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Watching your Partner have sex with another in person X

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steamboat610 said:
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She has fucked plenty of others, but I never get to watch.
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Steamboat,
She has great tits and great body.
I would love to cum all over her tits for you......;)
 
Looks like Monday night for finally getting back in action. It has been almost 3 months so I am more than ready to watch her BF fill up her pussy with a nice load of cum.
 
JR284 said:
When I was with my first girlfriend, I was an extremely jealous guy and I recognized that to the point that I wanted to work on not being so jealous. 18 year old me would have never imagined that I would end up on the complete opposite side of that spectrum! haha
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I can relate to that...

I wasn't overly jealous until I found out how many of my wife's past boyfriends had porn size BBC's.

I became a bit intimidated and jealous when she went out with her GF's which really surprised me.

By shifting to being turned on by the idea of seeing her with her fave BBC lover, the jealousy turned to excitement.

Then sharing with her my fantasy and giving her the green light was a way to embrace the insecurity and shift it to a unbelievably hot fantasy of sharing her with him.

She has no interest but it been a fun running joke and occasional roleplay scenario plus I no longer feel any jealousy.
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What a great thread! Not a wife but would totally love love it! Imagining fucking a friend he has brought home Or wherever). So hot.
 
I'm getting more and more into this hehe X it's such an amazing experience to share with your partner , don't get me wrong the feeling of MFM with hubby is incredible especially DP but it's so much more of mental turn to have him just watch me or know that I'm with someone when he is not there and telling him and sending photos about it after xxxx I can't describe it the way it deserves but seeing him looking at me its the definition of a mindfuck I think hehe X

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My wife filled me overwhelming pride the other night. She made a promise to a man and kept it, she looked him in the eyes and promised him she would make him cum harder than he ever has. She told him he was going to make love to her bareback and she was not on birth control, they fucked all night, he must have cured 4 times in her fertile pussy
 
As the results of the poll on this thread show, this is overwhelmingly a male fantasy - although I do note that considerably more women are in favour than not as well! So this is something I've always wondered in conversations I've had about it with my wife, and I'd appreciate other perspectives - do women go into hotwife/mfm scenarios primarily to please the guy who has a raging fantasy about it (as I do)? I've always told my wife I would never want her to do it just to please me, it has to be something she really wants - which I suspect is why she hasn't (or part of the reason why...) Do women 'get' why their men want to share them with other guys so much? Are there specific things that hold them back from being as enthusiastic for it, and if so, what?
 
Darkgemini said:
I'm getting more and more into this hehe X it's such an amazing experience to share with your partner , don't get me wrong the feeling of MFM with hubby is incredible especially DP but it's so much more of mental turn to have him just watch me or know that I'm with someone when he is not there and telling him and sending photos about it after xxxx I can't describe it the way it deserves but seeing him looking at me its the definition of a mindfuck I think hehe X
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o you ever have him clean you up afterwards?
 
ukcouple4play said:
As the results of the poll on this thread show, this is overwhelmingly a male fantasy - although I do note that considerably more women are in favour than not as well! So this is something I've always wondered in conversations I've had about it with my wife, and I'd appreciate other perspectives - do women go into hotwife/mfm scenarios primarily to please the guy who has a raging fantasy about it (as I do)? I've always told my wife I would never want her to do it just to please me, it has to be something she really wants - which I suspect is why she hasn't (or part of the reason why...) Do women 'get' why their men want to share them with other guys so much? Are there specific things that hold them back from being as enthusiastic for it, and if so, what?
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I went into it because I wanted to, but a lot of attention went into building his genuine (and ultimately enthusiastic acceptance). I've always felt that it would be more problematic for a wife to do it to satisfy her husband's urges.

That said and as you have suggested a lot more women are into it than one might imagine. I think that more women are sexually interested in other men than is generally acknowledged. And part of the reason this is not widely acknowledged is because men are overall hostile to the idea.

As a result it is natural for us to be concerned that our husbands will not be accepting once they have the experience in real life as opposed to fantasy. But we as women also tend to suppress our own awareness of our desire for other men because we know the trouble it can lead to with our SO and as a result we may also resist because we are wary of our own reaction - will we like it too much? What if I love it and my husband decides he can deal with IRL.
 
policywank said:
I went into it because I wanted to, but a lot of attention went into building his genuine (and ultimately enthusiastic acceptance). I've always felt that it would be more problematic for a wife to do it to satisfy her husband's urges.

That said and as you have suggested a lot more women are into it than one might imagine. I think that more women are sexually interested in other men than is generally acknowledged. And part of the reason this is not widely acknowledged is because men are overall hostile to the idea.

As a result it is natural for us to be concerned that our husbands will not be accepting once they have the experience in real life as opposed to fantasy. But we as women also tend to suppress our own awareness of our desire for other men because we know the trouble it can lead to with our SO and as a result we may also resist because we are wary of our own reaction - will we like it too much? What if I love it and my husband decides he can deal with IRL.
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Thanks for a great reply. It seems to be there is an element of mutual misunderstanding / assumption going on here - are men 'overall' hostile to the idea of women being sexually open/available to other men even in a relationship? I agree this is the common conception, but I wonder whether this is another of those things we're taught to believe (and even feel) about sex and relationships. Not to get overly deep, but if the patriarchal monogamous relationship is a social construct, then haven't men for centuries been 'taught' to be jealous of their woman/possession just as much as women have been 'taught' to know their role as little wifey? How much of jealous male possessiveness is genuine, instinctive emotion? The sheer popularity of the whole hotwife dynamic amongst men makes me question that.

