Why do you come to Lit?

I came to Lit for the stories and it's still my main destination. I'm probably too old-fashioned but I enjoy good sex stories more than sex pictures and videos, looks like my imagination is my favorite photographer and director. In fact I even discovered forums some years later than I discovered the site itself. However I found that some threads here are able to spark my imagination as well. And I also don't mind to share some of my experiences with like-minded people
 
I came to Lit for the stories and it's still my main destination. I'm probably too old-fashioned but I enjoy good sex stories more than sex pictures and videos, looks like my imagination is my favorite photographer and director. In fact I even discovered forums some years later than I discovered the site itself. However I found that some threads here are able to spark my imagination as well. And I also don't mind to share some of my experiences with like-minded people
Always fun to share!
 
My story begins with how did I come to Lit and ends with why I’ve stayed.

I found Literotica by accident. I was dating a guy who was an aspiring TV writer, and we had some fun times. Sexually, he was great, but I always felt he might have had a thing — let’s call it a desire — to see his woman (at the time, me) having sex with a black man. I was blond then (I’m a natural brunette) and bouncing around Los Angeles for my job. We would go out, have fun, but when he saw a black guy, he would make suggestive remarks about size and whether I would like to try that. Nothing overt, but women are good at picking up on subtext. Say something once, and I’ll consider it an isolated comment. Say it more than once, and I know it’s on your mind.

Well, he was working on an episode of "Are You Afraid of the Dark," and asked me to proofread. The thing is, he left his browser open, and I could see he was writing something completely different. It was a story about a young couple who meet a football player named Sean at a party. Through conversation, he comes home with them and begins a domineering relationship with both of them, where she is his sexual toy, and her husband is their obedient servant.

From the couple's description, I could tell it was my boyfriend and me (let’s call him Tony). The story made me desire Sean and then have sex with him, in front of Tony, while Sean barked commands at both of us.

Tony is an excellent writer, but this was something else. It was so hot to see myself in another world, acting counter to anything I had ever done.

Wow, that was a lot to take in. He had a folder with several similar stories, all in the interracial category. As I looked through each one, it was always me being taken by an athletic black man, and it was always Tony who worshiped both of us.

At that point, I decided, Yeah, this is his kink.

He came in, saw me reading his “private” writings, and was not upset. The fact was, he left that page up on his browser and his files open for me to find — a clever way to bring up the core topic of his desire.

He put his cards on the table. He desired to see me have sex with an athletic black man. That desire had found its outlet here on LE. This was his way of bringing his fantasy to the table.

I liked this guy a lot, but his kink wasn’t my thing (my kinks are in my stories), and I told him it wasn’t going to happen. However, I was fine role-playing it, so we went to the adult toy store in the valley and bought a huge black penis sleeve so he could be Sean. He slid it on and nearly doubled his size. It was a little much, but the role-play fantasy was exciting to us both.

He later left me for his assistant, a younger girl who worshiped him. I’m pretty sure she’s fulfilling that fantasy in real life, and I’m happy for them.

As for me, I ended up dating a member of the Chargers (then in San Diego) and kept thinking of video recording our sessions and sending them to Tony. Not as a tease, but as a little gift for introducing me to Literotica.

But back to LE. Once I found this site on his computer, I lurked for years and learned. I couldn't believe how hot some of the stories got me. Also, I couldn't believe how angry some of the postings were. I'm all about story, so if you don't have a good premise, I'm out.

I realized my body count and experiences were significant, and if Tony could do it, why not me? I wrote my first story in a unique style I call Portmanteau, which I took from binge-watching Pulp Fiction a hundred times.

As I wrote, I found myself so worked up that I tended to need some relief before I could continue. If, in reading my work, I get the urge to pleasure myself, then it's ready to publish. That has become my benchmark.

After a long while, in 2023, I posted my first work, and I’ve gotten a little bolder each time. I’ve found my groove with some great stories and some filthy sex, and I love it here.
 
I come here like many, to get turned on and crank one out.
I use erotic literature and no longer images(just my thing) and specifically Literotica because I'm pretty sure of there only being safe stories. I found out that, while I have never come across dodgy stuff accidentally when I used to use videos, you can easily come across dodgy stuff in sex stories on some sites.
Literotica isnt one of these sites. It is safe and legal and the writing is of a much higher quantity anyway
 
For me, my principal attraction is hearing from women, like the OP, what it is that opened their minds to non traditional sexual activity. Why did the faithful, loving housewife turn into a hotwife, why does the PTA mom get such a buzz from writing out her most erotic fantasies to share with others. I also enjoy sharing my own experiences with others who are interested.
 
