Why do we show off our nude wives to others?

FroggysFriend

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We like to show off our women as a matter of pride or virile possession.
I got her, you don't a.k.a. she's mine, ain't she pretty. Makes us feel good and if she digs it then your both happy cause she adores the attention with out being harassed. Your both safe within the confines of your relationship.
 
Rare is the person who understands that sex is only "bad" because of all the societal/environmental constraints put on it, and is willing to act their belief.

Since Lit pictures can be done in a way that doesn't cause harm to the model or poster (i.e. you can be anonymous), the constraints on picture contents now come from inside the photographer and model and poster, not the environment they live in.

For these people, the question about posing and sharing changes from "Will I get fired/arrested/ostracized/feel guilty/etc." to "Do I enjoy expressing my sexuality this way?"

When the answer to that last question is "Yes", we Lit'sters get to share the beauty of these photos.

I really appreciate the people who can share with us this way. Thank you very much!
 
S_D_R_R said:
Rare is the person who understands that sex is only "bad" because of all the societal/environmental constraints put on it, and is willing to act their belief.

Since Lit pictures can be done in a way that doesn't cause harm to the model or poster (i.e. you can be anonymous), the constraints on picture contents now come from inside the photographer and model and poster, not the environment they live in.

For these people, the question about posing and sharing changes from "Will I get fired/arrested/ostracized/feel guilty/etc." to "Do I enjoy expressing my sexuality this way?"

When the answer to that last question is "Yes", we Lit'sters get to share the beauty of these photos.

I really appreciate the people who can share with us this way. Thank you very much!


So well capsulized!
 
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I might look at the pics if they're posted but I find I don't have much interest in responding because its the guy who is posting them. I much rather compliment a woman who has taken the time to take some pics and wants to show.
 
Nice thread...I agree w/ the pride and all.

My wife is hot...38DD and a nice sweet black pussy. Only ever had one black pussy...that was a mistake I did before getting married...never had more of it.
 
yogiforlife said:
I might look at the pics if they're posted but I find I don't have much interest in responding because its the guy who is posting them. I much rather compliment a woman who has taken the time to take some pics and wants to show.

I agree. Makes me wonder sometimes if the wife/gf is even aware the pics are being posted......
 
somberReality said:
I agree. Makes me wonder sometimes if the wife/gf is even aware the pics are being posted......

Would be kind of sick if they don't, but guess that happens sometimes........thankfully we post as a couple and people know [we hope] who it is responding to comments.
 
I agree, all parties within the photo should be aware of what's going to happen to it once it's taken. I also must admit, being a woman who is posting her own photos, it strokes my own ego to see such wonderful responces. In that way Lit is helping each of us to celebrate out sexuality and it is wonderful :D
 
22Kitten said:
I agree, all parties within the photo should be aware of what's going to happen to it once it's taken. I also must admit, being a woman who is posting her own photos, it strokes my own ego to see such wonderful responces. In that way Lit is helping each of us to celebrate out sexuality and it is wonderful :D
Agree 100%
 
22Kitten said:
I agree, all parties within the photo should be aware of what's going to happen to it once it's taken. I also must admit, being a woman who is posting her own photos, it strokes my own ego to see such wonderful responces. In that way Lit is helping each of us to celebrate out sexuality and it is wonderful :D

Speaking on behalf of beauty [is that being ironic lol] she would say [and hopefully will do here] that posting pictures of her and getting wonderful comments in return has helped her overcome any doubts she may have had about body issues.................I know she is beautiful but sometimes having others agree helps reinforce those thoughts, and for both of us the erotic pleasure gained from sharing our pictures makes it 100% worthwhile.
 
Beauty_Beast said:
Speaking on behalf of beauty [is that being ironic lol] she would say [and hopefully will do here] that posting pictures of her and getting wonderful comments in return has helped her overcome any doubts she may have had about body issues.................I know she is beautiful but sometimes having others agree helps reinforce those thoughts, and for both of us the erotic pleasure gained from sharing our pictures makes it 100% worthwhile.


I completly agree. In the few short days of posting my own pictures I have noticed a signifigant change in the way I view myself, i'm realizing truly that fat chicks can be sexy! And all of the people who have commented or PM'd me are reinforcing the fact. For years I thought I was ugly, and no one could love me (I have realized a few years ago it's not true) but to come here and get positive remarks from strangers is exhilerating.
 
22Kitten said:
I completly agree. In the few short days of posting my own pictures I have noticed a signifigant change in the way I view myself, i'm realizing truly that fat chicks can be sexy! And all of the people who have commented or PM'd me are reinforcing the fact. For years I thought I was ugly, and no one could love me (I have realized a few years ago it's not true) but to come here and get positive remarks from strangers is exhilerating.

I think you said it best yourself when you mentioned that we all have the opportunity to celebrate our sexuality. Regardless of our own perceptions of our body type, it is good to get others opinions and 99% of the posters in ampics are positive [and I believe honest] in their reactions.

