Which man do you prefer?--poll

[CurlyGirly]

Christmas

oh yes, and I'd never forget your birthday either!

Too good to be true, you are. *grin*

 

[huskie]

Re: Christmas

oh yes, and I'd never forget your birthday either!

Too good to be true, you are. *grin*

thanks curly..... see yall later. I'm off to New Jersey be back on Friday.

huskie

 

[Sex & Diamonds]

I couldn't pick. Picking just one is just too boring

Who buys a dress without trying it on first anyhow ?


There's a lot of stress about the size of their wallet and their physical appearence. Not all women are attracted to those 2 things....well....mainly...*evil grin*

 

[xx_La_Reina_xx]

Don't be so quick to throw me in a category...

I have no doubt of your sincerity--or that this is what women say and think they want.

But in my experience, many (most?) women who get a man like this think he is a wimp and not good enough for them. This guy sounds like a pet dog--been there done that. The guy that's puts up with all the garbage (--not all of it is, but a good part) and won't stand up for the value of his own time, is halfway out the door.

Sounds like something out of GoodHousekeeping. I think this is the stuff women tell each other and men.

I don't believe a word of it.
Timeus
OK: Ready for your spears and arrows!

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Although I can see your point...and I do have to admit there is a fantastical sense about what I wrote...you are being rather one sided...the question was who would I chose...and I responded with that...He would only be a "pet dog" if the relationship was only about what I want/expected from him. However, I am more than a selfish woman who sits around reading GoodHousekeeping daydreaming about who my prince charming should be.

If you really thought about what I wrote, you might be able to see that it was more about someone who would spend time with me whether we were cleaning the house or going out on the town...someone who would accept me and my sense of family...someone who would stick it out through all the fights and quarrells...no matter who was at fault...

I understand that a relationship takes work and devotion..and 100% from both sides...What keeps him from being a "pet" is my desire to be there for him just as he is there for me....it is my willingness to give 110%...it is the fact that I am in it for the long haul...ready to do what I have to do to be with someone I love and want to spend the rest of my life with...


*smile* Reina

 

[Timeus]

There's a lot of stress about the size of their wallet and their physical appearence. Not all women are attracted to those 2 things....well....mainly...*evil grin*

I think it's a myth that women aren't as influenced by physical appearance as men. More subtle perhaps (posture, bearing, bocy movement, etc. vs features of face, shape of figure) but definitely physical stuff you can see in an instant or two.--Oh and smell, too! What could be more primitive than that!


--In fact (more spears!) I think women have developed--with the help of the mass media--this whole mythology about being more sensitive, subtle, etc., when they are just as driven by animal sexual needs as men.

--I think this sensitivity/subtlety/finer feelings stuff is just window-dressing to help them reconcile inner passionate fire with nice-girl stuff their mom's taught them.
Timeus

 

[Sex & Diamonds]

I think it's a myth that women aren't as influenced by physical appearance as men. More subtle perhaps (posture, bearing, bocy movement, etc. vs features of face, shape of figure) but definitely physical stuff you can see in an instant or two.--Oh and smell, too! What could be more primitive than that!


--In fact (more spears!) I think women have developed--with the help of the mass media--this whole mythology about being more sensitive, subtle, etc., when they are just as driven by animal sexual needs as men.

--I think this sensitivity/subtlety/finer feelings stuff is just window-dressing to help them reconcile inner passionate fire with nice-girl stuff their mom's taught them.
Timeus

What it really comes down too is this ...

Is the woman picking the man for marriage? or just a good fuck ?

 

[houseman]

Well, I know that. But, it's been very rare that I've seen mature younger males. So, as a general rule for myself, I stick to older men.

You go for the older men, yet you want an older man who works at an arcade making minimum wage?

This just may be me, but I find that contradictory.

In regards to the business before pleasure comment. I'd tend to agree a bit on this one. I own my own business and I work loooong hours to be as successful as I can.

Work, for me, will always come before pleasure - growing up poor has instilled in me you get the money when you can first and everything else second. However, having said that, pleasure goes hand-in-hand with your partner. Takes 2 to tango.

I have always been lucky enough to be with women wtih whom I found fun to begin with. If a woman can laugh at my stupid jokes, silly faces and weird sense of humour? Game on!

If not? that's her problem.

Sooo... don't rule out the guys you think are the 'business before pleasure' type. There could be reasons for them being the way they are. Maybe they just don't find you fun which is why they want to work so much.

Like I said.. takes 2 to tango.

Just my $0.02!

Peace.

Aaron

 

[petrel]

Re: Interesting choice..

You are right, there are a million guys in Orange Cty like #1. He is based on a very good friend of mine. He's got a great sense of humor but he does work a lot. Right now has a great wife, 4 kids, terrific Dad. They live in a nice house near the beach in San Clemente. A pretty happy life and he has given a lot of people employment.

Number 2 is a Kennedy. I have never seen such intense charisma. The truth is, in person, women find him terribly attractive. I'm sure he gets a lot of returned calls even though you correctly identify him as a player.

Number 3 is a good friend of mine. He's very interesting. However, he is completely unreliable. I am sure he's pretty fun in bed and very sensitive, but he's awful with money--debt; rarely there on time, may or may not return a call.
T.
PS: Enjoy O.C.! I get down there pretty often and it can be very nice.

I voted for Number 3
Guess I am biased my current partner is more like 3 than either of the other two but if I were single tim then It would depend on my mood, If i was craving security and a gentle relationship with an equal partner I would go for 1; If i wanted a sexy, heady fling I would go for 2 - at least you would know he wasn't going to be clingy!

 

[Snork Maiden]

I think I would pick #1, because he sounds generally well balanced, has his life in control but not controlled by it, has a healthy physical outlook by having an active out of work life.

The money he is earning isn't important. That he is intelligent means he will always find work even when the looks fade with age. He would be a good active father and a good tutor, thats something that is very important to me above my own needs, the needs for any children I may have.

Snork

 

[Reverie]

Yep Huskie, I'd pick you too

Green eyes (love em')

southern accent (sweet and sexy!) I love a man with an accent!!!

Stupid jokes (hey, somebody's gotta keep the drunks entertained)

Definitely my type