What makes str8 men bi/curious in their advanced years?

[zowiegus]

guessing a lot of the men at bath houses are more bi~curious than anything and get to live out a taboo and they can be very exciting...

 

[SexyLitForAll]

I'd agree with the above, except that I had m/m sex experiences between the ages of 18 to 30. I've kept that private for years...nobody's business but mine...I cherish the memories. In a perfect world I could be out as a bisexual. For now I have memories and fantasies.

This sounds very much like my situation...very much, indeed!

 

[HomerSimpson123]

... Finding the right person is the challenge.

Ain't that the truth!

 

[KUJACK]

older cock suckers

I think that most men have had homosexual encounters during their youth and that most men just want sex and will take what they can get. Sex between young men is consentual and easier to do it than with a young girl,. So, later they realize that the are really heterosexual and deny theat the had gay sex. In advanced years these men remember those days and wonder what it would be like to suck a cock again. Maybe

 

[Mr. Briggs]

I don't know - but I'm going through the same thing. If I wasn't happily married to a vanilla sex wife (and kids), I'd be experimenting.

So for now, I'm just into sneaking anal play for masturbation. I'm slowly trying to get her into anal play on me.

Same here. It's such a weird phenomenon

 

[tmmmbrrr]

.....

 

[yoursdiscreetly]

totally agree

I think that most men have had homosexual encounters during their youth and that most men just want sex and will take what they can get. Sex between young men is consentual and easier to do it than with a young girl,. So, later they realize that the are really heterosexual and deny theat the had gay sex. In advanced years these men remember those days and wonder what it would be like to suck a cock again. Maybe

Like with all the other things we do. as we age , we return to the pleasures of youth. Our life experience has shown us that not all taboo are trully taboo.

 

[1960curious]

When I finally decided to act, I was lucky enough to find another married guy with the same interests. I told him what I had been fantasizing and I got down on my knees, pulled his pants down and found myself facing a truly beautiful and large cock. I took hold of it, said those words I had wanted to say and guided his dick into my mouth. The realization that I had had a cock in my mouth was intensely exciting and I enjoyed the experience without regret.

This is what I imagine my first experience would be like. I'm married in my 50's, have never been with a guy, but I know I want to get on my knees and take a cock balls deep in my throat and make love to it with my mouth, tongue and throat until I am rewarded with a hot mouthful of cum and eagerly swallow every drop. But it doesn't stop there. I also want to feel a hard cock fucking me deep inside my ass. I guess if it happens I will take it one step at a time. First suck, then get fucked and who knows, maybe some day do both at the same time. Mt taste in porn has totally changed recently. I now love gay porn and especially group situations with many guys sucking and fucking. I guess its a level of kink that I haven't experienced but know I would love. Finding the right person is the challenge.

Damn Harley, That is hot. I have the same fantasy!!!!

 

[badonkadoku]

Like with all the other things we do. as we age , we return to the pleasures of youth. Our life experience has shown us that not all taboo are trully taboo.

Agree 100%, yoursdiscreetly!

 

[Trimjob69]

Nothing else to live for?

 

[tonycurinmass]

I think that most men have had homosexual encounters during their youth and that most men just want sex and will take what they can get. Sex between young men is consentual and easier to do it than with a young girl,. So, later they realize that the are really heterosexual and deny theat the had gay sex. In advanced years these men remember those days and wonder what it would be like to suck a cock again. Maybe

I might have to agree with this also. I had an experience when young with another of similar age and now that I'm older I want to again experience that with someone my age now.

 

[jtorn86]

The answer is easy……ME

 

[HomerSimpson123]

The answer is easy……ME

I applaud your style, sir.

 

[HomerSimpson123]

I think that most men have had homosexual encounters during their youth and that most men just want sex and will take what they can get. Sex between young men is consentual and easier to do it than with a young girl,. So, later they realize that the are really heterosexual and deny theat the had gay sex. In advanced years these men remember those days and wonder what it would be like to suck a cock again. Maybe

Let's not forget the guys who passed up the opportunities for youthful encounters and now regret it.

