why do you give a blowjob?

[Porkwarrior]

I LOVE it! The feel of him getting aroused, the buildup, controlling the intensity or holding him back until he explodes... You can feel everything he does through your mouth and his reactions. You can feel it through how hard he gets, the little thrusts he can't control, the obvious thrusts because it feels so good, the soft whimpers, grunts or heavy breathing, the pulse pounding through the thick veins... His hands tangling themselves into your hair as he grips you and guides you... I get VERY excited and aroused every time, it sweeps me up in a wave and I could happily go on for hours. Watching, feeling and guiding him to orgasm is a treat that makes me horny as hell and riled up every time.

Why do I give a blowjob...? Because I love to give and feel his pleasure.

I'm suddenly very thankful I found this place. That is profoundly erotic.

No one has mentioned the practical aspects of the BJ, can be performed mostly clothed, perfect candidate for a workplace quickie over lunch to get you through the afternoon, relatively quiet, and can be done just about every where. A bit of Russian Roulette unless she's an adept swallower though. And even a sloppy one is alot less messy than pounding for home plate. Plus if you are planning to go out later she doesn't have to worry about about you dribbling down her leg at an awkward moment.

Not to mention all the fun you can have while still being relatively safely discreet in public. I used to love getting this one lady I was seeing all hot & bothered on the dance floor, under the table, or even just staring at each other for an hour, working ourselves up in public places until we both needed some form of release, then find a quiet coat room, empty office, or a quiet parking lot. Frequently she wouldn't even work me to release, we used to have a game where she would take me in her mouth with an ice cube and work me as hard she could with only her tongue until the ice cube melted...then she'd tuck me away, quick kiss, and back to the party, or dinner, or office picnic.

Sort of a quick snack to get you through until you could relax at home with a full seven course meal.

Does anyone here have any embarrassing oral sex stories? I'm working on a story and I could use an embarrassing scenario.

I've got one for you.
Junior year high school I was seeing this one girl off & on, we really liked spending time together but fully clothed make out sessions were as far as she was interested in going. I sensed she really wanted to go farther, but trust & control issues were constantly bothering her (if I had to date high school boys I'd probably have some trust & control issues towards sex too! ).\

In a moment of Einstein-like genius I started teasing her with the idea of tying me up, and once she had me with my shirt off and hands tied to a stiff backed wooden chair she was definitely into it! What started as a very hot make out session quickly had my jeans around my ankles and turned into an exploratory hand job, that ended up as the hottest two minute blow job of my life. Just as I was about to explode she eagerly lifted off my cock with this almost round eye look of hunger, lust, eagerness & excitement, I barely registered something along the lines of "OMG is it going to happen!?!?!?!?".......about one or two heartbeats before I shot the biggest load of cum straight up her right nostril. For around a minute I couldn't figure out if she was choking or sneezing, but definitely got the hint that snorting a line of cum was something to avoid.

I almost feel bad, she's prolly an exceptionally hot, adept Dom now......that absolutely, under no terms, no exceptions, will give another BJ. Sorry fellas, I "blew" it for the rest of ya!

 

[Stacers05]

I like feeling controlled, and of course because guys like it.

 

[DRMISCHIEF]

Blow Jobs

There are a lot of guys who don't like blow jobs and never come from them, somehow I have known a lot of them.

I don't tend to do them unless I really feel like it as there are so many more interesting things to do. I am more likely to give hand jobs with some oral involved.

I have TMD which doesn't help so face fucking means pain for me and possible spasms which could mean serious pain/injury for my lover.

I don't find that particular sex acts themselves turn me on, its more the lovers with whom I am having sex.

Blow jobs in general seem kind of dull except as a control and a pleasing someone else thing, as they are not really very intimate and have limited body contact.

I love to receive a blow job but i take a long long time to come. we use it just as foreplay as it makes my girlfriend very wet .

 

[idpthrtnpanties]

I give blowjobs because...

I don't want to make love to a man, I want to make him shoot cum down my throat or all over my face.

 

[yours2nite]

I like giving blowjobs. Yeah, it's nice to feel that am I giving pleasure to him when I do it, but it also turns me on to do it. Plus I know how much guys tend to like it and it can be a really good way of making them hard as well, and getting me wet, so it's a win-win for everyone

 

[switchbitch]

Because I love it ,the taste ,the feel when I am being throat fucked,that slight feeling of asphyxia,it makes me cum so hard.the world just disappears and I don't want it to stop.

