What instrument do you have a love/hate Relationship with?

[missginger2177]

As to the trick thumbs thing, have him research "eel play" and hojojutsu. Eel play is when the bottom specifically tries to escape, and the top tries to prevent it with ropework. Hojojutsu is the art of using rope for martial and law enforcement standards in feudal Japan. Both useful areas of research.

Thank you, thank you. Not that it's going to make much difference. I just found out rope is out of the question, as are handcuffs, belts, spankings, name calling, blindfolds, hair pulling ........

Shit, I think I just got broken up with. The world's in trouble now

 

[Sayyid]

Bat is another term for the crop. A long bat is a longer crop, and a short bat is a shorter one.

Never heard it before.

Thank you, thank you. Not that it's going to make much difference. I just found out rope is out of the question, as are handcuffs, belts, spankings, name calling, blindfolds, hair pulling ........

So S&M is out, basically?

 

[MisterSir]

Thank you, thank you. Not that it's going to make much difference. I just found out rope is out of the question, as are handcuffs, belts, spankings, name calling, blindfolds, hair pulling ........

How did all that suddenly become out of the question?

 

[Cattypuss]

I think the clue is in the "I think I just got broken up with".

 

[OldGuy1026]

Never heard it before.
So S&M is out, basically?

Humm, I don't think so, what do you consider is S&M? To me I use to enjoy a few welts on the bottom, something to think about the next day. I knew a couple Dom's who just were not into spanking, a red blush, that's it. All they want to do is cock tease. Which I... am not exactly into because I'm usually not even tied down. Tied down helpless, interesting kink, but having to stay there, ohhh,

 

[rosco rathbone]

The drums. I mean, I blame myself at the end of the day, it was my decision to take them up and I have to bear the responsibility, but it's so frustrating. All my limbs have different ideas about how to run the show and, once I've got three of them to start collaborating, the fourth will decide "harmony? lol no" and screw the whole thing up. It makes me laugh, it makes me cry, it makes me feel lik-no, sorry, that's radio. The point stays, though, I love it and I hate it.

Cool exercise: paradiddles between every combination of two limbs. Then vary between adding accent on the one and three on limb three and on the one, two , three and four with limb four.

Then make it on the two and four with limb three.

Getting just this for all limbs will take forever, but if you want to get crazy, just use the other rudiments.

 

[Sayyid]

Humm, I don't think so, what do you consider is S&M? To me I use to enjoy a few welts on the bottom, something to think about the next day. I knew a couple Dom's who just were not into spanking, a red blush, that's it. All they want to do is cock tease. Which I... am not exactly into because I'm usually not even tied down. Tied down helpless, interesting kink, but having to stay there, ohhh,

Infliction of pain.

 

[OldGuy1026]

And I thought this was Bondage and Disciplin. To me S&M is very harsh cruel, loss of finances, family, self, being so emotionally tied up by a person you would give up everything.

 

[missginger2177]

I think the clue is in the "I think I just got broken up with".

Thank you. I'm glad *somebody* read that part.

 

[Sayyid]

And I thought this was Bondage and Disciplin. To me S&M is very harsh cruel, loss of finances, family, self, being so emotionally tied up by a person you would give up everything.

Whaaat. That's the extreme (and I'd argue totally unhealthy) side of dominance.

Sadomasochism is the enjoyment of pain: inflicting it (sadism) or receiving it (masochism).

 

[BiBunny]

And I thought this was Bondage and Disciplin. To me S&M is very harsh cruel, loss of finances, family, self, being so emotionally tied up by a person you would give up everything.

The bolded part is hardly limited to practitioners of S&M.