Whore, bitch, slut....

[blade_rocknut]

Context goes a long way- take the stereotypical trailer-trash episode with billy bob calling norma jean all these names; it's intended to be hurtful and she knows it ( sort of). Intelligent creatures can actually use words out of their normal limitations and enjoy a little ( maybe comic) relief from it. I will occasionally call my wife something vile ( over nothing) and she knows I'm being facetious and gets a chuckle off it. Sometimes she throws it back; anyhow it's fun. We don't use cunt though- It's tough to take the edge off that one. Twat though, is just inherently funny

 

[fuckmeat]

Of course, if you're into objectification in a big way, you might add things like the following to the list:

My occasional side table
My bedside lamp

Serving as furniture does make me feel humiliated but less so than if I was simply ignored without being given some function or task. Out of everything listed here, being totally ignored and made not to exist will cut me deeper than most other things.

Would this work?

My little failure.

For me it probably would. I don't mind what I'm called, during play or outside it. Expletives generally just bounce off me. Worse than all the degrading names though, is to be called 'useless' or 'worthless' and made to believe it. That will humiliate me far more. There's also fun in the pronoun game but rather than softening the blow by saying 'My Bitch' or whatever, referring to me as 'it' can be extremely powerful too, especially when done in a rhetorical way that means I can't respond.

 

[liv21]

Being called names in the bedroom never turned me on. I mean maybe in the context of, say, a spanking or something... But other than that it doesn't make me feel sexy. Not that I'd be insulted, knowing that coming from a lover it isn't meant to be hurtful, but I wouldn't get any enjoyment out of it.

What I've found to be much more of a turn-on is pet names like princess or darling. The dirtier it gets, the hotter the pet name.

I'd just prefer to hear "I'm going to skullfuck you, princess," rather than "I'm going to skullfuck you, cumslut."

Of course, when I explained this to my fiance, he immediately told me, "I love you, cumslut princess," with a smile.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Of course, when I explained this to my fiance, he immediately told me, "I love you, cumslut princess," with a smile.

yeah... You want to say; "DID YOU HEAR AND UNDERSTAND WHAT I JUST SAID?"

For the goddamn life of me, I do not understand this instant desire to test the boundaries.

When talking to men, nowadays, I start by saying something about that-- "Let's not play that game, because we will never get to the good stuff."

 

[liv21]

I don't hold it against him. He just pretends to be a dick, and I get back at him when he is one.

 

[onlyeighteen]

i wish i was a sub.

 

[Marquis]

This is BDSM 101 stuff, all things are possible through possession.

 

[Marquis]

yes, i am eighteen.
i know you want to fuck me.

Yup!!

 

[Marquis]

Yup!!

Unless you're fat.

How fat are you?

 

[YourCaptor]

For me it probably would. I don't mind what I'm called, during play or outside it. Expletives generally just bounce off me. Worse than all the degrading names though, is to be called 'useless' or 'worthless' and made to believe it. That will humiliate me far more. There's also fun in the pronoun game but rather than softening the blow by saying 'My Bitch' or whatever, referring to me as 'it' can be extremely powerful too, especially when done in a rhetorical way that means I can't respond.

I do the pronoun thing all the time, just comes out naturally. For example, “Let me introduce you, this ones mine. By the way, hows yours?” It drives my friends off the wall, especially for one when I say it about his, though he’s always grinning. And I have yet to find a woman who has a problem with it, or reacts with anything more than a, that was unusual look. Except my sister, but she’s the exception to all. She’s had me read quite a bit of material on objectification without success. Now she thinks it’s her duty to educated all the gfs.

“It”, I’m not sure if I use that. Hmm…

 

[blade_rocknut]

i wish i was a sub.

PFFFFFFT------ sha, I wanna fuck you

 

[TXtaboosexgurl]

bump bump bump

 

[Dom_Man1975]

Maybe I'm stating the obvious here, but it's really about context. If some moron cuts me off on the freeway and I call her a bitch, that's not a compliment. But if I'm fucking a girl and I tell her to suck my cock like a good little bitch, then that's affectionate. I think words like "whore" and "cunt" and "slut" can very much be terms of endearment. So long as it gets my slut's pussy wet to call her that, it's going to turn me on to call her that.

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

Maybe I'm stating the obvious here, but it's really about context. If some moron cuts me off on the freeway and I call her a bitch, that's not a compliment. But if I'm fucking a girl and I tell her to suck my cock like a good little bitch, then that's affectionate. I think words like "whore" and "cunt" and "slut" can very much be terms of endearment. So long as it gets my slut's pussy wet to call her that, it's going to turn me on to call her that.

I'm with you.

But it gets confusing when you're getting road head and some moron cuts you off on the freeway.

 

[Dom_Man1975]

I'm with you.

But it gets confusing when you're getting road head and some moron cuts you off on the freeway.

Laughter.

 

[ArchLady03]

I think "my whore" or "my slut" could be endearing... But I'm more of a pet name girl myself. Or just hearing him say "mine" over and over again... I guess it's just more of the idea of posession that turns me on rather than the name itself.

 

[chy_girl]

What would a sub consider to be a "failure" of such proportions that they would feel humiliated by their collar?

Anything actions on their that would result in me feeling humiliated by my collar would also result in a very long, in-depth discussion over behaviors and whether or not it's time to return said collar. Because at that point, there's some serious relationship issues that need to be dealt with on the human level instead of the D/s level. *shrugs* That's just me though.

I'm with you.

But it gets confusing when you're getting road head and some moron cuts you off on the freeway.

You are such a smart ass some times... You should really hang around more.