What was your first experience with voyeurism/exhibitionism?

[NightBirdNYC]

I'm not sure I remember, I've been sn exhibitionist as long as I can remember, and I probably can't talk about the really early stuff.

I did got into it in college. I lived in a coed dorm and I spent a lot of time running around in just a towel and getting caught in bra and panties.

I had sex with a guy at a frst party, in someone's room in the house but a bunch of his friends watching.

PS: I love your avatar!

 

[Oldernudist]

My first time being nude where people could see I was so young that I didn't even know the word exhibitionist. We had a pond that was close to the road and almost no cover at all. I would go out to swim, eventually took my swim suit off and then I would lay on the shore and stroke myself. I really don't know if anyone saw me because nothing was ever said.

 

[Tossawayalt]

always under the covers...the lights were always off. but I could hear the low hum of her vibrator.

I love this.

 

[Tossawayalt]

Basically, your 1st line is just about how I have described my experiences. Growing up in a city of neighboring high rises and so many windows tends to teach us early about the thrill of watching, and in my case, later being watched... I still often leave my curtains strategically open whether at home or in a hotel while traveling... Carpe Diem!
https://vlix.io/video/f0bef72fb92d7c4a97fe/

NYC has the best hotel windows! As someone that has travelled a lot (a lot lot), there is no question about where is the best for voyeurs. To watch and be watched, NYC wins every time.

 

[Submissivepat]

I didn’t realize I got turned on by being naked around dressed people until my first experience at a BDSM club. I wore a robe and hubby was going to paddle me while I was bound in stocks. I wore a robe to where the stocks were and after hubby paddled me, I just left the robe off longer than I thought I should. I got turned on by people looking at me as much as the paddling!

 

[NightBirdNYC]

NYC has the best hotel windows! As someone that has travelled a lot (a lot lot), there is no question about where is the best for voyeurs. To watch and be watched, NYC wins every time.

Absolutely! One also notices here that with a decent set of binoculars one can look out at all the windows and notice that many, many of them have telescopes on tripods at the window. And I'm sure there aren't that many astronomers (amateur or otherwise) here! I'd like to think that the apartments a few floors above mine in the neighboring buildings have had rent increases given the "views" I enjoy giving them...
https://vlix.io/video/a050d895110db8c4af05/

 

[Tossawayalt]

Absolutely! One also notices here that with a decent set of binoculars one can look out at all the windows and notice that many, many of them have telescopes on tripods at the window. And I'm sure there aren't that many astronomers (amateur or otherwise) here! I'd like to think that the apartments a few floors above mine in the neighboring buildings have had rent increases given the "views" I enjoy giving them...
https://vlix.io/video/a050d895110db8c4af05/

I certainly wouldn't get much sleep with a window overlooking yours

 

[lucy_anne21]

Difficult question to answer. It’s natural to me, I’ve been an exhibitionist ever since I can remember. It became more pronounced once I realised that men enjoyed seeing up my skirt. My awareness raised each time I caught boys standing at the bottom of the stairs looking up at me.

I enjoy it, and find it’s quite a turn on.

I suppose we all have our kinks.

Lucy xx

 

[kinkycockney]

I had a very steamy convo with an older woman who asked if I'd show her my cock on webcam so I did

 

[millieteases]

First time voyeur was when the neighbor girl and her friend flashed a group of us. They were standing in their front door - obviously no parents were home. I learned about anatomy that day.
Exhibiting, well, I would get up very early and wander around our neighborhood or go down to a nearby lake. A few times I wandered around the neighborhood nude - it was amazing I never got caught. Stripped off on the seawall by the lake and masturbated. Cars were going by on the road behind me, but because the road was much higher than the seawall I couldn't be seen.

 

[LeSabreur]

As a kid we lived on the New Jersey shore, only 1 block from the ocean. We had a big, old house that had been divided up into several apartments...a large upstairs apartment, our family living on the main floor, two small apartments off to the side and a basement apartment below us. Most of the big, old houses were set up like this, and many of the renters were college students. We always rented to college girls during the summer! Some of the renters were just there for the weekend, others for a week or more, some for all summer long. I don't recall when I discovered that there were a lot of opportunities to watch these wonderful girls, not only at the beach, but also in the outside shower (to keep the sand out of the house). No one had air conditioning in those days, so everyone kept the windows open all the time...walking around at night offered endless opportunities to see all kinds of delightful things. Oh, the education I received!

I don't recall when my exhibitionist tendencies arose, because I was quite bashful about that as a lad. But at some point around my freshman year in college a group of us that used to hang together...boys and girls...started streaking around campus and local neighborhoods at night. What a thrill! Although I always enjoyed being naked outdoors, it wasn't until decades later that I learned that I actually enjoyed being seen. Thus began my wild years, but that's for another thread....

 

[Dooner11]

“Lost bet with my wife”
my wife knew about my cfnm fetish before we were married. The first time she helped me with fulfilling my kink is when she had her friend over for dinner. Without warning me she told her friend that i lost a naked bet to her over a hockey game, turned to me and said it’s time to pay up. I was shocked. She took me by the hand and turned me facing the opposite way of her friend on the couch. As she undressed me she whispered in my ear that “this is what you wanted” . I was so nervous when I stepped out of my jeans she pulled down. Just in boxers, she slowly pulled them down. Her friend was laughing and cheering her on saying nice ass! I was so embarrassed and nervous that I couldn’t get hard. She put my arms behind my back and told me to turn around. Her friend just laughed, my wife told me to grab some more beers. A little while in I got hard. They both were laughing throughout the night. I loved being naked and received one of the best orgasms from my wife’s blow job when we went to bed. She has helped me out with some more extreme humiliation since. I love my wife.

