Why do Men outnumber Women so much on these sites?

I love to express my sexual sides, but do it on here and your inbox fills up with horny men thinking they are what you need/want.
Simple admissions of having an orgasm, masturbating, being fucked etc and I suddenly have messages asking if I need help or want more.
That's why I came to the boards. To express myself. But I learned really fast that unless you turn off your messages, you're just asking for a full inbox. :rolleyes:

Shit, you are so right! When I first came to Lit, I didn't think anything of discussing matters of my sexuality. But then the avalanche of creepy PMs started. Fuck me! So I started chewing out every single one of those fucking assholes. And you know why? Because they fucking robbed me of my having the ability of being able to express myself in a sexual manner here. One hint of a sexual tone in a post and they're on you like fucking vultures.

And you know what's worse? The guy that is worth a shit, he gets lost in all of the noise that the assholes make. I get fucked out of making a connection with a guy, where there could be something real between us. Instead, it's fucking asshole city, and you have to wade through 50 motherfuckers who are trying to get their fucking rocks off :mad:

Sorry for the rant. Please continue.
 
<snip> The guy that is worth a shit, he gets lost in all of the noise that the assholes make. I get fucked out of making a connection with a guy, where there could be something real between us. Instead, it's fucking asshole city, and you have to wade through 50 motherfuckers who are trying to get their fucking rocks off :mad:

Sorry for the rant. Please continue.
Welcome back - I was beginning to wonder where you'd gone.

Please don't apologise LadyJS, male litsers need to realise that this is mostly a problem of their own making and that the remedy lies at their fingertips. Even while allowing free speech, it's possible to set a general tone which jumps hard on obnoxious behaviour.

I shouldn't have to get my stompy boots on just to come here, I shouldn't have to emphasise that "no" means "no" on my profile, the asshat thread shouldn't be needed.
 
Welcome back - I was beginning to wonder where you'd gone.

Thank you Penuche :) I had some personal shit gong on, and had to get my head straightened out, so I took an internet break. Fucking painful :(

Please don't apologize LadyJS, male litsers need to realize that this is mostly a problem of their own making and that the remedy lies at their fingertips. Even while allowing free speech, it's possible to set a general tone which jumps hard on obnoxious behaviour.

I'm not so much sorry for what I wrote, though admittedly after I posted it I thought about deleting it. I mean, yeah I have a genuine gripe against the male fuckers on Lit (and you all fucking know who you are :mad:). But sometimes I think the negativity I express can be viewed by others in a negative light, where they don't want to hear one more person bitching and moaning.

It's just that the motherfuckers piss me off so fucking much. God, it's like a metal bottle brush riding up my fucking crack, only worse. But I'm going off again, so I gotta wind it down.

I shouldn't have to get my stompy boots on just to come here, I shouldn't have to emphasize that "no" means "no" on my profile, the asshat thread shouldn't be needed.

You're right, the asshat thread shouldn't be needed, but it has its purpose. And I have to visit it soon as I got a PM recently that is asshat worthy!
 
Just look at the size of my ignore list with the knowledge that every person on it tried to initiate cybersex with me in their first message.
That should tell you why there is an imbalance.
 
Shit, you are so right! When I first came to Lit, I didn't think anything of discussing matters of my sexuality. But then the avalanche of creepy PMs started. Fuck me! So I started chewing out every single one of those fucking assholes. And you know why? Because they fucking robbed me of my having the ability of being able to express myself in a sexual manner here. One hint of a sexual tone in a post and they're on you like fucking vultures.

And you know what's worse? The guy that is worth a shit, he gets lost in all of the noise that the assholes make. I get fucked out of making a connection with a guy, where there could be something real between us. Instead, it's fucking asshole city, and you have to wade through 50 motherfuckers who are trying to get their fucking rocks off :mad:

Sorry for the rant. Please continue.

Very well said. :)
 
Just look at the size of my ignore list with the knowledge that every person on it tried to initiate cybersex with me in their first message.
That should tell you why there is an imbalance.

Nobody can see your Ignore List but you.
 