I guess it could be said that a percentage of horny men will be complimentary about any woman who chooses to show her body to them, but the fact that many women also post complimentary responses indicates to me a truth that every body type has an admirer and be it "fat" or thin, long or short, the very fact people have chosen to share themselves with others should be celebrated.
 
I agree, there is just something about this forum that creates a trusting atmosphere, and besides the occasional troll, is very honest and almost never negative. I have noticed that no matter what you look like, there is always someone who admires you here.
 
22Kitten said:
I agree, there is just something about this forum that creates a trusting atmosphere, and besides the occasional troll, is very honest and almost never negative. I have noticed that no matter what you look like, there is always someone who admires you here.


Based on my experience,99.9% of people who comment in LIT(photos AND stories) are non-judgmental.forget the trolls.Don't feed them!
 
I think the whole situation is a bit less sugary than this thread would make it out to be.

It's people masturbating/getting there ego's stroked. The cycle works well because straight men want to masturbate to women, and straight women like to be told they are sexy when they told get told often enough.

I doubt the men on this board are genuinely as flattering as their comments would appear to be in real life, and I doubt that most women are as open-minded as they would make themselves appear with thier posts.

Quid Pro Quo.
 
lordonlyknows said:
I think the whole situation is a bit less sugary than this thread would make it out to be.

It's people masturbating/getting there ego's stroked. The cycle works well because straight men want to masturbate to women, and straight women like to be told they are sexy when they told get told often enough.

I doubt the men on this board are genuinely as flattering as their comments would appear to be in real life, and I doubt that most women are as open-minded as they would make themselves appear with thier posts.

Quid Pro Quo.

Nice sweeping generalisations there...................speaking as a male I can confirm having never choked the monkey while looking at Lit pics, of women, or men, and my ego has informed me that it cares not one iota what people think of it, way to go ego.

As for coming from the womans persepective, yes It could be sometimes about being told they are sexy or desirable and there is nothing wrong in that, especially as some members of the male gender, in real life, do their utmost to belittle women over such issues as body types.

Too much deep thinking going on, people post pics for a variety of reasons, other people choose to enjoy what has been shared or not, simple as.
 
Beauty_Beast said:
Nice sweeping generalisations there...................speaking as a male I can confirm having never choked the monkey while looking at Lit pics, of women, or men, and my ego has informed me that it cares not one iota what people think of it, way to go ego.

As for coming from the womans persepective, yes It could be sometimes about being told they are sexy or desirable and there is nothing wrong in that, especially as some members of the male gender, in real life, do their utmost to belittle women over such issues as body types.

Too much deep thinking going on, people post pics for a variety of reasons, other people choose to enjoy what has been shared or not, simple as.
agree.Only do things that bring me pleasure, so long as they don’t hurt anyone or anything.
 
Beauty_Beast said:
Nice sweeping generalisations there...................speaking as a male I can confirm having never choked the monkey while looking at Lit pics, of women, or men, and my ego has informed me that it cares not one iota what people think of it, way to go ego.

As for coming from the womans persepective, yes It could be sometimes about being told they are sexy or desirable and there is nothing wrong in that, especially as some members of the male gender, in real life, do their utmost to belittle women over such issues as body types.

Too much deep thinking going on, people post pics for a variety of reasons, other people choose to enjoy what has been shared or not, simple as.

If you're claiming to be uneffected by the opinions of others, you are lying.

And maybe you don't masturbate; maybe all these pics of, you know, people naked, or...you know, couples having sex...maybe that's not what gets you off, maybe you're too sophisticated for that kind of thing.

But uh, I'm willing to bet people aren't visiting LitAmPics "for the articles," if you catch me.
 
lordonlyknows said:
If you're claiming to be uneffected by the opinions of others, you are lying.

At my age other peoples opinions of me mean very little, especially from unknown keyboard warriors on a porn bb. Accepting compliments is one thing, being affected by opinions of others, even those calling me a liar, mean slightly closer to jack shite afaiac. The point being made was that some people who share their pictures with others here do not do so primarily in the knowledge that it produces jacking fodder for others but more as an affirmation or otherwise that their body type is liked and respected by others.

lordonlyknows said:
And maybe you don't masturbate; maybe all these pics of, you know, people naked, or...you know, couples having sex...maybe that's not what gets you off, maybe you're too sophisticated for that kind of thing.

Sophisticated ? perhaps, not a word I would have chosen however, maybe we as a couple can look at others pictures and use them as erotic arousal for ourselves at other times, or perhaps we can just admire what others share both in terms of content and in terms of artistic value. If you or others choose to look at the pictures and wank yourself off each and every time, then fair play to you.

lordonlyknows said:
But uh, I'm willing to bet people aren't visiting LitAmPics "for the articles," if you catch me.

And that's where your generalisations come into play again..........I have searched all over Lit for your poll requiring every poster to register the reasons they use ampics, but have failed to find it, perhaps you can point me in the right direction? thanks for the offer of catching you, but will pass on this occasion.
 
