When I confronted my cheating wife and asked about her lover's cock.

[liqueur]

Actually, there is solid evidence that it has a basis in primate evolution. Look it up.

Interesting. I will research that. However, as I said, when I was coming of age (1960s), guys who were ”hung like a horse” were not exactly admired — kind of regarded as slightly less than human. And when I wrote that, I was only speaking from personal experience— but since then, I've encountered similar statements on other, at least reasonably reputable, websites. Of course I didn't think to bookmark them...

 

[BlueChamisa]

I know that. Well under 1 in 1000, from statistics I was reading the other day. Based on what I've seen, the number is two small to come up with an accurate percentage, except if it's based on self-reporting. And we know how accurate that is!

But I think where I was going with that earlier comment was that his actual size was far less important than her ability to make me feel small.

Oh, I totally understand that.

My brain is by far my most important sex organ. I've been a writer (paid) all my adult life and I used to do a bit of (very minor) acting. I'm creative and I love words, spoken or written, fantasy and imagination.

As I mentioned, my wife says I have the biggest cock she's ever been with. But STILL sometimes I ask her to tell me how big/bigger/better the guys she fucks are than me. It's super fun!

I really am saddened by how many men seem to truly believe they are "small" when they are average, a bit less than average, or even a bit more ... and sometimes even statistically on the bigger side.

Then it's kind of an arms-race of lying and exaggerating, wherein men with perfectly great cocks feel the need to claim they are larger, and on and on.

 

[BlueChamisa]

Interesting. I will research that. However, as I said, when I was coming of age (1960s), guys who were ”hung like a horse” were not exactly admired — kind of regarded as slightly less than human. And when I wrote that, I was only speaking from personal experience— but since then, I've encountered similar statements on other, at least reasonably reputable, websites. Of course I didn't think to bookmark them...

I know that. Well under 1 in 1000, from statistics I was reading the other day. Based on what I've seen, the number is two small to come up with an accurate percentage, except if it's based on self-reporting. And we know how accurate that is!

But I think where I was going with that earlier comment was that his actual size was far less important than her ability to make me feel small.

Oh, I totally understand that.

My brain is by far my most important sex organ. I've been a writer (paid) all my adult life and I used to do a bit of (very minor) acting. I'm creative and I love words, spoken or written, fantasy and imagination.

As I mentioned, my wife says I have the biggest cock she's ever been with. But STILL sometimes I ask her to tell me how big/bigger/better the guys she fucks are than me. It's super fun!

I really am saddened by how many men seem to truly believe they are "small" when they are average, a bit less than average, or even a bit more ... and sometimes even statistically on the bigger side.

Then it's kind of an arms-race of lying and exaggerating, wherein men with perfectly great cocks feel the need to claim they are larger, and on and on.

On the flip side, I truly admire men who may be on the smaller side who take pride in who they are and find ways to accept and embrace their size in various ways, up to and including eroticizing what might otherwise be a painful situation.

It's funny. I can be critical of men who haven't managed to even crack the top of the "man box." At the same time, I feel a genuine desire to advocate for men and fend off the current, ridiculous trend of trashing all males broadly. I sincerely wish well on all humans, and it pains me sometimes to see men still struggling from the idiotic societal messages about gender, masculinity and sexuality we all grew up with.

 

[KatiiKatt]

When I first found out that my wife had been getting plowed behind my back for years by a tall, good looking single stud who works for her company, of course I asked her about his cock. When I did, her first response was, "you don't want to know." I said, "well, actually, I DO want to know." Then she said "look, he's a big boy, let's leave it at that." I started getting angry and said, "just tell me how big he is, in inches, right fucking now." She was exasperated but she could see how agitated I was getting and that there was no way she was going to avoid answering the question. She finally said, "jesus christ, it's not like I took out a ruler and measured, but he must be at least 8.5 or 9 inches." I asked, "how thick?" and she said "very." I said "what the fuck does that mean?" and she said, "it means I can't get my fingers all the way around him." At the time, hearing all that was the most brutal, painful gut punch I had ever experienced. Now it's a treasured memory.

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It is unfortunate that she cheated on you. It is great to see that the two of you seemed to move beyond it.

 

[Ed_Sumner]

It is unfortunate that she cheated on you. It is great to see that the two of you seemed to move beyond it.

Thank you. Yes, we very successfully moved beyond it, to the point where we both agree it's the best thing that could have happened to our relationship, especially our sex life!

 

[Ed_Sumner]

How do you have your orgasms? Or do you at all? Just curious.

I very much have orgasms - lots, and very intense ones. We do still fuck, and lots of jerking off in between.

 

[Raybies93]

I prefer knowing the truth, and now I do.

I am detecting a little kink in there. Do you RP about this situation now?

 

[BlueChamisa]

I very much have orgasms - lots, and very intense ones. We do still fuck, and lots of jerking off in between.

Most excellent! Sounds perfect to me