the barmaid at the pub, we learned that there wasn't anywhere we could walk to that served hot food after 6, including this place (I think she was having us on). Beer it was and I think we found some crisps and a stale sandwich somewhere.

Later on, she asked me, "Oooh, are you the only woman with all these lovely men?" I had to laugh because I was, but "lovely" was hardly the adjective I'd use for them. We were supposed to stay for 2 days but we left first thing in the morning and added another night to our stop in Lahr, Germany.

At one point during my tour we were thinking about driving to Glasgow, to see my husband's aunts, uncles, and cousins still in Scotland, and I really did want to have a few days in London but alas, this never materialized. The time I was thinking about booking the trip for was during the Gulf War and all leave was cancelled. I'm sure I would have found Londoners as pale and interesting as did my friends the chef and his wife. They were there while he was in the Cordon Bleu school in the city. Maybe, I'll get there before we all need to use walkers, Annie :).
 
Since opening your thread "A Carrie Retrospective", does this to mean you have files upon files of poems that we haven't seen here on the board yet?
Sadly, since joining Lit I have made 4 out of 6 computers obsolete, 1 is ill and now I have this one. I think I may have some more files on my external hard drive but I haven't gone fishing in there yet. Unfortunately, my online repository site for my erotica that isn't on Lit (these were just bits that were unfinished or abandoned and a few poemies that I've rescued...) has shut down before I had a chance to get in there and make sure I had back-up copies. <sigh>

What you see here in the repository are those that I've been archiving on a DVD since before joining Literotica. I chose not to post some but not many. I'll try to seek out any strays later this week when I'm back on evenings at work.
 
Well, as I'd mentioned I was in Wales as part of my Atlantic Rim trip, but that was a flyby drop in...
The men's mess hall at Valley AFB was open for late night supper so we were abandoned there by the senior NCOs and officers for over an hour. Turns out, all that was available was a flat top griddle and some eggs. There was a pool of mutton fat lubricating the grill and the toast was so dry that there was no rescue for it and honestly, I don't think I'd ever seen tea of that particular shade of grey before. So, with no veggies, no real meat and just some eggs available, we chatted with some of the men that were there and chain smoked our duty-free cigarettes until the bus collected us again. The enlisted men were assigned bunks in this god-awful barrack block, seriously, I think prisoners must be treated better than Welsh Hussars! The sinks drained into a bucket, the mattresses on the bunks were stained and rolled up and there weren't any linens. When the guys came out and told the Canadian pilot who was on exchange there the deplorable state of their quarters, he had to go in to see.

I had a room reservation at a lovely little B&B downtown since there were no female quarters there. Well, they had to cancel that and book us ALL into a little hotel that had a pub and offered breakfast in the morning. We all were hungry since we hadn't had anything besides a box lunch on the airplane to eat, since we'd left Sondestrom, Greenland in the morning and it was now past 7 p.m. GMT. After asking the barmaid at the pub, we learned that there wasn't anywhere we could walk to that served hot food after 6, including this place (I think she was having us on). Beer it was and I think we found some crisps and a stale sandwich somewhere.

Later on, she asked me, "Oooh, are you the only woman with all these lovely men?" I had to laugh because I was, but "lovely" was hardly the adjective I'd use for them. We were supposed to stay for 2 days but we left first thing in the morning and added another night to our stop in Lahr, Germany.

At one point during my tour we were thinking about driving to Glasgow, to see my husband's aunts, uncles, and cousins still in Scotland, and I really did want to have a few days in London but alas, this never materialized. The time I was thinking about booking the trip for was during the Gulf War and all leave was cancelled. I'm sure I would have found Londoners as pale and interesting as did my friends the chef and his wife. They were there while he was in the Cordon Bleu school in the city. Maybe, I'll get there before we all need to use walkers, Annie :).

Oh dear poor you! But why ever didn't the Officers pull rank on your behalf and get you fed?!!
 
