Who still makes out with their partner?

Been with my wife for 20 years come December, Married for 10 and a half. When we were dating, and long distance, we'd make out heavily when we were together. It was part of foreplay, which was never great from her if in honest.

I can't pinpoint when it happened, but she stopped French kissing me entirely, and barely kisses me at all really. Until this past November even the sex had evaporated, but side then that at least has come back in it's basic form.

She reasons that she wasn't raised in an affectionate household (1st gen Chinese American), and that we were dating and it was new so she was trying. It almost sounds like she thinks it's something you grow out of.

She's also cooled off on what was her kinky side and says she is fine being boring. We've gone opposite directions in the curiosity and passion department.

So, my question is, especially for those of you, let's say 35 and up in long marriages, who still regularly makes out with the partners
Married 43 years and we still fancy the pants off each other! I have posted on other similar threads about our "weekly sex marathons" but it's the small things that keep you together. It's easy to take these things for granted, but knowing that your partner will always look after you in times of illness is a major source of comfort as you grow older.
And never let a day go by without telling each other how much you love them.
 
I was married for 38 years, we had know each other for 42, kisses had become the merest peck, no affection at all. Our hours of togetherness on the sofa getting so horny and fucking like mad afterwards stopped. I tried to let her dictate when we would have sex so that it was a case of her wanting it. As that diminished my masturbation habits increased and I got moaned at for that. I firmly believed we had become two people living in the same house which was something I wasn't prepared to live with. It made no financial sense but I wasn't going to live together just for the money.
 
We try and do a 10 second kiss every day, and kisses in between when we can. The only time we don't is if one of us is sick or something, but overall, its a given; we will 10 second kiss some time during the day, and being something we both look forward too.

Myself; I like kissing, and from it there are 31 phycological benefits. From that, there is no real reason NOT too. It's free, secures the relationship, and much better than divorce.

There is no way I would live with someone who I did not want to 10 second kiss with. I would just realize I was not with the right person, and end the relationship.
 
She told me the way we first kissed is what lead her to faling for me. So guys if you want to keep your relationship healthy, kiss your woman often.
 
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My wife loves kissing so I kiss her. It’s erotic.

She can’t drink coffee anymore, so in the mornings, I have a sip of coffee and kiss her just so the essence of the coffee is on my lips. Coffee kisses drive her wild.

The other day, we were messing around and she pointed to her mouth and said “These lips are not gonna kiss themselves…”
 
Been with my wife for 20 years come December, Married for 10 and a half. When we were dating, and long distance, we'd make out heavily when we were together. It was part of foreplay, which was never great from her if in honest.

I can't pinpoint when it happened, but she stopped French kissing me entirely, and barely kisses me at all really. Until this past November even the sex had evaporated, but side then that at least has come back in it's basic form.

She reasons that she wasn't raised in an affectionate household (1st gen Chinese American), and that we were dating and it was new so she was trying. It almost sounds like she thinks it's something you grow out of.

She's also cooled off on what was her kinky side and says she is fine being boring. We've gone opposite directions in the curiosity and passion department.

So, my question is, especially for those of you, let's say 35 and up in long marriages, who still regularly makes out with the partners
We have been together for 30 years and married for 25 of those. Over the years we have had cool periods and hot too. Lately things have settled down around the warm/hot make out a few times a week.
 
Married for 20 years and we still make out along with dancing in the street if we hear certain songs. Many times strangers clap and cheer, some jokingly say get a room. It's all good.
 
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