What do you like? A or B?

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[TheJestersAdvocate]

A. Because I didn't think they were optional.

Oh, damn these questions, pass this one on, for speed,

Well, I doubt I could do the kegel balls myself....and while I'm not opposed to as splay, I doubt I'd be comfortable wearing a buttplug. But who knows.

As for on a woman.....whichever she is comfortable with...though I do admit to wanting to see how one works the kegel balls. Plus if she works it well....that's a wonderful clue to possible fun later.

A. Exhibition
B. Voyeur

 

[MastersDelight]

Well, I doubt I could do the kegel balls myself....and while I'm not opposed to as splay, I doubt I'd be comfortable wearing a buttplug. But who knows.

As for on a woman.....whichever she is comfortable with...though I do admit to wanting to see how one works the kegel balls. Plus if she works it well....that's a wonderful clue to possible fun later.

A. Exhibition
B. Voyeur

Yes.

Oh wait, pick one? In a public setting..voyeur. I can do exhibitionism via pics online, I think I would have a hard time in public. Just my own insecurities......

I still didn't answer did I lol. Voyeur I guess...

Pass

 

[TheJestersAdvocate]

Yes.

Oh wait, pick one? In a public setting..voyeur. I can do exhibitionism via pics online, I think I would have a hard time in public. Just my own insecurities......

I still didn't answer did I lol. Voyeur I guess...

Pass

*smirks* It's an answer....just not a clear concise one. But that's ok....this is a hard choice for some.

As for myself, it all depends on my mood, setting and company...if there is any. So both would be fitting, but if I had to choose, I would say voyeur, while giving her words of encouragement.


Passing it on.

 

[cookiecat]

Total voyeur. I like staying hidden.

Do you like:

A. Being teased?
B. Going right to the meat and potatoes?

 

[TheJestersAdvocate]

Total voyeur. I like staying hidden.

Do you like:

A. Being teased?
B. Going right to the meat and potatoes?

If it's literally meat and potatoes....then go for it. especially if i am hungry.

Speaking in the euphemism sense....prefer a good tease and giving one myself.....just getting one another so riled up, the anticipation building and building, that it eventually explodes in a crescendo of bliss. I do understand that sometimes you have to "dig in" if you will and go right to it.

Passing it on.

 

[MastersDelight]

If it's literally meat and potatoes....then go for it. especially if i am hungry.

Speaking in the euphemism sense....prefer a good tease and giving one myself.....just getting one another so riled up, the anticipation building and building, that it eventually explodes in a crescendo of bliss. I do understand that sometimes you have to "dig in" if you will and go right to it.

Passing it on.

Omg yes teasing. I love being a pile of aroused sexual mush when he decides to have his way with me .....

Hm? What were we talking about? Oh yeah!


A. Bare handed spanking
B. Paddle

 

[TheJestersAdvocate]

Omg yes teasing. I love being a pile of aroused sexual mush when he decides to have his way with me .....

Hm? What were we talking about? Oh yeah!


A. Bare handed spanking
B. Paddle

I would have to say, generally speaking, bare handed. there is something about skin on skin contact, feeling my palm smack against her ass, feeling the warmth radiating off her cheeks grow more intense....first in anticipation then by whacking her butt over and over. Afterwards....if she's earned it.....nothing like a cool hand soothingly stroking away the brunt of the sting from a good hard smacking. But if she's been bad, then a paddle/belt or outside implement may be needed. Or even if she's been exceptionally good.....just depends on whether she likes the leather or doesn't.

Passing it again....

 

[MastersDelight]

I would have to say, generally speaking, bare handed. there is something about skin on skin contact, feeling my palm smack against her ass, feeling the warmth radiating off her cheeks grow more intense....first in anticipation then by whacking her butt over and over. Afterwards....if she's earned it.....nothing like a cool hand soothingly stroking away the brunt of the sting from a good hard smacking. But if she's been bad, then a paddle/belt or outside implement may be needed. Or even if she's been exceptionally good.....just depends on whether she likes the leather or doesn't.

Passing it again....

Hand is a great start (or end for caresses) but I can't live without belts, paddles, floggers, etc.

