What Does Beint Turned on By Cock Mean

[cyberking001]

Hello,

I'm new here and I just have a question. I am married, I identify myself as hetrosexual, I love my wife, she turns me on, I love having sex with her, She is gorgeous, just looking at her boobs makes my cock hard.

ON the other side, I enjoy and get off on Gay porn. Mostly just BJ stuff. I was abused as a kid (cousin made me suck his cock a few times). Since then, it's been like a fetish. I've done it a few times but it made be feel sick. But still, I get off wathing stuff.

Are any of you guys in this situation? What is the deal with this? Am I bi or did what happened to me program me to take some kind of liking to the other side.

I'm comfortable with it now and have decided that I'm following the straight path as it just makes the most sense to be. I'm just curious if anyone else is in this boat.

it is totally normal for a guy to be cock-curious. the only portion of your question that is disturbing is the abuse you took from your cousin -- you don't state either of your ages, but i am guessing that it was young ... and that would be a terrible experience, for which you have my deepest sympathy. sex should NEVER be forced, regardless of gender.

stay loyal to your wife and if you ever feel cock-curious again, there is always gay porn to watch, fantasize to, and jerk off to. guys who do it for real are NOT sick -- they are gay or bisexual and they know what they like.

best of luck in your comfort zone whatever that may be (sam)

 

[Cape1]

it is totally normal for a guy to be cock-curious. the only portion of your question that is disturbing is the abuse you took from your cousin -- you don't state either of your ages, but i am guessing that it was young ... and that would be a terrible experience, for which you have my deepest sympathy. sex should NEVER be forced, regardless of gender.

stay loyal to your wife and if you ever feel cock-curious again, there is always gay porn to watch, fantasize to, and jerk off to. guys who do it for real are NOT sick -- they are gay or bisexual and they know what they like.

best of luck in your comfort zone whatever that may be (sam)

Thank man. THis is good info. The more I actually come to grips with the whole thing, the less cock curious I am. I think I just got screwed here. Either way, I get it. I've been altered. I will always have that cock curiosity. I just have to realize where it's coming from. I've never felt good about doing it the few times I've done it. There has to be a reason for that. Yeah it was young. Way too young. I went though allot of shit as a result.

 

[sandysub]

hi

I am 40f and i get turned on by cocks and a wet pussy. Guess I am wierd

 

[Cape1]

I am 40f and i get turned on by cocks and a wet pussy. Guess I am wierd

Probably not. You probably jus think you like cock but given the choice in person, I bet you choose the girly parts..

 

[tg51]

Do you think it is possible that you are feeling guilty for the early experience and you are afraid to come to grips with having enjoyed it?

 

[Cape1]

Do you think it is possible that you are feeling guilty for the early experience and you are afraid to come to grips with having enjoyed it?

Yes. I did enojoy it but that is part of the problem with this kind of thing. Anyone would hae enjoyed it at that age. THat is what was confusing. Hey look, I'm at an age weere i'm comfortable with myself. I will gladly admit that I'm gay or BI. I just dont feel it. I really wonder if I, or many of us, have some kind of underlying issue that causes this cock fetish.

 

[tg51]

I don't think sex is so slotted to be exclusive in any domain, orgasm is the universe no matter how you get there

 

[Cape1]

I don't think sex is so slotted to be exclusive in any domain, orgasm is the universe no matter how you get there

I guess you're right. if cock gets you off, cock gets you off!

 

[Cape1]

Mu Mrs. wants me to post a picutre of my cock out here and see what response I get.