Wanted: Positive Male Sexuality

[sr71plt]

I've written a few

Can you give a URLs of some of yours that meet the criteria so we have a better feel for what you are interested in?

 

[A_Little_Show]

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[PennLady]

Seriously, read mine. I like to write about people finding each other. There is the occasional jerk, of either gender, but nothing too bad, and stories need conflict.

But don't read "Facing the Past" if you don't want any bad guys at all. That one has a couple of bad guys.

 

[A_Little_Show]

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[PennLady]

Thank you. i've read your "Rhythm and the Blue Line: 12 Part Series".

I read "Lost in the Woods" back when it was in the contest.

I'm reading "Christmas Creep" now. I think I must have read it before because is seems very familiar.

Hope you enjoyed them. Yes, CC was done for a contest so you may have read it then.

If my previous post was disjointed, it was because my daughter was on my lap and tired, so I only had one hand free to type.

 

[lovecraft68]

Hope you enjoyed them. Yes, CC was done for a contest so you may have read it then.

If my previous post was disjointed, it was because my daughter was on my lap and tired, so I only had one hand free to type.

That's not the best reason to type with one hand, you know that right?

 

[PennLady]

That's not the best reason to type with one hand, you know that right?

Yeah, but what can I say? It was the truth...

 

[October46]

Hi, I want you to know I enjoyed your statement and hope you find the guy you are looking for on this forum. If you ever need to talk, contact me!

 

[Arabsemen]

Take it from someone who has much experience when it comes to apologizing, if you are truly sorry for something you did or said, don't apologize and try to justify your action in the same breath. It makes the apology ring hollow.

 

[A_Little_Show]

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[sr71plt]

Hey, I'm not a fan of Lovecraft68's, but you are in the wrong here, Little, and you do owe him an unadulterated apology for your over-the-top knee-jerk reaction. No one here knew a thing about how you feel about much of anything, so saying he made a recommendation just to upset you is off the wall and a little idiotic. What you asked for in a male character doesn't imply you didn't want a story wrapped around it. A story requires a dilemma. You didn't say there couldn't be side characters who aren't this mythical perfect(ly dull and simplistic) man you want to read or that there couldn't be unpleasant dilemmas in the story to actually make it a story.

People here have been trying to respond to your demand for tailored stories. Stop biting their hands. Lovecraft68 doesn't need to be forgiven for trying to recommend a story to you--but, quite possibly, you need to be spanked for your ungracious reaction to someone trying to respond to your "order" for the stories you want to read. You only described what you wanted to see in one male and one female character, not in the story itself or in other characters.

 

[LadyVer]

Fair enough. OK, I'm not sorry, but the author is forgiven for recommending a story that contained a first page tailor made to upset me after I explained that I wanted exactly the opposite.

From what I recall, you asked for stories that described male characters that met your requirements. You didn't say that the stories should be tailor made not to upset you. If you want a Cinderella story, and a story that won't upset you, you're really on the wrong site. To call LC an AH because you couldn't handle his description of a creep who was only a blip in the story was way out of line to begin with.

 

[sr71plt]

More pointedly than that, Lady V, the OP only specifies what she wants to see in one male character and one female character. It doesn't give any requirements at all for what any other characters should be/do--nor does it say there shouldn't be any other characters (or any actual story).

 

[LadyVer]

More pointedly than that, Lady V, the OP only specifies what she wants to see in one male character and one female character. It doesn't give any requirements at all for what any other characters should be/do--nor does it say there shouldn't be any other characters (or any actual story).

That was my point. Anyway, I would like to see more stories with male characters like the OP described, but this is a erotica/porn site. You have to dig through the crap to find the gems, and most gems have the odd character or two you'd like to bash over the head.

 

[sr71plt]

Um, no, it's not what you posted. You referred to male characters in the plural:

"you asked for stories that described male characters"

So, no it isn't the same point I made. The OP only specifies what is wanted in one male and one female character. Don't you even read your own posts?

And I think that finding male characters just as described would be finding blah cardboard cutouts. Good characters have characteristics, both good and bad.

 

[LadyVer]

Um, no, it's not what you posted. You referred to male characters in the plural:

"you asked for stories that described male characters"

So, no it isn't the same point I made. The OP only specifies what is wanted in one male and one female character. Don't you even read your own posts?

And I think that finding male characters just as described would be finding blah cardboard cutouts. Good characters have characteristics, both good and bad.

I am not arguing with you. You can think what you want. I am tired of your constant argumentativeness and nitpicking. If you want to continue this discussion, pm me. The end.

 

[A_Little_Show]

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[sr71plt]

Yes, you are arguing with me, you ditzy dingbat. My point was/is that she only specified what she wanted in one male and one female character in the story, and you referred to what she wanted in male characters (plural), which destroys the whole point. God, you're brainless.

