Vocal Orgasms

Just wondering...

I tend to be pretty darn vocal when I cum. My partners seem to enjoy it but sometimes I find it to be a little embarrassing...especially in a hotel. Anyone else feel this way?

I am very vocal, too, during sex and orgasms but I don't find it at all embarrassing. In fact I quite enjoy it, and I especially enjoy it when my partner is vocal too. As for being in a hotel, maybe I just have an exhibitionist streak but I like the thought that someone could walk by the door and hear us.

I wasn't always very vocal, though. When I was young I was very quiet, but luckily I dated a woman who got me to open up and make a lot more noise. Now I love to talk filthy during foreplay and sex. I agree with some others who have posted that precise filthy language is really hot. It's good foreplay to whisper some naughty ideas in a public place to get her thinking about what's going to happen when you're alone later on. And even if you're having sex and the walls are paper thin, softly growled instructions or moaning into her neck exactly what she's doing that's driving you wild can be a great way to be vocal without being loud. In general my vocals tend to be grunts and growls as opposed to loud moans and screams, so I probably don't have to worry as much about overhearing. (But when I'm overheard I almost shudder to think how hilarious or disturbing it might be, haha.) I have, however, been overheard using some absolutely filthy language, so maybe I'm louder than I think. As for the actual orgasm, well then I lose the ability to form words and I know I get very loud with my growls, but I like that and I don't care if it's too loud. I have decided to just embrace it.

I think you'll definitely find most men love to hear a vocal woman. But the key is to be yourself. Some people are whimperers, others moaners, screamers, etc. As long as the noises you make are authentic it's going to sound hot and he'll do whatever he can to keep giving you that pleasure. It's simply great feedback!
 
I was alone in a hotel Friday night, sleeping, when I was awakened about 3 AM by voices in the hallway. Soon I heard voices in the next room. Then other, more interesting vocalizations. I lay still and listened to what I took to be the utterances accompanying sex. Actually, I could only hear a woman's voice, moaning and saying words I couldn't make out. It was great fun to listen to the pitch, volume and cadence. It was clear when she was getting close to orgasm, as well as when she came. He (I think there was a he, or at least a partner, with her) made no sounds that I could discern, which was also interesting. Listening to the fun in the next room got me pretty worked up, and I masturbated to a nice orgasm before drifting back off to sleep.
 
I am very vocal. Stupid bitch across the alley even called the cops on more than one occasion.
 
I was alone in a hotel Friday night, sleeping, when I was awakened about 3 AM by voices in the hallway. Soon I heard voices in the next room. Then other, more interesting vocalizations. I lay still and listened to what I took to be the utterances accompanying sex. Actually, I could only hear a woman's voice, moaning and saying words I couldn't make out. It was great fun to listen to the pitch, volume and cadence. It was clear when she was getting close to orgasm, as well as when she came. He (I think there was a he, or at least a partner, with her) made no sounds that I could discern, which was also interesting. Listening to the fun in the next room got me pretty worked up, and I masturbated to a nice orgasm before drifting back off to sleep.
That happened to me once.. I was so hard listening to her voice as she was getting pounded.
 
I am extremely vocal when I cum. I have never had a lover who did not appreciate that about me. Actually, most men seem to really like my moans and screams. ;-)

I think I can now be categorized as most men! :D
 
I was alone in a hotel Friday night, sleeping, when I was awakened about 3 AM by voices in the hallway. Soon I heard voices in the next room. Then other, more interesting vocalizations. I lay still and listened to what I took to be the utterances accompanying sex. Actually, I could only hear a woman's voice, moaning and saying words I couldn't make out. It was great fun to listen to the pitch, volume and cadence. It was clear when she was getting close to orgasm, as well as when she came. He (I think there was a he, or at least a partner, with her) made no sounds that I could discern, which was also interesting. Listening to the fun in the next room got me pretty worked up, and I masturbated to a nice orgasm before drifting back off to sleep.

There's been quite a few entertaining sounds from the room next door in hotels. I love it when my wife is with me....she gets so hot from listening that it always ends with some great sex. When I'm alone, there's always my hand..
 
I'm a very loud person :) I scream and moan and dirty talk. I love it. Always have been, even masturbating alone I am loud
 
I prefer vocal women.

Vocal sex is an absolute requirement for me in porn or erotica.
 
I am very vocal when I have sex and when I orgasm...

Couple of quick stories...

Story 1 - I got so loud once that I got the neighbor's dog howling and barking.

Story 2 - My BF and I were heading to our room in this hotel once and passed the door next to ours and heard them having sex. Not anything really loud, just a lot of "ahhhh... ahhh... ahhhh" type thing. So, he and I decided to show them how to really be loud. I was screaming!!! Granted I was being really loud on purpose, but I'm just loud anyways.

Story 3 - Coming home after day out with some friends. Couple in the front seat of the car, he was driving. Me and BF in the backseat, and yeah, we start going at it. Started with alot of making out, but as it got more intense, I got louder and louder... The 2 up front were a bit.. ha.. embarrassed. BF and I ended up fucking in the back seat, not caring what they thought, as we rode on down the highway, and yeah, I was being really loud, as usual. I remember her turning up the radio trying not to pay attention! LMAO...
 
