What's the appeal of a strap on?

[Davidwa1]

Power

Exactly, or giving up power, depending

 

[FeelingLikeMyself]

My girlfriend won't let a 3rd into the bedroom, so if I want to get railed without cheating, she's gotta wear a strap-on. And while a toy is no replacement for the real thing, it does allow us to get creative with toy choice.

And at that point it's more about who's doing the pushing and your connection with them...

 

[MiaBabe23]

I haven’t ever done it irl, but I would definitely like to if ever with a guy who wanted that
As well as the power element others have mentioned, I feel there must be a raw intimacy to it, to being able to still use both hands on him in whatever way to pleasure him, to have your bodies close, while keeping him in position and fucking him

 

[Dearelliot]

Forced to kneel by a dominant woman forced to suck her! Being humiliated by a strong woman.

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

I don't get it. I suppose if a woman wanted to be a man or wanted to feel like a man, the strap on might appeal to her. But to me, it seems like it would be awkward. I don't think I'd be comfortable using one and I would fear that I might injure the guy.

I have no problems using a dildo with my hand and I think it would give me so much better control. But guys always seem to want the strap on. Why?

Fun and exciting to occasionally be the receiver! To be fucked like a woman. We do it here and there and it’s fun and adventurous. Cheers.

 

[Mrs_and_mr]

It can be very pleasurable if the right spot is stimulated. My wife likes the power, the view and feeling.

 

[Goldenfinger]

A strong sexy woman taking control. Crawling on top on you kissing you looking you in your eyes as she presses her strapon into you. The smile on her face as she watches your facial expressions when she slides deeper into you.

 

[Britva415]

It has got nothing to do with power for me, but if it were about power for the lady, I’d play along.

It doesn’t have to be about power. My pegging friends were just into the fun of it, same as me. Not much different from a handjob, blowjob or titjob, at least as far as the “reasons” go. She does it to please her man and have fun doing it.

I have no problems using a dildo with my hand and I think it would give me so much better control. But guys always seem to want the strap on.

Have you tried to offer just the dildo by hand?

 

[Mrs_and_mr]

My wife looks sexy wearing a strapon

 

[bisissyhusband1]

My wife uses her strapon on me all the time, and I love it!

 

[Mrs_and_mr]

First there is pleasure, the feeling of the prostate being stimulated. Everyone is different but I can have an orgasm from prostate stimulation. It can be very powerful. I don’t know what a woman feels during her orgasm but they say that it’s similar.

Second there is a mental eroticism to it. This is big one. You can go from switching the sexual dynamics to sub domme play.

I identify as a straight male. I’m very submissive in my romantic relationships. My first relationship was with a very dominant lady. So I learned to relationship in a femdom Bdsm context. Pegging was pleasureful, but also an act of submission. The feelings were more than erotic, I don’t have the words convey the intense emotion I felt.

It also opens up a whole new aspect of role play. It goes well with other kinks. I’ve been pegged while wearing lingerie, been pegged while restrained, as a punishment, as a reward. It can go as far as your imagination.

It’s not always the same, I’ve been pegged by 4 different women.. one of them our relationship was very sub domme oriented. It was rough, humiliating but still erotic. But in the end(no pun intended) it was toxic.

I think theres mentally a lot of power and eroticism in role reversal. I don’t 100% understand is. When I have vanilla sex with someone I don’t feel just because I’m the penetrator that I’m dominating the other person. It could be I see it in a different context. I also don’t think you have to be submissive to be pegged.

So in conclusion what is appealing about strapon play. Pleasure, power, eroticism

 

[Mrs_and_mr]

First there is pleasure, the feeling of the prostate being stimulated. Everyone is different but I can have an orgasm from prostate stimulation. It can be very powerful. I don’t know what a woman feels during her orgasm but they say that it’s similar.

Second there is a mental eroticism to it. This is big one. You can go from switching the sexual dynamics to sub domme play.

I identify as a straight male. I’m very submissive in my romantic relationships. My first relationship was with a very dominant lady. So I learned to relationship in a femdom Bdsm context. Pegging was pleasureful, but also an act of submission. The feelings were more than erotic, I don’t have the words convey the intense emotion I felt.

It also opens up a whole new aspect of role play. It goes well with other kinks. I’ve been pegged while wearing lingerie, been pegged while restrained, as a punishment, as a reward. It can go as far as your imagination.

It’s not always the same, I’ve been pegged by 4 different women.. one of them our relationship was very sub domme oriented. It was rough, humiliating but still erotic. But in the end(no pun intended) it was toxic.

I think theres mentally a lot of power and eroticism in role reversal. I don’t 100% understand is. When I have vanilla sex with someone I don’t feel just because I’m the penetrator that I’m dominating the other person. It could be I see it in a different context. I also don’t think you have to be submissive to be pegged.

So in conclusion what is appealing about strapon play. Pleasure, power, eroticism

Prostate orgasm

 

[hulmule]

My wife looks sexy wearing a strapon

Without a picture its all lies lol

 

[Mrs_and_mr]

Without a picture its all lies lol

And if you go through they have deleted them all

 

[hulmule]

And if you go through they have deleted them all

well you could PM me one

 

[OneEyedSteve]

An ex gf wanted to try pegging. We did it a couple of times, but as mentioned, she was better using a dildo with her hand. She didn't have any rhythm when using a strap on.

 

[StrongMaster7]

Jada59, sounds like a simple preference. It's not for you. But others do enjoy it and you seem to want to know why. But when people respond with the reason they enjoy a strapon, you tell them that you don't agree. Yes, that what personal preference is.

The visual of a hot woman with big tits and a strap-on is hot to me. The idea that a woman would want to wield a cock is hot to me. A woman thrusting with her hips is different from her thrusting with a dildo in her hand. The position is different. When it's an reverse analog to a man fucking a woman, that is hot to me.

I expect you will not agree, but again, that is personal preference. Live and let live.

 

[curiousitieskill]

Jada59, sounds like a simple preference. It's not for you. But others do enjoy it and you seem to want to know why. But when people respond with the reason they enjoy a strapon, you tell them that you don't agree. Yes, that what personal preference is.

The visual of a hot woman with big tits and a strap-on is hot to me. The idea that a woman would want to wield a cock is hot to me. A woman thrusting with her hips is different from her thrusting with a dildo in her hand. The position is different. When it's an reverse analog to a man fucking a woman, that is hot to me.

I expect you will not agree, but again, that is personal preference. Live and let live.

wanna be my first?

 

[lowcollar]

My wife looks sexy wearing a strapon

Mine too...black boots, black silk robe with that fat dildo sticking out. Yum!

 

[Mrs_and_mr]

Mine too...black boots, black silk robe with that fat dildo sticking out. Yum!

I love the boots my wife wears them also.