 

[MILFSauce]

I don't derive physical sexual sensations from giving a blowjob, in the same way I would if you fondled my nipple, for instance, or licked my clitoris.

But having your man's cock in your mouth is very, very sensuous. The skin on the head is so soft and velvety. It's very enjoyable. And as others have mentioned, knowing that you're giving intense pleasure to your partner is very satisfying, not to mention arousing. I've had orgasms while giving blowjobs, I think because of the emotional intensity involved. I've also cried after making my man cum, for the same reason.

As for swallowing ... well ... I dunno, for me I could never say that semen tastes good. The best I can say about it is that some men aren't that bad. And you get used to it.

But there's so much more to it than that. Allowing your man to ejaculate into your mouth is an extreme act of intimacy and surrender. And if I'm very aroused, which I frequently am, then the act of receiving his sperm is so naughty, so sexual, so primeval, so deliciously wicked .. that it becomes an end in itself. I think men can understand this ... surely it's not that different from licking your woman to orgasm. Having my man's face between my legs is heavenly. Not only is it intensely pleasurable, physically, but again it's so very intimate and giving on his part.

Do we really enjoy it or do we do it because he wants it? Both! It's quite enjoyable in and of itself. But beyond that, it makes me happy to please my man. And isn't that what it's all about?

 

[LandP2]

I don't derive physical sexual sensations from giving a blowjob, in the same way I would if you fondled my nipple, for instance, or licked my clitoris.

But having your man's cock in your mouth is very, very sensuous. The skin on the head is so soft and velvety. It's very enjoyable. And as others have mentioned, knowing that you're giving intense pleasure to your partner is very satisfying, not to mention arousing. I've had orgasms while giving blowjobs, I think because of the emotional intensity involved. I've also cried after making my man cum, for the same reason.

As for swallowing ... well ... I dunno, for me I could never say that semen tastes good. The best I can say about it is that some men aren't that bad. And you get used to it.

But there's so much more to it than that. Allowing your man to ejaculate into your mouth is an extreme act of intimacy and surrender. And if I'm very aroused, which I frequently am, then the act of receiving his sperm is so naughty, so sexual, so primeval, so deliciously wicked .. that it becomes an end in itself. I think men can understand this ... surely it's not that different from licking your woman to orgasm. Having my man's face between my legs is heavenly. Not only is it intensely pleasurable, physically, but again it's so very intimate and giving on his part.

Do we really enjoy it or do we do it because he wants it? Both! It's quite enjoyable in and of itself. But beyond that, it makes me happy to please my man. And isn't that what it's all about?

 

[MILFSauce]

Lol, that is so funny. The first time i give head i chickened out at the last second of taking his cum in my mouth and he shot all over my top. Had to sneak past my parents going back home that night so they didnt see his mess.

I had almost this exact same experience

I don't remember if he pulled out of my mouth or I pulled off of him, but whatever the reason, he popped out of my mouth just as he came, and spurted all over my brand-new beautiful suede jacket. The stuff was everywhere ... mostly over one shoulder of the jacket.

Well, here's a laundry-day tip ... semen is damn difficult to get out of suede. The stains were visible for months. I made up some BS story when people asked about it. I was really pissed, actually.

 

[DashDot]

Like most girls on here i like giving head because i enjoy it and because they enjoy it so much. when i first starting giving head it was to please the guy but then i found i really like it to. the feel of his hard cock in my mouth, the taste, the smell, the power it gives me over him, just the whole thing is such a turn on. i can get wet (and actually am getting wet right now- lol) just thinking about some of the hot cocks ive sucked on in the past.

This is so true for me too. Since I have "matured" I seem to be more aggressive in my wants and needs and doing the things I truly enjoy doing and sucking cocks is something very enjoyable.

 

[PerplexedLai]

Do the ladies on here give blowjobs because mainly they want to please their guy, or because they honestly enjoy it?

Okay, this question depends on who you're asking. For me....

Giving a blowjob to a man is very satisfying. For one, there's nothing that makes me wetter than to feel a man's hands tighten in my hair because something I'm doing brings him to the brink. The shallow breathing, the low moans, the throat-ed growls, those turn me on. Giving a blow job can be very stimulating and I've brought myself to the edge of climax many-a-times by taking a man into my mouth. Now, there are times when I do it simply because it is what is being asked of me. But when I truly enjoy it, it's just as rewarding for myself as well as the man.

