Why are you Dominate?

[IrisAlthea]

Actually ( aside from the tiger trap) I quite like this as a thought process. For those of us who sometimes have the reins over some parts of life choosing to go the process to undominate on the path through neutral to submission feels a bit like uncurling the spine in transition to some exercises or yoga prositions....that before one can submit some might need to undominate or neutralise to release tension. Out of fun perhaps a truism? ( more relevant I guess to those of us who are in no way 24/7 ers?)

And is ther such a thing as a neutral inbetween?
Interesting questions, I think.

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

Wouldn't neutral in between just be... vanilla?

 

[midwestyankee]

Wouldn't neutral in between just be... vanilla?

I'm thinking more like amaretto or hazelnut, actually. Or maybe pistachio.

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

I'm thinking more like amaretto or hazelnut, actually. Or maybe pistachio.

Or possibly French vanilla, if there is kissing involved

 

[midwestyankee]

Or possibly French vanilla, if there is kissing involved

True, though sadly this suggests that you've never experienced a pistachio kiss. Of course, you may not yet have reached that point in your journey.

 

[midwestyankee]

The other side of dominate...
Hmmm...
Indominate? Submissate?

Ruminate.

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

True, though sadly this suggests that you've never experienced a pistachio kiss. Of course, you may not yet have reached that point in your journey.

I'm pretty suite my path oxbowed right around pistachio kisses

Ruminate.

Eeeeewwwww Traumatized now!

 

[midwestyankee]

I'm pretty suite my path oxbowed right around pistachio kisses



Eeeeewwwww Traumatized now!

Was that a jazz suite or a baroque suite?

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

Was that a jazz suite or a baroque suite?

It was a dammit phone typo suite :l

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[SpunThings]

I think my head exploded reading this thread.

What does neutral feel like anyways? I'm not sure I've ever experienced that. I'm the backseat driver type. And the correct all the spelling and word errors type.

Dominate and Prostrate make me crazy every-single-time. I mean I'm all for lying on the floor in tribute, but it's not something you can massage!

 

[SpunThings]

I think my head exploded reading this thread.

What does neutral feel like anyways? I'm not sure I've ever experienced that. I'm the backseat driver type. And the correct all the spelling and word errors type.

Dominate and Prostrate make me crazy every-single-time. I mean I'm all for lying on the floor in tribute, but it's not something you can massage!

And this is why I dominate. So the world will follow all the proper rules and things will run smoothly. I'm terrible at it though, because nothing seems to go the way I think it should.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[SpunThings]

Well, you know, if you are lying down naked, covered in oil, someone can just be told to lie on top and rub up and down on you with there hole body. The whole body rub worship can be a hoot.

Oh....OK now that's what I'll think about every time someone uses prostrate incorrectly. Thank you I much prefer that to shaking my fist at the computer

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[AnnieBonneau]

Discuss.

As someone who is more interested in the psychological reasons and life events which shape dominant and submissive personalities, I like the question. Those factors always seem to be missing in posts and porn. I'm always looking for the thoughts of someone looking down on the sub, or what thoughts the sub has that makes him or her receive pleasure from being sexually submissive.

 

[IrisAlthea]

Wouldn't neutral in between just be... vanilla?

I can get my head around a vanilla sex and maybe for the sake of argument a vanilla relationship.
A vanilla person though?
It could of coursemean someone who prefers vannilla sex and or relationship, but does it mean that they are never dominant and/ or submissive ever in life?
I have a hard time picturing that.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[Apple_of_Eden]

Does anyone think of vanilla as a base coat?...It goes with everything and you can add flavors, color, and texture to it. You just decide what it is you want on top and change it at will.

 

[MeekMe]

This one is so submissive that this one's brain can be dumped at anytime and this one can pull the super secret special sub card (s.s.s.s.c.) that grants this sub unlimited adult time outs. Also, after 10 stamps girl gets a free turkey sub.

 

[Apple_of_Eden]

This one is so submissive that this one's brain can be dumped at anytime and this one can pull the super secret special sub card (s.s.s.s.c.) that grants this sub unlimited adult time outs. Also, after 10 stamps girl gets a free turkey sub.

MeekMe, next time you are using your s.s.s.s.c and are hungry, switch the turkey sub for a meatball hoagie with extra sauce. You'll love it. If you need to, you can use turkey meatballs.

Also, I know of a certain sub who needs a few lessons from you. This 'sub' has nothing to do with the turkey sub or hoagie in the previous statements. This one is of the human variety.