What tiny, unexpected thing flips your kink switch?Let’s compare notes like naughty scientists. 📝😈

[Loyalish1245]

Acute up hairstyle or stray sandals both tend to get my mind focused on sex in a way very little other does. Also, the sound of a woman’s laughter can get me going immediately.

 

[LeSabreur]

Women wearing old-fashioned clogs with boot-cut jeans.

Oh man, this was in style when I was an impressionable youth and all the college girls that stayed with us wore them.

(It might be part of why I work in a hospital!)

 

[BongoGal]

When my nipples get stimulated…It's happened during a friendly hug….

That has happened to me a couple of times over the years. Both times were perfectly chaste hugs with guys I was never attracted to. I don’t know the mechanics of it, but somehow motion and pressure in just the right spots got me internally revved up as if my nips were deliberately squeezed and tugged at.

 

[CJamarous]

Yoga pants

 

[CJamarous]

Braids

 

[Loyalish1245]

Braids

Oh yes. Especially French braids

 

[Hungone23]

Yes, I usually watched that show sitting in a puddle deep enough to drown a toddler.

lol. Tell me more.

 

[Graybear1826]

Women who are occasionally willing to use profanity in a playful way, and dont get bunched up when I do the same...

 

[cocokittysurprise]

Men with expressive, "puppy dog" eyes. It makes me want to dominate them and give em a hug at the same time

 

[TXRafe]

Men with expressive, "puppy dog" eyes. It makes me want to dominate them and give em a hug at the same time

a woman who wants to dominate me. it makes me want to welcome the power struggle and see who taps out first.

 

[cocokittysurprise]

a woman who wants to dominate me. it makes me want to welcome the power struggle and see who taps out first.

I suppose it depends on what you mean by "power struggle". If she's truly dominant, it wouldn't be something that would transpire.

 

[MorpheusLunar]

Pierced nipples jewelry installed under tight shirt w noooo bra. Aten-Hut!

 

[ShaneoD]

I suppose it depends on what you mean by "power struggle". If she's truly dominant, it wouldn't be something that would transpire.

I can absolutely see how that would work, you also have that really disarming personality/charm, which I can see a guy ending up already being deep in before he knows what's going on, that and you're very very attractive.

 

[EvaLane]

Men who see me struggling to grab something from the top shelf in the grocery aisle so they linger on the off chance I might ask for help

The combination of slight helplessness, close proximity, awkward small talk when I finally give in and make eye contact…

because he knows I needed it and so did I and in that one moment, it was socially acceptable to ask and so I did.

 

[Gummygrind4u]

Men who see me struggling to grab something from the top shelf in the grocery aisle so they linger on the off chance I might ask for help

The combination of slight helplessness, close proximity, awkward small talk when I finally give in and make eye contact…

because he knows I needed it and so did I and in that one moment, it was socially acceptable to ask and so I did.

Remind me to always walk down the aisles of grocery stores just in case.

 

[ShaneoD]

Men who see me struggling to grab something from the top shelf in the grocery aisle so they linger on the off chance I might ask for help

The combination of slight helplessness, close proximity, awkward small talk when I finally give in and make eye contact…

because he knows I needed it and so did I and in that one moment, it was socially acceptable to ask and so I did.

Note to self: Pay more attention in grocery stores

 

[cocokittysurprise]

I can absolutely see how that would work, you also have that really disarming personality/charm, which I can see a guy ending up already being deep in before he knows what's going on, that and you're very very attractive.

Awww, those are very kind words! Some people have mentioned that I'm hard to read, so I'm very direct.
I've found that a lot of men don't know how to handle that in most situations, but especially when you start talking about power dynamics.

 

[Speshul91]

Awww, those are very kind words! Some people have mentioned that I'm hard to read, so I'm very direct.
I've found that a lot of men don't know how to handle that in most situations, but especially when you start talking about power dynamics.

Id much a rather a woman be direct with me, well anybody for that matter. Being on the autism spectrum I miss a lot of subtle cues.

 

[ShaneoD]

Awww, those are very kind words! Some people have mentioned that I'm hard to read, so I'm very direct.
I've found that a lot of men don't know how to handle that in most situations, but especially when you start talking about power dynamics.

I guess it can be a strange one for them because you can be so cute, polite, and playful, but then again I can see an authoritative streak in you too. As far as handling it goes, I guess it's like every relationship, you've both got to gel and be personality types that work together

 

[danjtoy]

The smirk when I try and do something nice for somebody, but my eyes divert slightly from hers because if I look too closely, I'll babble

 

[Wonderer67]

Women who are tough and doing work that might be considered manual labor.

Lumber jills
Female first responders
Women driving a pickup truck is always good for me.

 

[danjtoy]

Men with expressive, "puppy dog" eyes. It makes me want to dominate them and give em a hug at the same time

Practicing the look. Just in case. Not coincidentally, women with expressive, confident eyes, that make me need to look away, and need to be dominated and hugged at the same time

 

[CuriousCat89]

When someone with a posh accent flips to being a filthy fucker.

Word play in public.

 

[puppett]

When my nipples get stimulated. Usually that's during sex or at least making out, but not always. It's happened during a friendly hug, or a chilly breeze that hit just right, or (quite often) working out or doing yoga.

I can be having a normal day, then somehow my nipples get a little buzz somehow, and then I'm thinking about sex the rest of the day.

i normally wear oversized hoodies and it works great to jut kinda accidently give some stimulation. also one of my coworkers (unfortunately straight) gives the best hugs, and i never am the first one to step away

 

[saintcero]

When a lady that is “out of my league” pays extra attention to me. Just a little flirt that she knows is not serious but my imagination goes full “so you’re saying there’s a chance. “