 

[gabriel16]

Enjoying this thread

Knowing what turns a lover on, and how, is always a pleasure ------

 

[Que]

Okay, this question depends on who you're asking. For me....

Giving a blowjob to a man is very satisfying. For one, there's nothing that makes me wetter than to feel a man's hands tighten in my hair because something I'm doing brings him to the brink. The shallow breathing, the low moans, the throat-ed growls, those turn me on. Giving a blow job can be very stimulating and I've brought myself to the edge of climax many-a-times by taking a man into my mouth. Now, there are times when I do it simply because it is what is being asked of me. But when I truly enjoy it, it's just as rewarding for myself as well as the man.

Now, THAT'S a good girl....

~pats head affectionately~

The quality of a blowjob is directly proportional to the enthusiasm with which it is given.

 

[MeredithEighty8]

First of all, because he absolutely loves it! In all honesty, I think if it came to a choice of intercourse or having his dick sucked, he'd pick the later.

Secondly, while I think I'm typically sexually submissive, I like the feel, scent, taste (pre-cum and cum), closeness and I like the sense of power/control it gives me.

 

[FuckinNudeGuy]

First of all, because he absolutely loves it! In all honesty, I think if it came to a choice of intercourse of having his dick sucked, he'd pick the later.

Secondly, while I think I'm typically sexually submissive, I like the feel, scent, taste (pre-cum and cum), closeness and I like the sense of power/control it gives me.

That's a perfect answer.

 

[pfflyerhot]

Why?

Because, I FEEL like it, and he loves it; it makes him feel good, too.

 

[smallgirl]

Do the ladies on here give blowjobs because mainly they want to please their guy, or because they honestly enjoy it? Does it really stimulate you at all. Ive often wondered about it. Some guys i know expect it from their girlfriends and others would only accept it if she really wanted to. I guess im just really asking do girls really enjoy a bj nearly as much as a guy does or do they just want to make their guy happy?

I give a guy a blowjob for several reasons.
One, I'm damn good at it. I enjoy giving one, especially if its someone I care about. I know it makes a guy feel good, and I think a lot of men are still surprised to meet a woman who doesn't see a blowjob as a "chore" to get through. I miss it if I don't get to give one. I love to take my time, hear him suck his breath in and let out that little "oh fuck" as I'm taking him down my throat. The little grunt he makes when he hits the back of my throat.
Oh yeah...I do it cause I love it, and the power I feel from how he reacts from it.

 

[PerplexedLai]

Now, THAT'S a good girl....

~pats head affectionately~

The quality of a blowjob is directly proportional to the enthusiasm with which it is given.

I'm glad you approve.

 

[subrinablaze]

Oh my! I LOVE it! The mild musky scent of his clean skin, the silk encased steel of his cock in my mouth, the lovely texture of his crown. Then balls that are shaved smooth......yum. I also enjoy it because HE enjoys it. Those little moans of pleasure, the jerks of his cock in my mouth, his hands in my hair. Yes Sir.......I like.

 

[MrRetro]

I give a guy a blowjob for several reasons.
One, I'm damn good at it. I enjoy giving one, especially if its someone I care about. I know it makes a guy feel good, and I think a lot of men are still surprised to meet a woman who doesn't see a blowjob as a "chore" to get through. I miss it if I don't get to give one. I love to take my time, hear him suck his breath in and let out that little "oh fuck" as I'm taking him down my throat. The little grunt he makes when he hits the back of my throat.
Oh yeah...I do it cause I love it, and the power I feel from how he reacts from it.

Very glad to hear from women who don't see it as a chore...

 

[smallgirl]

Very glad to hear from women who don't see it as a chore...

No, its definitely not a chore.
I firmly believe to be good at something you have to like doing it, and I love giving a blowjob.

 

[MrRetro]

No, its definitely not a chore.
I firmly believe to be good at something you have to like doing it, and I love giving a blowjob.

I totally agree Smallgirl, which is why I will never ask a woman for a blowjob... I want her to want it... And if she's good, oh...

 

[Loving50]

So many great descriptions here. No need to add one so I'll just vote. Yes, I love to give blow jobs.

 

[MrRetro]

So many great descriptions here. No need to add one so I'll just vote. Yes, I love to give blow jobs.

Glad to hear your desire hasn't waned with age...!

 

[Loving50]

Glad to hear your desire hasn't waned with age...!

Are you kidding? I think I'm just getting warmed up!