I love the sounds people make during sex. I always encourage my partners to be as vocal as they're comfortable with (as others have pointed out, a genuine whimper or stuttered breath is as good as a scream sometimes) and when I masturbate, I'm usually listening to porn. Sometimes watching, but almost always listening. Orgy scenes are my favorite, because there's so much to listen to.
 
Living in a apartment it is hard to be vocal with my orgasms being trained not to be to loud so the neighbors don't hear me is difficult. Once and awhile I just let it go and moan loudly I wish I did not have to worry about them or anyone else. Once we get a house, I am going to moan as loud as I want. Perhaps a trip to a hotel would justify who the hell cares there, I don't know those people and will never see them again anyway. So, that is my goal not to have to worry about my loud moaning.
 
My wife is afraid I am going to wake the neighbors when she masturbates me. She has some realy nice ways of making me cum. She rubs me as she says girls like and she says I sound like a girl when I cum, especialy the girl way. It is such a waste not to let it all cum out so to say. I was like most men I think and used to be so quiet, just some heavy breathing and a big grunt at the end. Since she has taken control and made me a girl It is so much nicer in all ways.
 
We've been married for 28 yrs and my wife is much more vocal now. She cries out loud and talks dirty and it turns me on so much. I've always been vocal and have encouraged her to do likewise, but it's only since the children left home that she's really let go - suspect that's quite common for married couples. At home she's quite happy to fuck with the bedroom windows open. She loves being pounded deep and hard and tells me she loves hearing the sound of our bodies slapping together. Just a few years ago she would never had said such a thing

I know our neighbours must be able to hear us through the wall because I've heard them in the past. My wife is a teacher and has taught their daughter, and I get so turned on knowing they can hear my wife getting a good fucking and enjoying herself.

We have a motorhome and that's been a big factor in us re-inventing our sex life. Camping sex has always turned me on, which my wife knows only too well, as we had our first sexual experiences together in a tent. She was always conscious of the noise we made in a tent and got embarrassed when we'd chat to our camping neighbours on the campsite the following day. But with a motorhome, and the absence of children, she's re-discovered the joy of noisy campsite sex.

We invariably retire for some afternoon delight when camping, we close the cab curtains but leave everything else open for comfort - roof vents and window blinds. The windows have dark privacy glass so no-one can see in but we can see out. We avoid campsites with children and use small quiet farm sites tucked away in the country - often there are only a handful of vans or tents. We both love noisy sex when camping and my wife isn't even put off by the noise the van makes when we fuck really hard - the leaf springs squeak and the crockery in the kitchen cupboards rattles. She's even told me the motorhome was the best sextoy we could have bought!
 
It did get myself and the woman I was with a six pack of beer left outside my hotel room door and a lovely thank you note. ;)
 
I'm vocal but not necessarily loud - I've had too much sex in forbidden places or when there's been other people around who really mustn't hear - and I've never been a screamer/squealer. When I'm not inhibited by the environment or gagged I make a lot of general noise during sex: panting, whimpering, moaning, encouragement ("oh yes...fuck yes...oh God...don't stop"), that helpless high-pitched "ugh-ugh-ugh" that I can't hold back when being pounded, but when I'm actually cumming I tend to tense and go quiet apart from a few intense moans that apparently sound as though I'm about to pass out. Hotels appeal to my exhibitionist streak and make me noisier, if anything; I've had some knowing looks and smiles in hotel dining rooms over breakfast, particularly from strange men.

I love a noisy man - one who tells me he's enjoying my ministrations, one who groans and grunts, one who lets me know in no uncertain terms that he's cumming.
 
I can relate to Miss Scarlet. I am not a screamer but do let my partner know when he has gotten it just right. Soft whispers, moans and encouraging words. "I am open and ready for you." "Don't hold back, I can take you.", etc. My husband did claim that I was a bit like the little locomotive that could. When I was on top and working for my O, apparently I sounded a bit like a locomotive climbing a step grade. I too like a man to let me know what he is feeling and when he is ready to cum.
 
I don't cry out when I'm going to cum, but I do grunt.I love the sounds of sex, and hearing a woman moan in orgasm drives me crazy. I sometimes tell my partner that I am cumming, but she will always know when I'm reaching climax. And I like it when she lets me know too
 
Just wondering...

I tend to be pretty darn vocal when I cum. My partners seem to enjoy it but sometimes I find it to be a little embarrassing...especially in a hotel. Anyone else feel this way?

I know my significant other does. You're not alone.
 
I used to travel a lot. I have lots of stories about passionate noises and conversations in hotels and motels, some of which came from my room.

I had a girlfriend who stopped me in the middle of a climax, wanting to know if everything was ok. We got along fine except when it came to "talking" or noises
when making love. Too bad as she was lots of fun and I could not hold back:)
 
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