Why do you like cumming on someone or having someone cum on you?

[MrSneakyinPA]

i enjoy watching him work his cock then explode over my breasts and abdomen...best if he then shoves his cock into my pussy and presses his body down on me for passionate kisses, smearing cum all over both of us. i love to feel dirtied by him, his cum shot inside me only to drip out of my pussy later...reminding me that i am his. or his hot juices flowing down my throat after he has fed me

Wow.

 

[MrSneakyinPA]

i want to be cummed on.

 

[MrSneakyinPA]

I think it may be different reasons if I'm cumming on a girl vs. cumming on a guy.

When I cum on a girl, it's sorta like getting off seeing her watch me shoot my cream on her. Most of the girls I shoot my cream on seem to like it. They are usually playing with their clits while it's happening. Then, when I start cumming on them, they start getting ready to have another orgasm.

When I cum on a guy, it just feels different. The guys I cum on are usually the "bottom" and it's like I'm doing one more thing to "top" them, if that makes any sense.

I wish a guy would "top" and cum on me!

 

[HardHornyDad]

They really do sometimes get a look on their face when they cum on you. They probably don't even realize it themselves, but it's a look that the woman can see if she really looks. It says she's mine (although in their head they're using the word, bitch, slut, whore, etc), she belongs to me, she let's me cum all over her, she eats my cum gladly and will want me to do it again.

It might be interesting to figure out if where he cums means anything in particular, does he like cumming on your face, hair, breasts, clit, stomach, small of the back, ass crack? Oh, getting too deep? Just call me Doctor Meredith

*grin* great post Doc!

But I don't bother thinking the 'dirty' words...if I'm feeling them I say them...mostly what I'm thinking when I cum on her (whoever she is), is "Mine" yes, with a "M"

 

[bicurious19]

I love cum. For me, being on ur knees or on ur back with them sort of straddling you and waiting for a hot load is sealing the deal, a job well done. I love getting cummed on, when it splashes and lands on my face at times, makes me so horny, just the way it feels, and watching it spurt out the tip of the dick and land on my face. I also love the look on their face when Im sucking away and I know they are close, keep sucking and as u feel the cock throb and about to explode in ur mouth u take it as deep as u can and let every bit of cum shot straight down ur throat.

 

[Ladyinred59]

Hmmm...

I love cumming on a woman. To me ,cumming on a woman is a sign of submissiveness on her part, as but I think what I like more is that I am marking her, branding her, making her mine, if only temporarily. My cum on a woman is also extremely visual, and I have been told my cum is very hot...lava-like. So it's a visual thing, as well as touch thing.

Bottom line? I LOVE cumming on a woman.....

How VERY HOT, indeed. I like how your mind works.

 

[Aussieroughguy]

There's probably various reasons. Sure there's the dominance and submissive side to things. Some people say that a guy cumming on a girls face is all about marking territory and all of that and sure that probably is the case for a lot of people.

But I think also about acceptance.

A woman's face is the most public part of her. When she goes out and talks to people that is what people see (unless they're looking down her top).

So if a woman ALLOWS me to cum on her face, then she is telling the world that she accepts me. It's her declaration - not mine. In this regard, cumming on her face is the most erotic place to cum.

Instead of this where it is the man to the woman: Man "You are mine and noone elses'"

It can be reversed, woman to the man: Woman "I accept you"

I don't know if that makes sense to anyone but, hey there it is.

 

[HoldYouDown]

For a man it looks great on a woman, and it's an act of dominance and ownership. Personally I love being dominant and making a woman my object.

 

[russnorton]

cum

Some could argue it was degrading. Some like the feel of being marked.
I like marking, leaving my scent on a woman. I also enjoy the feel of a woman rubbing herself on my thigh, or chest, or face.
I enjoy the feel of my cum, rubbing it over myself after masturbating.

 

[littlecordelera]

I love having a guy cum on my face. I feel like he has dominated me and marked me as his conquest. I like to look up at him with a demure and submissive smile, and let him look at his cum all over my face for as long as he likes.

 

[CuriousThroat2]

For me, part of it is because it was the most exciting part of sex. Until my wife and I started trying to conceive, every time I had had sex (with her, or any ex before her), it was with a condom. The downside of safe sex is even when you finish-- you still haven't cummed inside her. There's just that niggling psychologic feeling of "it wasn't good enough". Yeah, it was fun and all, but it's like the last page of a book was missing.

