What words can turn you off?

I think "cunt" and "slut" can work both ways with me. you really need to be special to get away with either ;)
 
Bussy. What are we doing here? It's my ass. Just tell me you wanna fuck my ass.
 
Not long after we were first intimate, I asked my girlfriend what she would like me to call it and she said something like muffin , or rose bud (which most people refer to as the anus but whatever) or the Netherlands. Fine, now she is the type of person who is nearly seventy and spells out cuss words, so very modest. I go to meet all of her friend group for the first time and I had a glass of wine before I left for the party.... I told her.....sometime tonight I am going to work all of those words for your nether regions into the conversations in front of your friends. She said , no way! I love a challenge. And the opportunity arose at dinner.... when they asked how we met and I was able to work muffin, rose bud and Netherlands into the very short story. I was looking into her eyes when I said the first one and her eyes got big..... by the time I said the third one she was laughing hysterically and no one but me knew why.

Yeah, and for the record, not crazy about them being used for anatomical parts....... but the words superb and exquisite are my least favorite words in general.
 
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"partner" That term is disrespectful if there is a relationship. BF or husband. big turn-off.
 
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"partner" That term is disrespectful is there is a relationship. BF or husband. big turn-off.
I get it...... but as one with a "partner" it sucks.

Partner sounds like a business associate or your cowboy friend.

Girlfriend/ boyfriend sounds like you are middle school

She is not my wife and never will be

This is a category that should have had it's label a long time ago.
 
I get it...... but as one with a "partner" it sucks.

Partner sounds like a business associate or your cowboy friend.

Girlfriend/ boyfriend sounds like you are middle school

She is not my wife and never will be

This is a category that should have had it's label a long time ago.
for me, there are different labels and rules for my associations, encounters or relationships. Each one has different levels of boundaries or rules by me. Women and men I encounter in the field are NPCs until proven otherwise. Women I choose to meetup with anywhere are not my GFs. They are females or rather women if they act that way. They must conduct themselves with an unspoken level of public respect. I do not tolerate disrespect from anyone. (just walk away) If folks are pleasant, they get further. (Suffer fools less than 7 seconds.) Do not engage or argue with NPCs on the street.

Only women that I am sexually attracted to and dating get to be called "girlfriends" GFs. any age of my life, I still prefer that title GF. That title carries respect and accountability by me. There are a different level of rules for GFs and privileges that go with the title. I will not allow a woman to be called GF until I choose so.

Likewise, "lover" and "wife" come with much more responsibility and rewards.

I don't have partners. I run a solo business, make all the decisions and bear all the risks & rewards.
 
for me, there are different labels and rules for my associations, encounters or relationships. Each one has different levels of boundaries or rules by me. Women and men I encounter in the field are NPCs until proven otherwise. Women I choose to meetup with anywhere are not my GFs. They are females or rather women if they act that way. They must conduct themselves with an unspoken level of public respect. I do not tolerate disrespect from anyone. (just walk away) If folks are pleasant, they get further. (Suffer fools less than 7 seconds.) Do not engage or argue with NPCs on the street.

Only women that I am sexually attracted to and dating get to be called "girlfriends" GFs. any age of my life, I still prefer that title GF. That title carries respect and accountability by me. There are a different level of rules for GFs and privileges that go with the title. I will not allow a woman to be called GF until I choose so.

Likewise, "lover" and "wife" come with much more responsibility and rewards.

I don't have partners. I run a solo business, make all the decisions and bear all the risks & rewards.
I've always found it distasteful when people refer to others as NPCs and other such terms. I think if you're sociable enough, and more importantly kind enough, you discover that every person on the street, even if they aren't very smart, wealthy or beautiful, has a very rich inner world, and a lifetime of experiences, tragedies and accomplishments to speak about. I think you're doing yourself a disservice by dismissing so many people.
 
I've always found it distasteful when people refer to others as NPCs and other such terms. I think if you're sociable enough, and more importantly kind enough, you discover that every person on the street, even if they aren't very smart, wealthy or beautiful, has a very rich inner world, and a lifetime of experiences, tragedies and accomplishments to speak about. I think you're doing yourself a disservice by dismissing so many people.
I get that. Yet, I encounter 100s of people everyday. Some are deadly. Most we politely brush past while getting from place to place. Not everyone wants kind interaction. They want to be left alone. The term "creep" comes to mind. OTOH, we are open to pleasant conversation and kind regards for others because civility is virtuous. We choose who to engage with. Time is a factor.
 
I love filthy talk, with men or women. Really gets me excited.

With men, I absolutely do not want to hear words like "honey," "baby," "sweetie," or "daddy."
 
I get it...... but as one with a "partner" it sucks.

Partner sounds like a business associate or your cowboy friend.

Girlfriend/ boyfriend sounds like you are middle school

She is not my wife and never will be

This is a category that should have had it's label a long time ago.
Hi Oshkosh this is Pewaukee...........If we are with someone why is there a need to "Qualify " who we are with. If we just say "This is Cindy" or "This is Suzanne", that is all that is necessary. If the want or need more info they can ask!
 
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