What is the biggest turn on and turn off in a partner?

[Goldenfinger]

Turn ons. Every woman has a different vibe to them.

Turn offs. Woman who are crude.

 

[dolf]

I'm using this thread to pick up tips on how to repel men.

 

[HisArpy]

I'm using this thread to pick up tips on how to repel men.

1. Exhibit symptoms of raging PMS. Works every time under all circumstances.

2. Change your name to Lorena Bobbit and admit to a fondness for having sharp carving implements always ready to hand.

3. Join Literotica and claim you're an innocent 18 year old virgin who enjoys rampant sex with your father.

 

[Riles]

On: Can read a room. Considers me an equal. Respects my needs. Communicates clearly and can take /give apologies as needed. Makes self-care a priority. 6ft+. Great teeth.

Off: poor hygiene- including those dirty fingernails mentioned above when not working! Habitually blames others for mistakes or shortcomings. Ignorant of others feelings.

 

[Dougos]

Personality and personality

 

[DestinyRoad]

Turn ons - romance, softness, patience, long hair, redheads

Turn offs - brattiness, indecisiveness, complaining, lying, manipulation

 

[jeff_is_smiling]

Turn Ons: Intelligent, friendly, compassionate with others, politeness, smiling eyes, hair that begs to be played with.

Turn Offs: Rudeness, constantly snarky, mean-spirited and thinking it's funny, first thoughts always about how the world owes them personally or how something that happens impacts their lives.

 

[OttawaGuy50s]

Turn ons: Playfulness. Adventurous. An impish smile. Positive outlook.

Turn offs: Dismissiveness. Negativity.

 

[Polranny]

On.... beauty and intelligence, shibari
Off. ... chewing gum, being late

 

[PMarky]

Mental Attributes

Turn On... intelligence, gentleness, humour
Turn off... ignorance, arrogance, complaining

Looks
On... tiny tits, pale skin, 'the healthy look'
Off... big tits, big tats, 'the slutty look'

In the interests of full disclosure the mental attributes are more important than the physical. I am married to intelligent, funny, curvy redhead. My 'crush' is a gentle, slender, intelligent, 'former blonde.'

 

[blksoldier]

just saying

Turn on: A open mind

Turn off: A closed mind

 

[FataMorgana]

Turn ons. Every woman has a different vibe to them.

Turn offs. Woman who are crude.

Cunt.

 

[mayfly13]

Turn-on: being sexually aggressive

Turn-off: Deplorables

I thought you were hetero?
not trolling, just surprised

 

[TwoTaTango]

Two Things

Turn On ~~~ Spontaneity

Turn Offs ~~~~Lack of Focus

 

[BadAmy]

On, Confidence
Off, Arrogance.
There's a line.

 

[Anastasia1999]

Turn on: sharp wit
Turn off: jealousy

 

[EnglishStud]

On: Anything with a cunt
Off: Unless it's owned by a Yank

 

[Texastuffbbc]

Turn on: Nipples and cameltoe
Turn off: vanilla and soundless

 

[Conager]

Enthusiasm and apathy, respectively.

 

[Champakian]

Screamers can be a real put off.

You never know who can hear them.

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

Biggest Turn On:

A partner who NEEDS to have sex with me.


Biggest Turn Off:

A partner who doesn't care to have sex with me.

 

[dinny]

Turn on: risky and uninhibited
Turn off: lying and evasive

 

[renard_ruse]

Turn-on: being sexually aggressive

Turn-off: Deplorables

Correcting it for Roar Wee:

Turn-off: any living human over age 18 with a pulse.

Good ol' Roars prefers corpses. They don't resist his awkward advances.

 

[Hipshot1554]

Turn on: sexy innuendo.

Turn off: ego

 

[lanceGibs]

Turn on Humility
Turn of Arrogance