 

[OtherwisePrint6210]

“Lost bet with my wife”
my wife knew about my cfnm fetish before we were married. The first time she helped me with fulfilling my kink is when she had her friend over for dinner. Without warning me she told her friend that i lost a naked bet to her over a hockey game, turned to me and said it’s time to pay up. I was shocked. She took me by the hand and turned me facing the opposite way of her friend on the couch. As she undressed me she whispered in my ear that “this is what you wanted” . I was so nervous when I stepped out of my jeans she pulled down. Just in boxers, she slowly pulled them down. Her friend was laughing and cheering her on saying nice ass! I was so embarrassed and nervous that I couldn’t get hard. She put my arms behind my back and told me to turn around. Her friend just laughed, my wife told me to grab some more beers. A little while in I got hard. They both were laughing throughout the night. I loved being naked and received one of the best orgasms from my wife’s blow job when we went to bed. She has helped me out with some more extreme humiliation since. I love my wife.

She does sound awesome. Has the friend been back for dinner?

 

[cadman7777]

There has been people who have watched me have sex with women.......some I knew about and some I didn't know until afterwards. I have never watched but I fantasize about watching all the time......

 

[Dooner11]

She does sound awesome. Has the friend been back for dinner?

Not again in person, but she has shown her pictures of me in compromising positions after. Her friend eventually got a boyfriend. We have a strict rule to not involve anyone who are in relationships. The last thing we want are spouses getting mad at us. I’m not into dudes at all, so involving them was never my thing I did have a mmf 3some for my wife. It’s one of her fantasies. so I did it for her. She’s so open to making my fantasies happen. I owed her at least one time for her. It was with a guy she worked with after a going away party. Turned out he was bi. Did some things I wasn’t into, but my wife’s reaction helped. She helps me get into my kink situations way more than I do for hers. I’ve told her no limits with my cfnm and sph kink. ( other than people in relationships). She’s very good at involving the right women, it’s always a fake dare. 14 times I’ve lost a bet to her and her friends, coworkers or acquaintances have seen me naked. I have the real reaction of embarrassed, nervous the I can’t believe I’m doing this every time. I love it, and I love her for doing it. She never tells me when it will happen, so being with her and other women makes me anxious every time. The most extreme so far is getting pegged in front of other women. They took pics with my wife’s phone. My wife said she posted them, but I’ve never found it.

 

[NisseSliten]

My first time was in high school. A female friend asked me to pose nude for her. I was scared at first but as I began posing the fear disappeared. I absolutely loved the CFNM dynamic.

What a dream scenario, lovely.

 

[NisseSliten]

It's one of those ideal situations. You have this hidden sexual tension between people and then find a reasonable excuse to all be naked around each other. Plus like you said if it ever comes out and people ask why you have what I feel is a legitimate reason.

I would not dare, impossible to hide the inevitable reaction. I cannot understand how other guys handle that?

 

[Aleisterwolfe]

There have been many but I think the first was when we had a skinny dipping club that often turned sexual. We were young and daring (but over 18!)

 

[curiouschattycouple]

We did skinny dipping too with our friends, but in the dark at a quiet lake, so while the riskiness was there, it was really nothing. While on vacation once though, my wife got really worked up by a nighttime thunderstorm while we walked along the beach and wanted to get frisky in a cabana - regretfully, I was too worried about being seen.

 

[Samtran123]

My friend is a drug rep who is often on tour. Once he cut his tour short and returned early only to find me fucking his wife in their bedroom.

 

[Nellie60]

What was everyone's first experience with voyeurism and/or exhibitionism?

Since I started the thread, I'll go first.

I was barely 18 years old and had just moved into a college dorm for my freshman year. I quickly met a group of returning sophomores that seemed like a fun group to hang out with. Like me, they were more nerdy than jocks. I had lived a boring high-school life and didn't have any experience with drinking or girls (though not for lack of wanting).

It was only my second or third day there when the group invited me to go skinny-dipping with them that night at a state park not too far from the college. Part of my brain thought this would be the best thing ever (seeing naked women!) and the other part wanted no part in being naked in front of strangers. The first part of my brain won in about 3 milliseconds. I still wasn't planning to get naked but the thought of seeing women I knew naked was way more than I could pass up. On the way out to the park someone with a fake ID bought cheap alcohol (does anyone remember Purple Passion?) so by the time we got to the lake i was more than a little tipsy. Still though, I had NO intention of stripping.

So we got to the lake, three or four car-loads of us. I walk towards the beach, totally clothed and saw that everyone else was too. That had me both relieved and disappointed. Just then, two girls walked up to me and asked if I was going to skinny-dip. I replied no and they said too bad. At about that exact same moment they both stripped completely naked and ran into the water. Before my brain knew what I was doing I was naked chasing them into the water .

At that time, that was the best moment of my life and possibly what got me hooked on being a bit of both a voyeur and an exhibitionist.

So, what's your story?

As painful as it was, the first voyeuristic thing I witnessed was my first girlfriend giving hand action to another guy against a large tree when I followed them in a National Park. Despite the anger I was aroused.

 

[kLangleybi]

My friend is a drug rep who is often on tour. Once he cut his tour short and returned early only to find me fucking his wife in their bedroom.

Details please.

 

[Samtran123]

I will message you the details.

 

[Samtran123]

Details please.

I will message you the details.

 

[Bibbw80]

When I was 22 my current bf at the time wanted me to go to a nude beach with him. I was really nervous as I am a bigger girl and he wanted me to get completely naked in front of others. Once we got there I stripped laid out in the sun and noticed older men staring at me. We ended up going for a walk and I actually felt really comfortable and enjoyed being naked outside.