Who likes anal more?

[simpletimes]

For me, anal is now limited to a finger, then a thin vibrator.
And all this I enjoy more when I am with a female rather than a male- guess I know things aren't going to escalate beyond that, and I can relax more.

This can be a problem for many ladies who really fear or are apprehensive. The best way to avoid the fear that the guy is going to think you want anal just because you let him finger you is communication up front. For me I am fine with the woman only wanting a little ass play with out full penetration, I am very fond of ass kissing and licking and respect the limits placed.
Anal must be something both partners are mentally willing to accept.