Originally I came to Lit for the erotic stories in the early days of discovering my sexuality and exploring online. That’s been my consistent reason for coming back over the years. More recently I’ve been coming here to explore my sexuality again……this time as an adult and in a different stage of life. Reading and participating in threads and some chatting with others has been really fun!
@kristin_hip79 Sounds like my life story and reason to be here
 
First it was for the stories like many others . Then I discovered the forums and that's where I spend most of the time now .
It's an outlet where you can share your experiences and desires that you really can't with most of your real life friends without potentially losing some of them .
 
First it was for the stories like many others . Then I discovered the forums and that's where I spend most of the time now .
It's an outlet where you can share your experiences and desires that you really can't with most of your real life friends without potentially losing some of them .
Sounds very similar.

My husband suggested Lit for me to post my stories. We’d been reading erotica on another site previously.
Neve knew it had a forum but found it quickly and it’s been fun hearing and chatting to others. It’s helped with my writing.
 
Love the stories but also love meeting other people who are still figuring out their gender and sexuality.
 
I have been coming to Lit for the stories, interaction, and sexual experience. I'm working on expressing myself more - seeing and reading others' ideas and experiences is helping me find ways to do that. Plus, I don't think there is a better online community for being able to be yourself without judgement.
 
Initially, to get my rocks off to some amazing erotica.

Now, I love writing and publishing and sharing more of my naughty mind. I have gained a new appreciation for the Poetry forum, and watching numbers next to my name is always a good dopamine hit.
 
Reading about people's experiences, desires, fantasies... and every now and then... finding a kindred spirit to chat and connect with.
 
I have been reading the stories forever, but started connecting with others as a means to share common human needs and desires that are existentially important to me but impossible to discuss with others in my life. There are many forms of intimacy besides sex, and I need intimacy in my life.
 
I'm only here for the biscuit recipes
Right ;-) I bought Playboy magazine only because of the interviews and articles.

That said, I love hearing a woman’s viewpoint about what turns her on…fantasies, experiences and desires.
 
I come to Lit to explore my sexuality, to learn from others, to read about others experiences, to see beautiful people and of course to read super sexy stories!
Sometimes I come to find inspiration and release. Sometimes I feel brave, horny and a bit of wanting to show a picture lol
I have made friends here and I enjoy the conversations
 
Still enjoying seeing others share their own sexual adventures and appreciate learning about others.
 
For me, Lit is an outlet, one that gives me a chance to talk about things that I don't talk about in real life. And without it, I believe I would have a lot harder time being good. Hell, I suspect I could not have stayed monogamous as long as I did, nor probably have limited my extra-martial activities to just one other woman, without Lit. And I adore my Hubby and would never intentionally hurt him. It's just sometimes I need to express/release whatever not-so-marriage friendly thing I might be thinking. And Lit has been a great place for me to do that over the years. And of course, I like the stories and pics and such. :rolleyes:

So, why do you come to Lit?
Well the obvious reason like many have stated is the great stories. I have been reading on and off for awhile.

The other reason is because sex is a big part of my life and I believe a lot of people's lives and there are not a lot of good places you can openly talk about it. I really think that needs to change as well but that is a whole other conversation lol.
 
I started visiting Literotica 20 years ago, mainly reading incest stories, which i really enjoy untill now. Lately i read mature and loving wives stories and loving them!!! Last 3 months i discovered the forum and i am hooked!!! Love meeting people from around the world and exchange fantasies, experiences and flirting.
 
For me, Lit is an outlet, one that gives me a chance to talk about things that I don't talk about in real life. And without it, I believe I would have a lot harder time being good. Hell, I suspect I could not have stayed monogamous as long as I did, nor probably have limited my extra-martial activities to just one other woman, without Lit. And I adore my Hubby and would never intentionally hurt him. It's just sometimes I need to express/release whatever not-so-marriage friendly thing I might be thinking. And Lit has been a great place for me to do that over the years. And of course, I like the stories and pics and such. :rolleyes:

So, why do you come to Lit?
At first it was the stories, then I started to explore more. The forums are fun, teasing fun. The chats are ok but not great. There is still more I need to explore but it’s all interesting
 
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