Welcome Mat

[AsylumSeeker]

emotion is good,shows people u are still alive

prolly true

 

[LadyCibelle]

Hmm I know I haven't been seen for a while, but it's not a reason to turn the EF into the GB.

If you wouldn't mind, I'd appreciate if you moved your "conversation" to the Watercooler or even the GB.


Thank you.

 

[driphoney]

I guess, AS, you're going to have to rename your thread "The Un-welcome Mat." It was nice while it lasted.

Bye.

 

[poppy_cock]

Kind of how it made me feel too, Driphoney.

Still, Lady C's the boss around here so I guess we'd better break it up. Anyone wanna come over my place?

 

[AsylumSeeker]

Watercooler

Hmm I know I haven't been seen for a while, but it's not a reason to turn the EF into the GB.

If you wouldn't mind, I'd appreciate if you moved your "conversation" to the Watercooler or even the GB.


Thank you.

You're being nice about it and all, but your FUCKING watercooler dispenses nothing but staleness. Come on, go visit it!

Still, that's okay, I'll go away. Not sure what the GB is but I'll prolly figure it out.

Go ahead, wave your wand and make the whole goddamn thread disappear. But it seems to me people were actually enjoying the thread. Oh, ahem, of course... you didn't FUCKING initiate it! But then you'll delete this too.

Yeah, I'm angry. But I'll go away again.

Not that this will be left on the board long enough to see it.

 

[AsylumSeeker]

What The Fuck, LadyC?

I guess, AS, you're going to have to rename your thread "The Un-welcome Mat." It was nice while it lasted.

Bye.

There are people who have found this thread entertaining to say the least. And you show up and decide that it's not worthy? Who the FUCk are you? SHAME on you! We're having a good time and YOU come along to squash that like a goddamn parent?

No, you're VERY wrong.

I could, but won't, add more.

 

[poppy_cock]

I could, but won't, add more.

No, but I can.

Okay. I for one had no idea that it wasn't okay to have a general chatty thread here in the EF. Where does it say that then?

I certainly don't want to chat on the GB, thanks. And the Watercooler's looking a bit unwieldy and long - I don't want to wade through all that when all I wanted to do was exchange a few pleasantries with friends. I don't think this thread was in real danger of turning into a 24 page epic, after all.

Although it might be now...

I edit for people. I like talking to other editors. When I want to hang out with writers, I go to the AH. When I want to hang out with editors, I'd like to hang out here. Well, I thought I would, anyway.

Maybe the reason no one can ever find decent editors is because none of them ever get to feel at home here?

 

[LadyCibelle]

You're being nice about it and all, but your FUCKING watercooler dispenses nothing but staleness. Come on, go visit it!

Still, that's okay, I'll go away. Not sure what the GB is but I'll prolly figure it out.

Go ahead, wave your wand and make the whole goddamn thread disappear. But it seems to me people were actually enjoying the thread. Oh, ahem, of course... you didn't FUCKING initiate it! But then you'll delete this too.

Yeah, I'm angry. But I'll go away again.

Not that this will be left on the board long enough to see it.

There are people who have found this thread entertaining to say the least. And you show up and decide that it's not worthy? Who the FUCk are you? SHAME on you! We're having a good time and YOU come along to squash that like a goddamn parent?

No, you're VERY wrong.

I could, but won't, add more.

Sooo, AS you're off the wagon again I see. Show me ONE thread I haven't been nice or helpful to you. Show me one instance where I wasn't supportive of you. I guess the old French saying is true, huh; fait du bien à un cochon, il va venir chier sur ton perron. If you prefer, it should go along the line of the hand that feeds a rabid animal gets always bitten, huh

I expected more from you, AS. I dunno, I thought we had always been able to resolve our issues without becoming mean and nasty to each other. I thought we were "friends". Look like I don't have the same definition of friendship that you have, huh.

Shame on you, AS. You really disappoint me, now.

No, but I can.

Okay. I for one had no idea that it wasn't okay to have a general chatty thread here in the EF. Where does it say that then?