 

[photobuff56]

Let's not forget the guys who passed up the opportunities for youthful encounters and now regret it.

I tried it when I was a teen and enjoyed it very much. I gave as well as received oral from a friend. We had sex several times I was on the giving end but now regret not getting it.

 

[tommy45]

It happened like this for me

Well here goes! I went through 2 divorces and both cost me dearly! I'm not bitter. There are always 2 sides of the story and I accept my share.

AFTER MY SECOND DIVORCE, I began looking at porn to get off and I discovered chicks with beautiful dicks! I was turned on and thought to myself "what the fuck" I'd suck her dick!"

When I discovered it really wasn't that easy to find one as as beautiful as the ones I'd seen on line. The other alternative was men. Through craigslist and Lit,and a few nervous meetings, I discovered I really enjoyed sucking as well as receiving cock. I'm now a total bottom with guys and still enjoy pussy too! I'm very happy Thank You!

 

[HomerSimpson123]

I tried it when I was a teen and enjoyed it very much. I gave as well as received oral from a friend. We had sex several times I was on the giving end but now regret not getting it.

Have you thought about relieving those regrets, or have you acted on them?

 

[Par4TheCourse]

I acted on my bisexual desires for about 5 years in my late 40s at the end of a long marriage that had, like others described here, become a grind for both of us. I think that I was so frustrated and depressed at the idea of facing another 20 years of a sexless marriage that I rationalized the ridiculous notion that it wasn't cheating if it was "exploring" with guys while I was out of town on business. She found out eventually and divorced me. I soon met (and since married) a smokin hot woman who still has a great sex drive at 55 and my desire to be with guys waned dramatically. I told her everything about my history after we got serious a few years ago and she was a bit shocked but gradually accepted the fact that it was more a product of my past circumstances than a biological imperative. She'll even occasionally will work references to me sucking cock in during particularly hot moments in bed. How awesome is that?

That said, I do occasionally daydream about the submissive aspect of my bisexual days. I have fond memories of being on my knees worshipping a nice warm fleshy cock and being totally focused on giving pleasure to another man. I loved the salty aftertaste of cum that would linger for hours after I sucked cock and returned to my "real life." I also will never forget being used as a total fucktoy by a mature college professor and his big-dicked younger partner for an entire afternoon and evening. They took turns using my ass and mouth and even invited a friend over to get his cock sucked and shoot a huge load all over my face. It was simultaneously liberating and terrifying just to let go and be a total cumslut. Okay, now I'm horny for cock so better stop here!

 

[sandles_nosocks]

I agree.

Like with all the other things we do. as we age , we return to the pleasures of youth. Our life experience has shown us that not all taboo are trully taboo.

 

[tristantrotsky]

Grateful CockSucker

Have you thought about relieving those regrets, or have you acted on them?

To be honest, I'm not into all that deep psychological stuff about why older guys want oral sex from younger guys. As a submissive cock-sucker with a thing for older well-hung dominant men, I'm just grateful that they do, and suck each cock that I can with a sense of humble gratitude...

 

[sandles_nosocks]

To be honest, I'm not into all that deep psychological stuff about why older guys want oral sex from younger guys. As a submissive cock-sucker I'm just grateful that they do, and suck each cock that I can with a sense of humble gratitude...

I agree

 

[CrshNBurn]

I just realized that I had been missing out on another way of having fun.

 

[sandles_nosocks]

I just realized that I had been missing out on another way of having fun.

I agree

 

[Riley69]

Older guys

When I was younger, I had a relationship with an older man and it was a wonderful part of my life. He had been married twice and divorced twice and had basically given up on women. So, he decided to try sex with men an never looked back. He was a true top and loved fucking my ass from time to time, but his favorite thing was to have me lovingly suck his cock until he exploded in my mouth. Of course, his two wives thought cum was gross and nasty. Oddly enough, his cum was the best I ever had! He came a lot and in large quantities and I loved every bit of it. Plus, he was a very nice guy, very romantic and I could tell he just loved our times together.

 

[gunthernehmen]

I dunno why, but I recently indulged and it was amazing.

I'm hoping to find a regular friend with penis and benefits, but so far, without luck.