policywank
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Interesting. . . I’ve definitely encountered those who were like “finally! I get to be mean!”. . . Which can be hot in the moment but doesn’t always translate to healthy boundaries.
Well I think that when playing a dominant or top role there is some element of that. You don't want to get too deep into that mindset, but it helps your partner enjoy the experience if they know that you are enjoying it too. It is a matter of allowing myself that indulgence without losing sight of the well being of the man I am compelling to submit. I don't want to be a bitch or destructive, but sadistic is a bit of a different thing.