I certainly don't want to chat on the GB, thanks. And the Watercooler's looking a bit unwieldy and long - I don't want to wade through all that when all I wanted to do was exchange a few pleasantries with friends. I don't think this thread was in real danger of turning into a 24 page epic, after all.

Although it might be now...

I edit for people. I like talking to other editors. When I want to hang out with writers, I go to the AH. When I want to hang out with editors, I'd like to hang out here. Well, I thought I would, anyway.

Maybe the reason no one can ever find decent editors is because none of them ever get to feel at home here?

Uh, wait a minute here. Lets calm down and look at what I said. I never said that people couldn't come and hang out with fellow editors. All I asked is that the EF stayed clear of "babbling" (sorry but you've both pissed me off so much now that I'm losing my English). There is a perfectly good thread for it, it's called The Watercooler. I don't know what you have against it, and I don't know why you'd have to wade into 24 pages to say hi to a friend of yours. Don't you know that in every thread there is a function called "go to unread post"? Let me tell you it's perfect to not have to wade into 24 or a hundred pages.

Don't know how far along you went into "old" threads, but if you did you'd see that The WAtercooler was conceived because people were complaining that the EF was becoming an "inane chattter, GB-style" thread instead of being a thread where Editors could come and offer their services or reply to "help needed" thread.

I don't think that I'm anybody but myself and I resent the fact that your jumping on me without knowing a shred of who I am.

People who do know me, ask AS if he ever gets on the wagon again, how many times I fought for him, how many nights I spent IM back and forth with him because he has made an ass of himself because he was drunk, ask anybody who knows me and they'll tell you that I'm the first one to fight for Editors, and then I get that shit!

I won't delete this thread as a reminder (to myself) that it's pointless to be nice and helpful to strangers, they'll backstab you just as quick as they were when they needed help and came to you for help. That's for your AS. Fuck you and the horse you rode in to!

 

[poppy_cock]

Uh, wait a minute here. Lets calm down and look at what I said. I never said that people couldn't come and hang out with fellow editors. All I asked is that the EF stayed clear of "babbling" (sorry but you've both pissed me off so much now that I'm losing my English).

I pissed you off? Um, right. Sorry. Wasn't my intention. I was just confused by what happened to the thread and AS's reaction.

There is a perfectly good thread for it, it's called The Watercooler. I don't know what you have against it, and I don't know why you'd have to wade into 24 pages to say hi to a friend of yours. Don't you know that in every thread there is a function called "go to unread post"? Let me tell you it's perfect to not have to wade into 24 or a hundred pages.

I didn't know that. I'll look into it, thanks for the tip.

Don't know how far along you went into "old" threads, but if you did you'd see that The WAtercooler was conceived because people were complaining that the EF was becoming an "inane chattter, GB-style" thread instead of being a thread where Editors could come and offer their services or reply to "help needed" thread.

Ah right. No, I didn't look into "old threads". I didn't know I needed to.

I don't think that I'm anybody but myself and I resent the fact that your jumping on me without knowing a shred of who I am.

I'm jumping on you? Again, not my intention at all. And you're right, I don't know who you are, other than your name and the fact that you're this forum's moderator. And now I know that having chatty threads here is not on, so I won't participate in any again, okay?

I won't delete this thread as a reminder (to myself) that it's pointless to be nice and helpful to strangers, they'll backstab you just as quick as they were when they needed help and came to you for help.

Um right. Thanks. I think you've just rather proved the point I made. Again, it was never my intention to do any back-stabbing - and to be honest, I really don't think I did. People who know me know that's hardly my style. Just for the record, I'm actually quite a nice person.

I'm sorry I 'babbled' here and that I somehow pissed you off. I'll take my babbling somewhere else from now on.

 

[poppy_cock]

Just to add, I donned my waders and waded through all 24 pages of the Watercooler. I thought it might be a good idea.

Much has become clear.