So if you can't cum inside her-- there's always on her. It's completely uninhibited. By way of hand (hers or mine) or mouth or skin or whatever triggers it, there's intimate contact and no barriers at the end.

And yes, I will admit, there is the delight of sharing a piece of myself with her. I don't think it's a "conquest" or a dominance thing for me. It's knowing she let me cm on her. Hoping she feels as sexy performing the act as I feel doing it. And seeing her splashed with cum makes her a beauty beyond compare-- a sight like literally no other. There is no way to reproduce exactly how beautiful she looks cummed on. No makeup or pose or clothing or jewelry can do it.

 

[_HockeyDude]

I love having a guy cum on my face. I feel like he has dominated me and marked me as his conquest. I like to look up at him with a demure and submissive smile, and let him look at his cum all over my face for as long as he likes.

Good god that's hot. Thank you for writing this post. Simple but wonderful

 

[cma4280]

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[Mr. Briggs]

jerks off ON your pussy instead of cumming inside it?

Like this... http://smutty.com/s/dHSyS/

I like that! Perfect to eat

 

[Erosfan]

Why? Let me count the ways. I like watching myself ejaculate as I feel my orgasm pulse throughout my body. I like jerking off in front of my lady. I like seeing my cum land on my lady’s tits and drip down her body. My lady gets a thrill from me cumming on her tits.
I’ve cum on women who didn’t get such a thrill from it and I agree with the posts above, that wasn’t as much fun for me, either. The fact that my lady wants my cum on her tits makes it so much more enjoyable for me to put it there.

My lady tells me when she wants me to cum on her tits.
I too love to be watched by her and to know she wants it as much as I do.
It's a bit of role reversal because she will always tell me she wants me to "strip naked and cum on her tits." She takes the lead here.
She only removes her top, I get completely naked and jerk off and cum on her while she watches. We usually do this on our back deck in the afternoon.
She calls the shots and we both enjoy ourselves, so much fun.

 

[redrum9599]

Saphicus! What.....a description! Wow!

 

[nicknude]

I love to stand above her and jerk off as she masturbates.....making total eye contact....as she tells me where she wants my cum....which will soon become her cum.....I control myself until she starts to cum.....and then I erupt all over her face, breasts and stomach.....hearing each 'splat' as my warm, thick cum hits her skin.

Then looking down at my 'masterpiece.'

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[Beck31]

First off good post and interesting question. I'm actually not much into the act of coming on a sweetheart (or wife). The exception is a blowjob b/c she does not enjoy the taste of semen and would rather see it spurt out and land on her boobs. (An ex crush was similar in her tastes as well). I don't buy into the whole dominance/submissive excuse generally. Yes some women do enjoy the feel and texture of a hot cum shot and some obviously don't. I would much rather come in a pussy to be honest. Anyhoo I know I was rambling a bit. Thanks to whomever takes the time to peruse my responce.

 

[sophie_l]

I think like a lot of people have said, its a very psychological thing - it doesn't feel great, its more that you know what has just happened.

I had a FWB who used to hold my neck or pull my hair a little bit as he came on my face - so hot! I don't know if I can fully describe why. A couple of times we played around with blindfolds heightened that sensation. If he was using his own hand I had no idea when it was going to hit me - he said he liked the look of surprise on my face when he finally came on me.

I can see that guys probably have a better orgasm during penetration, but nothing beats seeing the product of their orgasm. It feels a lot more satisfying for me because I KNOW how much he loved it, rather than just guessing by his facial expression and noises.

 

[lovecraft68]

Its the dirtiness of it.

Especially now with porn so in the forefront of society and a lot of it aimed as much at women as men.

Ejaculating inside seems to be equated more with making love-unless of course it turns into a cream pie- whereas cumming on a woman is more like "hot sex" for lack of a better term.

My wife loves the feeling of it and I love to watch it and we both enjoy the dirty thrill of it.

Where depends on mood and position for blow jobs she takes it in her mouth but then drools it down her chin and tits.

Doggy style she likes me to stand over her and spray her back and if she is on her back she likes it on her stomach

I also have a foot fetish and will sometimes cum on the soles of her feet after doggy style.