 

[A_Little_Show]

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[LadyVer]

Yes, you are arguing with me, you ditzy dingbat. My point was/is that she only specified what she wanted in one male and one female character in the story, and you referred to what she wanted in male characters (plural), which destroys the whole point. God, you're brainless.

As I've told you before, when your comments are civil, I'll talk to you. Go find someone else to harass. I doubt you will find anyone as most people have you igged, and that is probably why you're trying to talk to me. Do NOT pm me.

 

[LadyVer]

I said I was in a bad place mentally with regard to men. I asked specifically for stories that would help me get out of that place. The story recommended started with a sexual assault perpetrated by a loathsome male.

If I said I was a vegetarian, would you recommend a steak stuffed with delicious mushrooms and say, you just have to get past the steak?

Most women have been sexually assaulted or harassed, some multiple times. This is also a porn site where just about anything goes. Decent male characters are in short supply here. And in real life, there are few heroes. If you can't handle a minor character who thinks he's God's gift to women, and the fact that the protagonist in the story basically told him to shove it and chose living in the street over getting free rent with being on booty call to her landlord, you should consider if you're on the right site to write.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

IRL drama isn't standard equipment on decent men, yet drama is what readers demand and stories gotta have.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oNuX7bs2qAM

A_LITTLE_SLOW this is for you.

 

[ambiguityperson]

It never ceases to amaze me how this forum thing works. The OP creates a thread, and some people feel obligated to come in here and post snarky, judgmental replies, then go off-topic to bash each other over non-issues. I've had some of the same thing happen to me before, and it's really quite annoying. If you're not on board with the OP's topic for the thread, cruise on and don't pollute the thread with your vitriol. If you want to have a pissing match with someone, go start your own pissing match thread and don't sully others' efforts with your personal issues. How ridiculous and juvenile.

To your original request, OP, I would humbly offer my first story, The Sisters Of Mercy (linked in my sig, I'm lazy). The hero is not broken, just in a bit of a pickle, and the sex is wholesome and life-affirming.

Just don't accidentally click on the other story, or you'll come back here and call me an asshole.

May you find a better mental and spiritual place soon.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

It never ceases to amaze me how this forum thing works. The OP creates a thread, and some people feel obligated to come in here and post snarky, judgmental replies, then go off-topic to bash each other over non-issues. I've had some of the same thing happen to me before, and it's really quite annoying. If you're not on board with the OP's topic for the thread, cruise on and don't pollute the thread with your vitriol. If you want to have a pissing match with someone, go start your own pissing match thread and don't sully others' efforts with your personal issues. How ridiculous and juvenile.

To your original request, OP, I would humbly offer my first story, The Sisters Of Mercy (linked in my sig, I'm lazy). The hero is not broken, just in a bit of a pickle, and the sex is wholesome and life-affirming.

Just don't accidentally click on the other story, or you'll come back here and call me an asshole.

May you find a better mental and spiritual place soon.

Who died and left you in charge? Take your control issues and FO.

 

[lovecraft68]

Hey, I'm not a fan of Lovecraft68's, but you are in the wrong here, Little, and you do owe him an unadulterated apology for your over-the-top knee-jerk reaction. No one here knew a thing about how you feel about much of anything, so saying he made a recommendation just to upset you is off the wall and a little idiotic. What you asked for in a male character doesn't imply you didn't want a story wrapped around it. A story requires a dilemma. You didn't say there couldn't be side characters who aren't this mythical perfect(ly dull and simplistic) man you want to read or that there couldn't be unpleasant dilemmas in the story to actually make it a story.

People here have been trying to respond to your demand for tailored stories. Stop biting their hands. Lovecraft68 doesn't need to be forgiven for trying to recommend a story to you--but, quite possibly, you need to be spanked for your ungracious reaction to someone trying to respond to your "order" for the stories you want to read. You only described what you wanted to see in one male and one female character, not in the story itself or in other characters.

From what I recall, you asked for stories that described male characters that met your requirements. You didn't say that the stories should be tailor made not to upset you. If you want a Cinderella story, and a story that won't upset you, you're really on the wrong site. To call LC an AH because you couldn't handle his description of a creep who was only a blip in the story was way out of line to begin with.

I appreciate the two of you "defending" me, but its not necessary. I've said before I post without regret.

I did not deliberately set out to piss off the OP, but if I did, then I guess I did. Like you're saying I did not think that every character in the story had to be a sweetheart.

I do feel a little badly only because as most people here know about me, I am not a fan of a certain type of man (the one the OP was looking to avoid) but my way of dealing with it is to portray that type as the scum they are and have them ultimately get theirs. That's my style of dealing with it. I use my writing as an outlet for that prejudice.

So I didn't mean to upset someone who shares my sentiments, but still feel the story was worth recommending because after the brief encounter with the asshole its a sappy happy type of story.

Can't make everyone happy.