Alright, from hereon, I promise to keep my nose out of what's clearly other people's business. I had no idea. *sigh*

I need a hug now.

 

[AsylumSeeker]

Yeah, I also recall your "professional" assurances that all would be confidential! So much forf "your confidientiality".

Things are getting ugly now, so be it.

You'll be happy to know I have liver disease! YAY BITCH!

I have few friends and just wanted to reconnect.

THANKS MUCH FOR FUCKING THIS UP!

 

[AsylumSeeker]

Just to add, I donned my waders and waded through all 24 pages of the Watercooler. I thought it might be a good idea.

Much has become clear.

Alright, from hereon, I promise to keep my nose out of what's clearly other people's business. I had no idea. *sigh*

I need a hug now.

Thnx PC, a noble effort!

If in the afterlife you need a favor, I'm yout demon!

 

[LadyCibelle]

I pissed you off? Um, right. Sorry. Wasn't my intention. I was just confused by what happened to the thread and AS's reaction.



I didn't know that. I'll look into it, thanks for the tip.



Ah right. No, I didn't look into "old threads". I didn't know I needed to.



I'm jumping on you? Again, not my intention at all. And you're right, I don't know who you are, other than your name and the fact that you're this forum's moderator. And now I know that having chatty threads here is not on, so I won't participate in any again, okay?



Um right. Thanks. I think you've just rather proved the point I made. Again, it was never my intention to do any back-stabbing - and to be honest, I really don't think I did. People who know me know that's hardly my style. Just for the record, I'm actually quite a nice person.

I'm sorry I 'babbled' here and that I somehow pissed you off. I'll take my babbling somewhere else from now on.

Just to add, I donned my waders and waded through all 24 pages of the Watercooler. I thought it might be a good idea.

Much has become clear.

Alright, from hereon, I promise to keep my nose out of what's clearly other people's business. I had no idea. *sigh*

I need a hug now.

For starters? Hugs * 10. A couple with that order too?
Now lets backtrack and see where we went wrong, okay?

I got pissed off because you got on AS's wagon without knowing the whole story. I Overreacted towards you and I apologize profusely for that. I'm not in the habit of jumping on people and giving them shit for no apparent reason. My annoyance at AS should have been directed at him and not to you. War over?

From hereon you're allowed to stick your nose into other people's business, at least in mine, and say what you think is wrong or going there fast.

I might be the mod around here, but that's all I am. I was out of my bed and asked to look at this thread because some people complained that it was becoming GBesque.

Then, the backstabbing comment was thrown at you. If you had highlighted the part before the face, you'd have seen it. I had no reason to call you a backstabber, as you so elequently said, we don't know each other.

So, anyway, I don't have anything against you and wish you'd come back, if only to tell me that I was wrong and hurt your feelings.

 

[LadyCibelle]

Yeah, I also recall your "professional" assurances that all would be confidential! So much forf "your confidientiality".

Things are getting ugly now, so be it.

You'll be happy to know I have liver disease! YAY BITCH!

I have few friends and just wanted to reconnect.

THANKS MUCH FOR FUCKING THIS UP!

Thanks for the compliment. It pleases me to no-end that you're calling me a bitch.

Professionality went out the door the moment you stepped on me and were rude to me. You had no rights to jump on me the way you did.

Liver disease, huh? Yeah that's one way to gain sympathies

I don't walk around here saying that I should be molly-cuddled because I have fibromyalgia, rheumatoid arthritis, ankilosing spondylythis and most probably uterine cancer or endometriosis.

So, please using the "liver disease" excuses for being an asshole doesn't win you any brownie points in my book.

Stand on your own two feet, leave the bottle alone for a while and re-read your attack on me, maybe, just maybe, you'll realise that the bitch only retaliated when you attacked her.

You know the saying, "you reap what you sow"? Welllllllll look at yourself in a mirror and meditate on that saying.

Now this was the last comment I'll do here, if you have something to say, send an IM or a mail, and hope against hope that I feel like talking to you again.

 

[AsylumSeeker]

I never meant things to get to this point.

