Why does my bf jerk off so much?

[Bigspurt]

If you really want him to stop and he uses lube, here's a "how to."

Buy this and mix it in with the lube. Then prepare for fireworks.

That's just plain mean!

 

[seeshelly]

Most people need more

Most people need more sex than they are getting. It is also in our DNA to want multiple partners. Society stifles human sexuality in many ways. I am married and my husband shares me with FWB. But I still set aside time for masturbation. I think what your boyfriend is doing is healthy. You should join him in watching porn and also spend more time masturbating yourself. You should explore the quality of your relationship and determine if jealousy would prevent you from experiencing other things like giving him a FMF or his giving you a MFM. Once we explored the topic my sex drive increased dramatically and the amount of sex I am having and the quality of the sex is much better.

 

[Taster2]

Why does your boyfriend JO so much?

For the same reason a dog licks his balls? Because he can!

 

[Erosfan]

Been married for a long time now but if I caught the hubs doing it I’d probably lend him a hand... and than tell him next time I wanna watch

My wife knows I jerk off, a lot. She doesn't try to catch me. If she wants to watch, she tells me so and I gladly do it for her. I have many times and we occasionally share a mutual session. It keeps the fire burning.

 

[seth6138]

Cause he can..

 

[fenika]

Most people need more sex than they are getting. It is also in our DNA to want multiple partners. Society stifles human sexuality in many ways. I am married and my husband shares me with FWB. But I still set aside time for masturbation. I think what your boyfriend is doing is healthy. You should join him in watching porn and also spend more time masturbating yourself. You should explore the quality of your relationship and determine if jealousy would prevent you from experiencing other things like giving him a FMF or his giving you a MFM. Once we explored the topic my sex drive increased dramatically and the amount of sex I am having and the quality of the sex is much better.

I feel like I am one of those people who needs more, as in more than one person. My boyfriend is strictly monogamous. It’s not a dealbreaker, but if he’s got enough in him to cum multiple times a day, I want it all. And I get very little of it.

 

[goodolboy]

So he won't have wet dreams and make a mess in the bed.

 

[TarnishedPenny]

I have read some suggestions that frequent orgasms reduce somewhat a man’s risk of prostrate cancer. As well, it has been suggested that, while sperm is constantly produced, ‘fresher’ sperm might have a slight advantage in the competitive process of fertilization. If those suggestions are true, instinctive tendencies towards frequent masturbation would therefore be beneficial.

Moreover, as has been noted already, intercourse is work. It is indeed pleasurable, but unless one is willing to treat the woman as an object, it takes time and an effort to please her, too. Especially for a young man in his prime, able to have five or six orgasms a day, just taking five minutes in the bathroom can make sense. This is doubly so when one considers that, for men, love and sex reside in different columns on the menu. Many women, for whom the two are more likely to be firmly linked, find this hard to understand.

 

[pplwatching]

I want it all. And I get very little of it.

If you have made your need for more known and he continues to favor self gratification, then in addition to being selfish he is demonstrating that your needs are not a priority for him. He would rather do what he wants to do without taking your needs into consideration. This is a bad sign for your relationship. It's up to you to decide how long you're willing to put up with it.

 

[Knoturnal]

I feel like I am one of those people who needs more, as in more than one person. My boyfriend is strictly monogamous. It’s not a dealbreaker, but if he’s got enough in him to cum multiple times a day, I want it all. And I get very little of it.

If your not telling him then it makes me wonder why your telling us. Tell him what you want and if he still doesn’t give you what you need get smart and find someone who will.

 

[Likenit2]

Maybe you should give him a hand

 

[Dreamer110]

Cause it feels good. Jeez.

 

[12356416514a]

In the last few weeks, I’ve caught my boyfriend masturbating multiple times while I’m in another room in the house, sometimes watching porn. I just don’t understand why he wouldn’t just come have sex with me, or ask for a blowjob, or anything. I’m right there.

Have you ever masturbated with your partner next to you. Like he is lying on the bed, playing with himself, you are lying on the other side and also playing with yourself? Or maybe you playing with each other instead of yourselves?

Sometimes people get off to an idea. Like roleplaying. I did this with a girlfriend where I would narrate a story... for example her taking a shower in the gym, but then realizing that someone stole her towel and clothes. And then have her tell me what she would want to do next, like ask someone for help, or try to sneak out undetected.

These ideas are things you can't do in normal sex. They only work in a masturbation scenario.