I can totally see the point you make about women holding back because they worry that their guy couldn't handle the reality. That's formed part of the conversations my wife and I have had about it. I can't say if I could because we've never done it for real. I think your comment about women 'suppressing awareness of their desires' probably hits the nail on the head, and can equally apply to men (we learn not to let our wives even scratch the surface about how many other women we'd like to fuck!) It's a pretty depressing thought when you think of it - two people bound in what is meant to be a life partnership basically suppressing their desires because of the other!
 
Darkgemini said:
I'm getting more and more into this hehe X it's such an amazing experience to share with your partner , don't get me wrong the feeling of MFM with hubby is incredible especially DP but it's so much more of mental turn to have him just watch me or know that I'm with someone when he is not there and telling him and sending photos about it after xxxx I can't describe it the way it deserves but seeing him looking at me its the definition of a mindfuck I think hehe X

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Two and three...very hot..thank you....:)
 
ukcouple4play said:
Thanks for a great reply. It seems to be there is an element of mutual misunderstanding / assumption going on here - are men 'overall' hostile to the idea of women being sexually open/available to other men even in a relationship? I agree this is the common conception, but I wonder whether this is another of those things we're taught to believe (and even feel) about sex and relationships. Not to get overly deep, but if the patriarchal monogamous relationship is a social construct, then haven't men for centuries been 'taught' to be jealous of their woman/possession just as much as women have been 'taught' to know their role as little wifey? How much of jealous male possessiveness is genuine, instinctive emotion? The sheer popularity of the whole hotwife dynamic amongst men makes me question that.

I can totally see the point you make about women holding back because they worry that their guy couldn't handle the reality. That's formed part of the conversations my wife and I have had about it. I can't say if I could because we've never done it for real. I think your comment about women 'suppressing awareness of their desires' probably hits the nail on the head, and can equally apply to men (we learn not to let our wives even scratch the surface about how many other women we'd like to fuck!) It's a pretty depressing thought when you think of it - two people bound in what is meant to be a life partnership basically suppressing their desires because of the other!
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I think that jealousy is at least partially a social construct or to the extent that it is a natural emotion the point at which it kicks in is a social construct. There are places in the world where if other men see a wife's face or ankles the husband would become jealous. In the west we don't care if other men see our wife in a bathing suit, but not in lingerie or underwear. There are places where local culture encourages sharing of a wife's sexual pleasures. The same happens with touching, hugging, whatever. We are raised in a certain environment, taught what is and isn't acceptable which establishes our jealousy threshold.

It is also affected by our own insecurities. Contrary to the stereotype I believe that most cuckolds are strong and confident.

So the threshold at which men become jealous and women's supposed propensity for monogamy are in fact learned behaviours - not innate characteristics. However, I think it is more difficult for men to let go of their jealousy because in a way there is nothing in it for them. At least until they open their minds further the prospect of letting go of their assumptions about their wife's fidelity promises only derision and humiliation in front of their fellow men. Whereas for the wife who considers exploring her sexual desire the prospect of doing so can be very enticing - it is not without risk or problems but the potential reward in sexual pleasure is self evident.

When looking at the social construct of monogamy it is pretty clear that society punishes women who don't comply. But what is the most powerful tool of suppression? It is their husband's prospective humiliation and his resulting motivation to be at the lead end of suppressing his wife's sexuality.

I would take a bit of a different spin on your last point about awareness of our spouse's sexual desire. Wives know our husbands have desire for other women. We don't want to hear about and we expect them to keep it in check but we don't fool ourselves that it exists. For many husbands it isn't enough to keep it in check. They need to believe that their wife could never want another man. The prospect that every husband is the "be all and end all" sexual being is too unrealistic so men convince themselves that their wife could never want another man by way of a contrived and fictional version of female sexuality.

The whole idea that men are naturally inclined to spread their seed and women are naturally inclined to nest in a monogamous household is contrived. Consider the idea of evolutionary psychology - supposedly women are inherently monogamous because historically we needed a man for protection, to provide for us and for offspring. Those pedalling that theory conveniently ignore that it was primarily men we need protection from, we only needed them to provide because they cut off a woman's ability to earn and be equal and offspring is best assured by multiple partners. Isn't that like putting a bird in a cage and saying - "see look he doesn't want to fly"?

In fact, men have a greater need for monogamy because for many a mandatory one-to-one ratio is their best shot at finding a mate.

Women do think about sex with other men. Our desire is not limited to our spouse or a man with whom we are in love. No one man can be the best of everything sexually. And women have more opportunity to explore sexual experiences than most men.

So to your first point - are all men hostile to the idea of their wives being sexually available to other men? They are because they are taught to be hostile to the idea. Only the strong, secure and introspective can get past that conditioning. And as we mature both genders start to wonder about those starting assumptions.
 
I have watched her many times and it never gets old. I love watching her pleasure another man's cock and being pleasured. She loves it so much and loves me watching.
 
I am an older female and did not respond to the poll. For me it does not excite me to be watched but I don't mind with the right person. My focus is on my lover and my pleasure. Hubby loves to watch so I am OK with him doing so.
 
Islander55 said:
I am an older female and did not respond to the poll. For me it does not excite me to be watched but I don't mind with the right person. My focus is on my lover and my pleasure. Hubby loves to watch so I am OK with him doing so.
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My wife could have written this post herself. She doesn’t mind me being in our bedroom when she’s having sex with her current lover. But she does it for my benefit. I’m sure she gets more into it after I’ve left the room.
 
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