Pass

 

[cascadiabound]

A. Bare handed spanking
B. Paddle

I would have to say, generally speaking, bare handed. there is something about skin on skin contact, feeling my palm smack against her ass, feeling the warmth radiating off her cheeks grow more intense....first in anticipation then by whacking her butt over and over. Afterwards....if she's earned it.....nothing like a cool hand soothingly stroking away the brunt of the sting from a good hard smacking. But if she's been bad, then a paddle/belt or outside implement may be needed. Or even if she's been exceptionally good.....just depends on whether she likes the leather or doesn't.
...

A. A. A...
And JA...you have already explained why. (omg)

~passing the question on~

 

[MastersDelight]

B) paddle. or a really sturdy brush. Partially because I don't want to stun out my palpitative senses by stinging my hand.

A) led by the wrist
B) instructed

B!

While being led is fun (and something about that touch * shivers) being instructed I take more as a challenge to obey on my own.

 

[TheJestersAdvocate]

A. A. A...
And JA...you have already explained why. (omg)

~passing the question on~

Is that a good or bad omg? *smirks and winks* And while -you- may have already seen my explanation, others may not have. Besides, i get a thrill out of telling it and I doubt I'm the only one that enjoys the....repetition.

As for the last question....I would say i prefer to instruct. To lead a woman to a "play area" then yes, hold their hand.....but while playing, I like to see how well she can follow the instructions given to her.

A. Having your neck licked,nibbled, sucked, bitten....etc.
B. Having your inner thighs given the same treatment.

 

[LallyH]

Is that a good or bad omg? *smirks and winks* And while -you- may have already seen my explanation, others may not have. Besides, i get a thrill out of telling it and I doubt I'm the only one that enjoys the....repetition.

As for the last question....I would say i prefer to instruct. To lead a woman to a "play area" then yes, hold their hand.....but while playing, I like to see how well she can follow the instructions given to her.

A. Having your neck licked,nibbled, sucked, bitten....etc.
B. Having your inner thighs given the same treatment.

Definitely B. I recoil from anything tickling my neck

During a scene..
A. Background music
B. Silence

 

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[LallyH]

been so long since so few scenes.

B: Silence

music is appealing, but getting distracted might dimish or derail any ASMR reaction that would be my whole raison d'être for submitting.On the flipside, I positively could not do without hearing a sub's breathing

That's a good one. passing it on.

I'm wondering whether I should have phrased the first option as background sound rather than music, the latter seeming to imply 'songs' perhaps.

Personally I choose A. Music training means that I 'listen' constantly, and my hearing is ridiculously acute. So we use ambient tracks by the Eno brothers which are subtle and relaxing, and give my brain something to lock on to. Without this, I would be listening for sounds from outside - traffic in the distance, dogs barking - which I would find too distracting. I can sink into the ambient noise so that I'm hardly aware of it - it's like a cushion my hearing can lie on and take a break

In fact, it seems that I am so programmed by these particular sounds now that, as soon as the first track starts, my mind and body drop easily into a submissive 'mindset'. Which can be awkward if I hear any of them in a public setting

Passing it on...

 

[TheJestersAdvocate]

leading to a play area was the intended spirit of my question, but the only part i made specific was "wrist". (which tends to be a very different experience for the sub than holding hands)

I liked that you flipped to the Dom bent on it though. It's too easy to ask the questions from a single perspective, switch or not.

I might have once said "instructions" myself, but being seized by the wrist and dragged to bed with nary a word was a powerful experience in my early exploration of submission.



been so long since so few scenes.

B: Silence

music is appealing, but getting distracted might dimish or derail any ASMR reaction that would be my whole raison d'être for submitting.On the flipside, I positively could not do without hearing a sub's breathing

That's a good one. passing it on.

It appears i misinterpreted your statement, i thought you meant walking them through the motions, holding their hand, literally or metaphorically.

Now that I understand what you meant....I'd have to say that it's a matter of what the mood is, whatever combination wether I or she is aroused, there is the urgency of passion or the need to get things done swiftly (and that is wether or not you're both constrained for time or you need to get that "first shot" off so you can savor the rest of your time).....then yes, I'll grab her and pull her along.