Shit, you are so right! When I first came to Lit, I didn't think anything of discussing matters of my sexuality. But then the avalanche of creepy PMs started. Fuck me! So I started chewing out every single one of those fucking assholes. And you know why? Because they fucking robbed me of my having the ability of being able to express myself in a sexual manner here. One hint of a sexual tone in a post and they're on you like fucking vultures.

And you know what's worse? The guy that is worth a shit, he gets lost in all of the noise that the assholes make. I get fucked out of making a connection with a guy, where there could be something real between us. Instead, it's fucking asshole city, and you have to wade through 50 motherfuckers who are trying to get their fucking rocks off :mad:

Sorry for the rant. Please continue.

Yea.. don't know what to say to this and honestly don't know how it will change. How do you tell the vast amount of men on this board that approach doesn't work? Maybe have a separate forum where only women can post and if your profile says man you can't? There will always be a ton of men that are simply looking to be excited and get their rocks off. Men are simple that way. Why there are so may strip joints featuring women and male strip shows are rare. I guess the question is how do we make this site different?

Suggestions?

Don't know what to say here, except sorry.
 
I love to express my sexual sides, but do it on here and your inbox fills up with horny men thinking they are what you need/want.
Simple admissions of having an orgasm, masturbating, being fucked etc and I suddenly have messages asking if I need help or want more.
That's why I came to the boards. To express myself. But I learned really fast that unless you turn off your messages, you're just asking for a full inbox. :rolleyes:

Yes, this is exactly what is inhibiting me and why I believe there are more men than women.

Shit, you are so right! When I first came to Lit, I didn't think anything of discussing matters of my sexuality. But then the avalanche of creepy PMs started. Fuck me! So I started chewing out every single one of those fucking assholes. And you know why? Because they fucking robbed me of my having the ability of being able to express myself in a sexual manner here. One hint of a sexual tone in a post and they're on you like fucking vultures.

And you know what's worse? The guy that is worth a shit, he gets lost in all of the noise that the assholes make. I get fucked out of making a connection with a guy, where there could be something real between us. Instead, it's fucking asshole city, and you have to wade through 50 motherfuckers who are trying to get their fucking rocks off :mad:

Sorry for the rant. Please continue.

It isn't even the ones that just start out "Hey I like your tits" or "I can make you cum with my 10 inch dick" because I'm pretty sure half of those are just mentally 15. It's the ones that make it clear they've read posts you've written and blatantly ignore that. It feels violating. I've started telling people off as well.

Just look at the size of my ignore list with the knowledge that every person on it tried to initiate cybersex with me in their first message.
That should tell you why there is an imbalance.
That's a great idea. I should start doing that.
 
Yes, this is exactly what is inhibiting me and why I believe there are more men than women.

It isn't even the ones that just start out "Hey I like your tits" or "I can make you cum with my 10 inch dick" because I'm pretty sure half of those are just mentally 15. It's the ones that make it clear they've read posts you've written and blatantly ignore that. It feels violating. I've started telling people off as well.

That's a great idea. I should start doing that.

I've not read more than four posts on this thread but already I want to say:

I'm a man. I get the impression I'm pretty sexy even at my age. I ADORE having exchanges on the threads with any of the many deliciously fine women of Lit. I LOVE IT that they feel able to give expression to all things relating to feminine arousal and pleasure. And I RESPECT their right to a space online where they can do that in the company of men as well as women who will be courteous towards them. I like to believe that there are many men on here with a similar outlook and long may it continue.

Love you gals! xx
 
I've not read more than four posts on this thread but already I want to say:

I'm a man. I get the impression I'm pretty sexy even at my age. I ADORE having exchanges on the threads with any of the many deliciously fine women of Lit. I LOVE IT that they feel able to give expression to all things relating to feminine arousal and pleasure. And I RESPECT their right to a space online where they can do that in the company of men as well as women who will be courteous towards them. I like to believe that there are many men on here with a similar outlook and long may it continue.

Love you gals! xx

That's what's needed. <3 Thanks for reminding us there are good guys on here too.
 
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