LadyC, you have been nothing but kind to me. I don't know where this hatred of life comes from.

This is all MY fault, for those who still follow this drama. Many eons ago I disagreed with LadyC, she following a different ideal, mine a simpler one

I do have my problems, drinking problems, the dreadd "alcohol"

But a buzz is nice

 

[AsylumSeeker]

My name is MUDD here. Won't be back,

But LadyC is all class, been nothing but kind to me.

LadyC, would like to put the unrest behind us. You are a dear, kind, gentle soul.

A bit vindictive too.

Whatverer. You win. lol. I lose, in so many ways.

Bye ya'll

 

[driphoney]

Your name isn't mudd, AS. You just lose your cool from time to time.

It was all a bit rough, but don't take it all so personally. It's the internet. We can't see faces; we don't know lives. Just go with the flow a bit. Accept the good, throw out the bad.

(Really, really don't want you to go.)

 

[sr71plt]

Oh, gawd, AS, you were just chatting on a forum that isn't used for much of anything else but hookups with editors (and complaints about not being able to hook up with editors--all against the background that there are very few qualified editors roaming around here to begin with).

The wild, out-of-the-blue, over-the-top nastiness and betrayal of confidences came from somewhere else.

And (A) Speaking of mats, you haven't been treated kindly for some time here; you've been treated like a door mat, and (B) in reading this thread, you are not the one I would have guessed was drunk.

And now I hear the tromping of the feet of the rabid one coming to ream me out too--which she can just forget, because I don't give a rat's behind. She has no business to be a "moderator" of a chat board--and she's pushed this one right into dormancy.

 

[AsylumSeeker]

Oh, gawd, AS, you were just chatting on a forum that isn't used for much of anything else but hookups with editors (and complaints about not being able to hook up with editors--all against the background that there are very few qualified editors roaming around here to begin with).

The wild, out-of-the-blue, over-the-top nastiness and betrayal of confidences came from somewhere else.

And (A) Speaking of mats, you haven't been treated kindly for some time here; you've been treated like a door mat, and (B) in reading this thread, you are not the one I would have guessed was drunk.

And now I hear the tromping of the feet of the rabid one coming to ream me out too--which she can just forget, because I don't give a rat's behind. She has no business to be a "moderator" of a chat board--and she's pushed this one right into dormancy.

LOL.. now this is the LIT I'm comfy with

Thanks to all

 

[_Lynn_]

Oh, gawd, AS, you were just chatting on a forum that isn't used for much of anything else but hookups with editors (and complaints about not being able to hook up with editors--all against the background that there are very few qualified editors roaming around here to begin with).

The wild, out-of-the-blue, over-the-top nastiness and betrayal of confidences came from somewhere else.

And (A) Speaking of mats, you haven't been treated kindly for some time here; you've been treated like a door mat, and (B) in reading this thread, you are not the one I would have guessed was drunk.

And now I hear the tromping of the feet of the rabid one coming to ream me out too--which she can just forget, because I don't give a rat's behind. She has no business to be a "moderator" of a chat board--and she's pushed this one right into dormancy.

Well said.


*hoping I will be able to explain things like this when I grow up*

 

[AsylumSeeker]

I Am Sorry

I haven't been myself the past few days. What I've written is "simply" not "me". Luckily I've been here long enough to have established a rep opposite of what I have demontsrated here.

I abhor working nights and on occasion I have done so on a temp basis in the past, and I will say that LadyC had been a help. Thanks LadyC for this. I would offer an apology, but I'm still wondering who is the victim here.

For those I have edited for in the past, I will continue to edit. But I will no longer seek new writers.

Many, many thanks for those who support me. You all are the greatest.

 

[AsylumSeeker]

Hmm I know I haven't been seen for a while, but it's not a reason to turn the EF into the GB.

If you wouldn't mind, I'd appreciate if you moved your "conversation" to the Watercooler or even the GB.


Thank you.

You've been nothing but kind to me and here is your reward. More of me, lol.