As for sounds.....I prefer natural soft sounds/songs if music is to be playing and if it can help enhance the mood I am trying to create. Otherwise, I enjoy hearing her sounds of pleasure or just simply breathing.

Passing it on.

 

[MastersDelight]

It appears i misinterpreted your statement, i thought you meant walking them through the motions, holding their hand, literally or metaphorically.

Now that I understand what you meant....I'd have to say that it's a matter of what the mood is, whatever combination wether I or she is aroused, there is the urgency of passion or the need to get things done swiftly (and that is wether or not you're both constrained for time or you need to get that "first shot" off so you can savor the rest of your time).....then yes, I'll grab her and pull her along.

As for sounds.....I prefer natural soft sounds/songs if music is to be playing and if it can help enhance the mood I am trying to create. Otherwise, I enjoy hearing her sounds of pleasure or just simply breathing.

Passing it on.

I've played with both music and silence. The music was nice, it was easier to slip into space but as things progressed i can honestly tell you i have no idea what was playing in the background as i was VERY focused on the rhythm of the blows and my own physical space.

With silence i tune into His breathing, the falls of the flogger cutting the air, the rhythmic smack against my skin. His low words of encouragement, the sound of a smile on His lips.

I'd have to go with silence

A. Summer
B. Winter

 

[TheJestersAdvocate]

I've played with both music and silence. The music was nice, it was easier to slip into space but as things progressed i can honestly tell you i have no idea what was playing in the background as i was VERY focused on the rhythm of the blows and my own physical space.

With silence i tune into His breathing, the falls of the flogger cutting the air, the rhythmic smack against my skin. His low words of encouragement, the sound of a smile on His lips.

I'd have to go with silence

A. Summer
B. Winter

Winter.

Just something about it....besides the fact I'm a winter born lad. Get a nice snowfall and the landscape turns into a brilliant masterpiece. Besides, there are far more ways to beat the chill than the heat....**** too.

Passing it on....(seems I've been doing that a lot lately....lol)

 

[Blue]

Winter.

Just something about it....besides the fact I'm a winter born lad. Get a nice snowfall and the landscape turns into a brilliant masterpiece. Besides, there are far more ways to beat the chill than the heat....**** too.

Passing it on....(seems I've been doing that a lot lately....lol)

Winter too.
I am a cold blooded reptile. Summer hurts me.

 

[Farawyn]

Winter too.
I am a cold blooded reptile. Summer hurts me.

I'm assuming you are passing it, Con?

Summer
but Winter is Coming...


Who would ya rather...?

A. Jon Snow
B. Jaime Lannister

 

[MastersDelight]

Winter too.
I am a cold blooded reptile. Summer hurts me.

If you're a reptile wouldn't winter hurt you instead of summer? Since you rely on the environmental temperature to maintain your body warmth to function and processed food?

I like winter too. It's pretty, and as Jester said there's plenty of ways to stay warm. Summers here are a nightmare. I'd much rather live in an over sized hoodie sipping warm tea curled next to Him.


Who would I rather? Can I have both?

If I had to choose.... Jon is hotter but he knows nothing... So I'd have to go with Jamie.

Same question!

 

[Farawyn]

ok A

A) Presley
B) Cash

Loved that you answered.

B. The Man in Black

A.Phil Dunphy
B. Claire Dunphy

 

[TheJestersAdvocate]

Loved that you answered.

B. The Man in Black

A.Phil Dunphy
B. Claire Dunphy

For laughs, Phil...although Claire is great for unexpected laughs now and again.

As for Claire....well it's easy to imagine why I'd pick her. Anyone ever see Happy Gilmore?

A. Being able to own a working lightsaber
B. A working wand. (No you can't magic up a lightsaber....that's cheating).

 

[TheJestersAdvocate]

That very much depends on what the wand actually does.

But in general B) wand, even if it's just the kind I have to bury in cement.

A) Pandora
B) personal collection (mp3s, vinyl, whatever)

B....B....B! Because I know what I like and can put that on, without having to keep tabs on the damn thing and let it know that "Yes I am indeed still listening to my music.....you attention whore!"

And since you brought it up....

A. Music players (mp3, walkmans...etc)
B. Vinyl

 

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