What Are You Thinking? Continued 14

That I see people telling themselves some dumb things in pain, and thinking the worst of themselves or each other.
We all feel pain, frustration. When you’re on the outside looking in, it’s easier to see and say the dumb things we tell ourselves; been on both sides of that too
Think if there’s an option between believing the best and worst of ourselves, and those we care about, I’m gonna try and choose the best
 
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If your mother is making a health care related decision about your father and electing to not tell you until after it's done, that is not a healthy relationship. Christ alive.
It maybe doesn’t sound like it, but hope she at least made the right decision…
 
Depression is a bitch, it must die! But how when this whole world is sucked up in its lie?
Today I want to be different, today I will not fall into its traps! I am who I chose to be. Some is good some is bad, but it is my choice to be who I am. I accept this, i chose this attitude of mine, what I hate can be fixed, yes it may take time. But fuck this lie, this thing telling me I am not worthy! I am worthy! Hear my battle cry!
 
If your mother is making a health care related decision about your father and electing to not tell you until after it's done, that is not a healthy relationship. Christ alive.
Sorry, that must suck.

You may be excluded by his/her wishes. No matter what the decision, it may have already been made long ago. They ARE each others advocate for healthcare decisions by default. (I was literally just going over "power of" paperwork for my parents, they're doing estate planning right now...)
 
I have lots of different types of clients and the nature of my work makes it so I need to be available for calls at anytime for emergencies. Unfortunately some people think this gives them license to call me whenever, for whatever reason.

A bunch of my clients are little old ladies - my business partner calls them my L-O-L’s. They usually call in the evenings and mornings on Saturdays.

Some of my clients are extremely wealthy and only have their assistants call me during business hours. When the richies call personally, it’s usually on Sunday morning.

Monday mornings my phone starts ringing at 7 o’clock. It’s usually men, jacked up on coffee and who knows what else. Four of them called this morning, all wanting me take care of their issues first.

I’m running triage before I’m fully awake!

Fucking Monday. 😡
 
I have lots of different types of clients and the nature of my work makes it so I need to be available for calls at anytime for emergencies. Unfortunately some people think this gives them license to call me whenever, for whatever reason.

A bunch of my clients are little old ladies - my business partner calls them my L-O-L’s. They usually call in the evenings and mornings on Saturdays.

Some of my clients are extremely wealthy and only have their assistants call me during business hours. When the richies call personally, it’s usually on Sunday morning.

Monday mornings my phone starts ringing at 7 o’clock. It’s usually men, jacked up on coffee and who knows what else. Four of them called this morning, all wanting me take care of their issues first.

I’m running triage before I’m fully awake!

Fucking Monday. 😡
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Sorry, that must suck.

You may be excluded by his/her wishes. No matter what the decision, it may have already been made long ago. They ARE each others advocate for healthcare decisions by default. (I was literally just going over "power of" paperwork for my parents, they're doing estate planning right now...)

Oh, I wish it was just simple planning advance stuff, but I have a good pulse on the DNRs, end of life stuff. This was a decision to about where he's going to live and I just sort of clammed up and sat on my hands.
 
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