22Kitten said:
I agree, all parties within the photo should be aware of what's going to happen to it once it's taken. I also must admit, being a woman who is posting her own photos, it strokes my own ego to see such wonderful responces. In that way Lit is helping each of us to celebrate out sexuality and it is wonderful :D


I agree with this as I am also female and post my pictures...

Now I posted my husband pictures... he doesn't know about it, not that i'd hide it from him, he wouldn't care, but he just has no interest in knowing.. he knows it makes me happy to share, so he allows it because he knows it turns me on because of my exhabitionist tedencies.
 
Beauty_Beast said:
At my age other peoples opinions of me mean very little, especially from unknown keyboard warriors on a porn bb. Accepting compliments is one thing, being affected by opinions of others, even those calling me a liar, mean slightly closer to jack shite afaiac. The point being made was that some people who share their pictures with others here do not do so primarily in the knowledge that it produces jacking fodder for others but more as an affirmation or otherwise that their body type is liked and respected by others.



Sophisticated ? perhaps, not a word I would have chosen however, maybe we as a couple can look at others pictures and use them as erotic arousal for ourselves at other times, or perhaps we can just admire what others share both in terms of content and in terms of artistic value. If you or others choose to look at the pictures and wank yourself off each and every time, then fair play to you.



And that's where your generalisations come into play again..........I have searched all over Lit for your poll requiring every poster to register the reasons they use ampics, but have failed to find it, perhaps you can point me in the right direction? thanks for the offer of catching you, but will pass on this occasion.

I can't really take you seriously if you're going to claim that Lit has artisitc merit.

I've seen some people with erotic photos that are very artisitic - Sulk would be a good example - but uh, you're just shitting yourself if you're trying to claim that most people are here to "share in the beauty of exchanging artistic photos of the naked human form, such a divine creation it be!"

You said it yourself, this is a porn bulletin board.

People are jacking off. They tell you're beautiful so that you will keep giving them things to jack off to. That's how the system works.

What pisses me off is that you can't even point out such an obvious truth without somebody flaming you for it.

I will agree with you; I don't think the majority of women post their own nude photos to perpetuate masturbatory habits at all, but I do think that the majority of men flattering them into posting more pics are just the same group of guys ritualisiticly jacking off everytime they visit this forum.

And I don't think the women of Lit are totally blind to this fact either, I recently got in a scuffle with posterofagirl because she chastized one of her pretty faithful enthusiasts because he dared question her motives for posting pictures that she knew were mostly being used for sexual purpose.

It's a valid question to ask of anyone who is posting pictures of themselves on this forum: 1. What are your motives for posting pictures fo yourself? and 2. Do you really understand the atmosphere of the forum you're posting them on?

I think that most posters understand question 1, but have very little understanding of what this forum is really like if they think it's anything other than primarily a porn bulletin board.

Now why is that I, the guy whose just pointing out the way it is, get flamed while members of this board such as yourself take the side of the guys who are just being dishonest.

I'm not calling you a liar. Maybe you are too advanced for the rest of us peasants with our ritualistic masturbation, but uh...you are the minority.

No, I can't speak for everybody. But I can watch; I can listen and observe.

And the signs aren't pointing to a forum of appreciation of beauty or artisitic exchange.
 
the problem i have is you can never tell when someone is being genuine or whether they are just here because they cant be bothered finding porn and will just compliment anyone who is slightly sensual or sexual in hopes of getting some cam action.
 
lushlucid said:
the problem i have is you can never tell when someone is being genuine or whether they are just here because they cant be bothered finding porn and will just compliment anyone who is slightly sensual or sexual in hopes of getting some cam action.
Let's give people the benefit of the doubt.I post nude pics of my wife and I appreciate the comments.They seem sincere.
 
no offence, but i don't really consider it the place to give people the benefit of doubt.
 
lushlucid said:
the problem i have is you can never tell when someone is being genuine or whether they are just here because they cant be bothered finding porn and will just compliment anyone who is slightly sensual or sexual in hopes of getting some cam action.
Well, if someone is too lazy to find porn, they probably don't have a pulse. I mean, come on, it's everywhere. If one is looking simply for pictures/video of nude women of any shape/size or pose to masturbate to, porn is a far more efficient "solution" than AmPics. As for "cam action", I could be wrong or naive, but I think very few women on AmPics are offering that.

I think the appeal of AmPics is in actually getting to know something about the women who post. Granted, some reveal a lot more about themselves than others, but those tend to be the longer-lasting threads, in my experience. And also, there seem to be some mouthbreathers here who don't look at it that way--they're just here for the pics. I think the only reason they don't just find porn is, they're under the mistaken impression that they can pressure the women here into showing them exactly what they want to see. (Well, maybe they sometimes succeed.)

By the way, I complimented you on your pictures because, well, you're very attractive (though you don't seem to think so). I certainly didn't do it in the hopes that anything "more" would happen.
 
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