Who Knew?-from out of the mouths of babes

[Homburg]

So do I. Ahem.

I like a girl that smiles like that when I mention my enjoyment of butt sex.

(Thank you - I thought a bottom was a submissive all of the time. I have much learning to do.)

Bottom is commonly used to refer to the physical side of BDSM on the recieving end. It can be used to generically refer to bottoms, submissives, etc. Submissive adds in the mental and emotional aspects as well, and, again, can be used generically to describe bottoms, submissives, etc.

These are all very broad definitions, and represent how I see these words, but they are pretty commonplace ideas on those words.

When I talk about bottoms in relation to me, I am referring to women that may be submissive, but are not mine, and the interaction I have with them is Top/bottom, nothing else. They may be submissives or slaves, but in the context of their interaction with me, they are a bottom, and I am a Top.

(This is not intended to spawn a discussion on definitions. I am simply explaining how I used the words here.)

 

[Guest]

I like a girl that smiles like that when I mention my enjoyment of butt sex.

I wrote a how-to on butt sex.

Bottom is commonly used to refer to the physical side of BDSM on the recieving end. It can be used to generically refer to bottoms, submissives, etc. Submissive adds in the mental and emotional aspects as well, and, again, can be used generically to describe bottoms, submissives, etc.

These are all very broad definitions, and represent how I see these words, but they are pretty commonplace ideas on those words.

When I talk about bottoms in relation to me, I am referring to women that may be submissive, but are not mine, and the interaction I have with them is Top/bottom, nothing else. They may be submissives or slaves, but in the context of their interaction with me, they are a bottom, and I am a Top.

(This is not intended to spawn a discussion on definitions. I am simply explaining how I used the words here.)

Thank you.

Yes, I don't wish to threadjack but your explanations are very helpful.

 

[twysted73]

All but one of them lacked depth or thought.
Flitting from the here and now to the what next like mental butterflies.
Not feeling the moment. Not grasping my concept.
Dating was (at times) a psychological numbing experience.

For one who thought a lot as a young man, only another thinker got my virginity.

To give you an idea how barren the mental landscape in my town was...I lost it at 19.

 

[Homburg]

All but one of them lacked depth or thought.
Flitting from the here and now to the what next like mental butterflies.
Not feeling the moment. Not grasping my concept.
Dating was (at times) a psychological numbing experience.

For one who thought a lot as a young man, only another thinker got my virginity.

To give you an idea how barren the mental landscape in my town was...I lost it at 19.

I could've written this. Well, except for the dating part. I more or less avoided dating until I graduated high school. I had too many friends that fucked themselves up over high school relationships. Whatever. The dating I did was numbing though.

Anyway, I'm with you on this, Twysted.

 

[Homburg]

I wrote a how-to on butt sex.

Good stuff

Thank you.

Yes, I don't wish to threadjack but your explanations are very helpful.

Quite welcome. If you want to talk about other definitional matters, or any other questions, and accept the fact that my perspective is skewed, my PM box is always open.

 

[Guest]

Good stuff

Quite welcome. If you want to talk about other definitional matters, or any other questions, and accept the fact that my perspective is skewed, my PM box is always open.

Thank you.

I know I will have questions. Thank you for the PM offer.