Oh dear poor you! But why ever didn't the Officers pull rank on your behalf and get you fed?!!
They were blissfully off being feted at the Officers' Club and totally unaware. When our host (the exchange pilot) was asked to meet us at customs, he was led to believe that the Jr. Ranks had a meal and a representative to welcome us and make sure all was warm and squishy love... So when we pulled up outside of the mess he simply dropped us at the curb and took the aircrew off to their party. I guess there was a bit of a confusion and mix up on his part, since he (and we) took the Canadian view of how things go and therefore had very high expectations of our welcome. As it turned out though, no one in the ranks was told to expect us so they were as unprepared as we were for feeding and entertaining 15 Canadian airmen (and me).
 
Thank you for the acknowledgement and kind words. :)

I have noticed that a lot of your erotic poetry is subtle, so actually erotic as opposed to overtly pornographic, I think it invokes femenine sexuality which is delicious to read. What I was wondering is, how long did it take to develope that type of writing, or was it instinctual to the way you think as a woman?
 
Your military service is a fascinating side of you that I never would have imagined. Have your experiences from it shown up in your poems? And, more generally, are there any subjects or themes that you feel drawn to explore? If so, how do you push yourself into new territory when you write?

Also I am interested to know what is essential to your poet's toolkit. Do have have specific resources, print or digital, that you like to have at hand when you write?

Great interview btw Champy. :)
 
Thank you for the acknowledgement and kind words. :)

I have noticed that a lot of your erotic poetry is subtle, so actually erotic as opposed to overtly pornographic, I think it invokes femenine sexuality which is delicious to read. What I was wondering is, how long did it take to develope that type of writing, or was it instinctual to the way you think as a woman?
I can't really say how my writing has gone from innocence and good for general audiences to sidestepping unintentional pornography and managing to direct my words to nestle in to a pile of erotica pillows. When I sit down to write a poem, I don't neccessarily plan to write something a little on the porny side so I just start off and let the poem tell me what it wants to be.

I am certain that women prefer a more subtle taste of poem or story to stir their arousal than men. This is a generalization so keep that in mind if you find you fit into the opposite sex's side of preferences. I love to add an overt phrase or word sometimes, to jar my reader back into actually experiencing my writing, be it through a tingle in her nether bits or an obvious roll of quarters in his pocket. It means that my words are successful, and isn't that the reason we're all exhibitionists at heart? To show off and tease a spot of wetness onto a pair of panties.

There have been studies done and even a few versions of [url="http://www.hackerfactor.com/GenderGuesser.php]Gender Guesser[/url]s out there so I guess there's a quantifiable difference in how men and women write. Some of my derty storeez are more masculine than feminine but that's due to the use of "cock, fuck, cunt" in the writing I think and not because of the theme of the story.
 
Your military service is a fascinating side of you that I never would have imagined. Have your experiences from it shown up in your poems? And, more generally, are there any subjects or themes that you feel drawn to explore? If so, how do you push yourself into new territory when you write?

Also I am interested to know what is essential to your poet's toolkit. Do have have specific resources, print or digital, that you like to have at hand when you write?

Great interview btw Champy. :)
I haven't really felt very poetic about my military career, ever. I do find that occassionally a hint of patriotism or pride of country and the men and women who serve creeps in but, not much. I think there are anecdotes and story ideas from that side of me, though. Maybe I'll write a little tale about sex in a hangar while working overtime ;).

I would be nothing without Google, my Brewer's Dictionary, and the PoBo. Seriously, there is a wealth of education here and if someone's looking to learn a form or about meter without slogging through an ill-stocked local library, or internet resource links, this forum is exactly where they should look.

And it's a great interview because of the great questions. Thanks for bringing me out.
 
Hello sweetie, I'm so glad FaBo let you return to us.

My question....well, I was going to ask you if you find it easy to write such personal pieces as gasping or this one but it's never easy and, really, all poems are personal.

So instead - your erotic poems really smoulder, do they just occur to you, what are some of the triggers and do you enjoy writing erotica? Hopefully not getting too personal.
 
Hello sweetie, I'm so glad FaBo let you return to us.

My question....well, I was going to ask you if you find it easy to write such personal pieces as gasping or this one but it's never easy and, really, all poems are personal.

