Watching my wife flirt when she’s drinking

[LeeKee]

I’ve always noticed that my wife gets real flirty with other men when she’s drinking. Sometimes whit guys we know and more recently with new people we meet. She becoming very engaging then touching their arms and back. I have been checking her panties after those nights and noticed they are way more wet and stained than normal. What are your thoughts and ideas on how to test the waters further to see where she might take it?

Then again, every woman I've known who would drink socially did the same thing. So...I think it's kinda a norm.

 

[Kimlikes]

And we all should remember that for men alcohol is a depressant and women it’s a stimulant. Women get horneyer when we’ve had a few.And yes my husband has told me to behave or we are going home lol . I do love when he’s dominant lol

 

[SmokingFap]

And we all should remember that for men alcohol is a depressant and women it’s a stimulant. Women get horneyer when we’ve had a few.And yes my husband has told me to behave or we are going home lol . I do love when he’s dominant lol

Most people have heard that alcohol is a depressant, but they don't understand what that means in context. The "depressant" aspect of alcohol doesn't affect anyone's mood (it's not inherently depressING) or libido, per se. It depresses the part of our brain that regulates our baser urges, gives us inhibitions that keep us from acting out in ways that might be embarrassing, dangerous, or otherwise harmful. That's why people are more daring socially, and even sexually, after a few drinks. A shot of courage, as they say. Alcohol breaks down the guardrails that normally keep us on a safe, if less adventurous and enjoyable, track.

Carry on.

 

[HumpDayHoratio]

Who doesn’t get a little flirty after a couple of drinks? The funny thing about my wife is, it’s not consistent. Sometimes she gets that fun ditsy persona going but at other times she becomes flirty in that all too honest way.

I’ve relayed before here a time we walked into a sex shop in the French Quarter after a night out drinking. She’s just chatting up the guy helping her, going into very intimate details about our/her sex life! . Flirting? Yeah, I guess. Just too much Truth Serum, yeah, that also!

That night was fun on many levels but the pat on my back and nod of the guys head told me all I needed to know!

 

[lovecraft68]

We had a bad experience with this. My wife would flirt after a few, but nothing crazy. One night a guy she'd caught eyeing her a couple of times, came over when she smiled and winked at him. He sat next to her while I had gone to grab another round, but right off the bat was an assholes, asking her if she were ready to "pay the price for teasing him." he then grabbed her arm when she went to slide off the stool and walk away.

I'd come back by then, and let's leave it at things went downhill, and neither my wife nor I was the one to pay a price for shitty behavior.

I didn't blame her for it, it wasn't like she was strutting around the bar and coming on to guys. But after that, she's never had more than a couple of drinks while we're out and still brings it up once in a while even thought it was over ten years ago.

Reality and fantasy often don't mix, and as hot as some people think these little games are, they can go from sugar to shit in a hurry.

 

[Nicefella]

We had a bad experience with this. My wife would flirt after a few, but nothing crazy. One night a guy she'd caught eyeing her a couple of times, came over when she smiled and winked at him. He sat next to her while I had gone to grab another round, but right off the bat was an assholes, asking her if she were ready to "pay the price for teasing him." he then grabbed her arm when she went to slide off the stool and walk away.

I'd come back by then, and let's leave it at things went downhill, and neither my wife nor I was the one to pay a price for shitty behavior.

I didn't blame her for it, it wasn't like she was strutting around the bar and coming on to guys. But after that, she's never had more than a couple of drinks while we're out and still brings it up once in a while even thought it was over ten years ago.

Reality and fantasy often don't mix, and as hot as some people think these little games are, they can go from sugar to shit in a hurry.

I agree. Life is like a box of chocolates. You never know if the guy your wife is flirting with will be Ted Danson or Ted Bundy

 

[drobert44]

I agree. Life is like a box of chocolates. You never know if the guy your wife is flirting with will be Ted Danson or Ted Bundy

Damn right, dont mess with assholes.

 

[BiWifeMyrtleBeach]

Mmm, a few rum and gingers and I become very playful. While my husband gets a kick out of watching me flirt with men what he really likes (and I do to) are the times I flirt with other women.

 

[Handydan]

I don’t think so. We haven’t talked about what I am seeing but it turns me on. Wonder if she wants to fuck these guys or is just making herself feel good

Yes. She's very interested in fucking them.

 

[Handydan]

Mmm, a few rum and gingers and I become very playful. While my husband gets a kick out of watching me flirt with men what he really likes (and I do to) are the times I flirt with other women.

My wife as well. And I enjoy watching her very much.

 

[Sgts19]

Way back, like years back my wife met me at a bar for a cpl drinks after work. Kind of vague about the details but I remember I'd gone up to the bar to get a cpl fresh drinks and when I turned around my wife was sitting on some guy's lap. I had no idea who he was, but they sure looked like they were having fun. Whispering in each other ear she's moving around on his lap while he's running his hand up and down her leg. Short skirt lots and lots of legs showing. When I had first saw them I was in no rush to get back to the table so grabbed a seat at the bar, ended up drinking both drinks. I was hard as a rock checking out what she, they, were doing until she look up and saw me at the bar starring at her. She whispered in this guy's ear and gave him a quick kiss got up and went back to our table. When I made it back she looked at me and said you ready to go. I fucked the shit out of her when we got home that night. This was so long ago I was able to get my second hardon right after the first. It's one of those things that has always stuck in my mind. It sure didn't look it was her first time doing with this guy.
I was so horny that night all I wanted to do is fuck. The next morning she told me she'd known him a long time and he was a regular at where she worked.
We played I'll drop you off at the bar and I'll come in 30 mins later and watch game a few times

 

[Greytruck]

My wife when drinking in a social setting more friendly and outgoing.
I’ve watched her and see more touching.. arms as she talks
Like last night. A friends of ours new husband. My wife commented he was super cute..

 

[Handydan]

My wife when drinking in a social setting more friendly and outgoing.
I’ve watched her and see more touching.. arms as she talks
Like last night. A friends of ours new husband. My wife commented he was super cute..

My wife will do the same. Sometimes she'll tell me that guy at the bar is cute. I'd fuck him.

 

[Nicefella]

My wife will do the same. Sometimes she'll tell me that guy at the bar is cute. I'd fuck him.

wait wait wait. There is some sentence (grammar) structure here that needs clarification - does she say she wants to fuck him or do you?

 

[Handydan]

wait wait wait. There is some sentence (grammar) structure here that needs clarification - does she say she wants to fuck him or do you?

Lol her. Should have been a quote.

 

[Curious_2]

I think that’s taking it too far. I thought it funny at first but now you’re just giving the guy a hard time.

It’s his wife. Let him do what he wants. He wasn’t asking for your approval.

I think it’s one thing to speak your mind but it’s another to berate the man. I thought this is safe space where people can share their thoughts without getting shamed for it.

Good job putting her in her place

 

[Ciceri]

My wife is usually indifferent to men when we're out but if there's drinking, she'll engage. Last month we rode a crowded tram down a mountain and there were partying people singing and cheering. I was by a window - away from my wife. A man was pressed up behind her and she didn't mind. Then his hands felt her breasts. Still, she did not mind. Only when his fingers dipped into her waistband did she stop him. No way she would have allowed any contact if she were sober.