So instead - your erotic poems really smoulder, do they just occur to you, what are some of the triggers and do you enjoy writing erotica? Hopefully not getting too personal.
Ahh, 'tess! How can you worry about getting personal on such a thread as this. I swear, whoever reads this thread will actually come away with some bits of information about me that even my family doesn't know.

My painful poems, like the two you've mentioned, aren't easy to write but they make my soul easier. It's cathartic to find the words to express that kind of mourning and sorrow. It is a mixed blessing in being fluent; I've spoken memories on the behalf of many at family funerals, I've written words of condolence where there are no words to say but I've always found that there's hope in the fact that time continues, whether we welcome it or not, it is a guarantee. My poems help me remember that, and with the editing and feedback from my friends and family, they tend to help many others, as well.

Steamy poems are a different kettle of fish. I'm struggling to remember how I felt when I wrote To The Man Outside My Window and Breathless Metamorphosis. I think I wanted to describe how freakin' wonderful it is to be aroused beyond stopping and to orgasm in that slow-build-lung-emptying-abrupt release. It's kind of like firing a rifle, you squeeze the trigger and seriously, you've done it right when the explosion takes you by surprise. I guess that's what happens. I haven't sat down and said, "Today I write an erotic poem." in a long while. Maybe I should.
 
Hello sweetie, I'm so glad FaBo let you return to us.

My question....well, I was going to ask you if you find it easy to write such personal pieces as gasping or this one but it's never easy and, really, all poems are personal.

So instead - your erotic poems really smoulder, do they just occur to you, what are some of the triggers and do you enjoy writing erotica? Hopefully not getting too personal.

good questions ....... I didn't know how to ask
 
Actually I'd like to see one of the five, parsed by you, the why of format, word choice, etc. And for the newbs an estimate of edit time, because none of them look like 30 minute wonders, although somewhat templated, not a slur, you know the dance.
 
Actually I'd like to see one of the five, parsed by you, the why of format, word choice, etc. And for the newbs an estimate of edit time, because none of them look like 30 minute wonders, although somewhat templated, not a slur, you know the dance.
It's interesting that you attribute me with more effort in my writing than I actually expend. I have been practising poetry for a long time so perhaps this is why even my first drafts, my 30 minute wonders as it were, are a little closer to polished than some that get posted over in the index. It's a blessing to have a really expansive vocabulary with a relatively accurate recall. I wrote a poem using salience to describe a part of my brain. A friend took it as the military definition, which is still an interesting take on it but I was certain that it was a brain science term when I used it. So, he stimulated me into actually looking it up and voila! my first instinct was correct. This is why I can Gunfight! and hold my own, even though T-zed has shinier spurs and managed to shoot my pen write outta my hand... :p.
This thread delves into part of my process with a little help from my friends. If you'd like me to go on about a different poem please choose one and I'll try to dig through it here.

As for time, each poem takes as much as it wants and I give it as much as I can. Some roll out of me and others take more investment. Sonate ad libitum (for violin), for instance, was challenging and took me weeks to write just because I researched how to write a sonata and then, researched the Italian musical terms used to title each strophe as the poem proceeds through each movement of the music. Conversely, Noise From The Cancer Ward took me about 20 minutes. This is a poem that grabbed me around the chest and squeezed until I got it out.

I poorly parsed through my pantoum, Istanbul At 5:30 a.m. in the teaching thread for you. I hope that satisfies your interest in how I read it. Anyway, thank you for encouraging me to think about how I get from idea to poem.
 
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Great choices I loved them all :rose:
It's tough to pick your favourites out of anything you create. I love all of my poems, for different reasons, as you can imagine, so calling any of them my favourites is like I'm dissing the others that will supercede my current list spontaneously. For instance I just looked at Cat's Paw and I'm sure that one could slide into first place right easily.
 
Proust can wait no longer.......

My Questionaire


• If you could live anywhere in the world where would it be?

• What is the best gift you’ve received?

• Which hobby would you pursue if you had more time?

• If you could have any super power what would it be?

• What is the most spontaneous thing you’ve ever done?

• What was your most epic road trip?

• What food brings back childhood memories?

• Which book most influenced your life?

• What is the most valuable piece of advise you ever received?

• If you could go back and relive one day in your life. Which one
would it be and why?

• What advice would you give your ten year old self today?

• What do you most admire in a man?

• What do you most admire in a woman?

• What word or phrase do you most over-use?

• Who are your favourite writers?

• Which artists do you most admire?
 
Hello, again, Champers :rose:

I especially liked your Thrown Clay, though there are so many to like it's hard for me to choose a favourite. With Thrown Clay, it feels as if you were mentally manipulating the 'clay' - I suppose what I mean is that you wrote what you set your mind to feel, as if you drew the words, the phrases/sensations directly from your own flesh. Like listening to your physical self and writing it. As a reader, that's how I perceive it, though it may well have been written with a phone in one hand and the tv on in the background. It doesn't come across that way, so it sells itself. Intimate, slippery, smooooth, real. Love it.

Now, have you any landmark pieces you can identify that show a sudden change in the way you write? If so, how did they come about? What was the catalyst? Do you have pieces you had published that, looking back, you wished you'd not have submitted? Here or anywhere else, but especially print. :rose:
 
• If you could live anywhere in the world where would it be?

Someplace warm and friendly. Barbados, I think and failing that, maybe Kenora or Field B.C.

• What is the best gift you’ve received?

A second and third aortic valve from the government. But of lesser cost and pain to me, the Kindergarten offerings of marigolds for Mothers' Day from both my kids in turn.

• Which hobby would you pursue if you had more time?

This assumes that I have a hobby. However, I very much enjoy keeping track of the birds that show up to the feeder in the birch, so maybe combine that with travel and we'd have a wonderful leisure pursuit.

• If you could have any super power what would it be?

Indefatigable comfort or solace to those in pain.

• What is the most spontaneous thing you’ve ever done?

You mean besides joining the military? Most of my spontaneity hovers around taking trips. When we lived in Germany, although many sights and activities were within a 1 hour's drive radius, many places took 3 to 6 hours to get to. There was a shop in downtown Baden-Baden for last minute travel. We did book leave and holidays for a 2 week stretch but that didn't always mean we were going to leave our big ol' farmhouse and veggie garden. This time it did and so we hied off to this place and in 4 hours were on our way to Mallorca (all inclusive w/flights @ 275 dM each for a week). How could we not go? On a more recent note, though, I bought this computer.

• What was your most epic road trip?

Does the "by now fabled" 16 cities in 13 days flight around the Atlantic count? I also have a 30 hour drive from here to Nanaimo that took place over 3 days (including ferry) and the bus trip back to Vancouver International for a flight home planned in less than the time it took to drive there. Does that count for spontaniety?


• What food brings back childhood memories?

Home made bread and raspberry jam w/tea and milk

• Which book most influenced your life?

Ann Frank, The Diary of a Young Girl brought home that no matter how bad life seems to be, it's still better than Ann's circumstanc, always.
Anything by Kurt Vonnegut, Slaughterhouse Five was the first I'd read and then I went on to devour more.
Then there are the classic books force fed High School students of my generation... Animal Farm, 1984, The Stranger and any number of plays and poems by various authors.



• What is the most valuable piece of advise you ever received?

If you don't know, ask. The time savings alone are invaluable.


• If you could go back and relive one day in your life. Which one
would it be and why?

July 21st, 2007. I would spare my son his arm by going to the wedding party and giving him a ride.

• What advice would you give your ten year old self today?

You're gonna do some stupid stuff but have a good time and don't dwell on it. Your life becomes one you won't regret. Oh, and buy that piece of property in Edmonton, where they have the riding stables, in 1984. Hold on to it until you're back from Europe. It'll be great.

• What do you most admire in a man?

Determination to do right

• What do you most admire in a woman?

Tenderness

• What word or phrase do you most over-use?

Yeah, no...

• Who are your favourite writers?

Diana Gabaldon, Wilber Smith and Robin Cook (at leat they are today)

• Which artists do you most admire?

Tom Thomson, Emily Carr and Frank Johnson of the Group of Seven. They painted the place where I grew up and their works invoke a nostalgia for the colours of fall and the windswept outer islands of Parry Harbour on Georgian Bay
 
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