Why the curiosity as I got older?
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fitandfresh
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Hmmm
A lot of us in the same situation it appears.....72 and married but the urge to try this out just gets stronger......would love to chat here or on kik same name as here........fitandfresh.......wife at hairdressers and I am hard and really horny.....would love to feel another hand wrapped around him.
A lot of us in the same situation it appears.....72 and married but the urge to try this out just gets stronger......would love to chat here or on kik same name as here........fitandfresh.......wife at hairdressers and I am hard and really horny.....would love to feel another hand wrapped around him.
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There seems to be a trend of getting older and getting curious. Surprising how many guys feel that way. IF finding someone local or a regular buddy seems to be impossible, at least there a place like here to chat about it.
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hey...
I don't know about you all, but talking about sex with no hope or expectation of meeting is just more s.tress than I care to assume
I don't know about you all, but talking about sex with no hope or expectation of meeting is just more s.tress than I care to assume
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That may well change as time goes on. Be interested in your thoughts in say 5 years time
has been 20 yrs....nothing has changed...not interested in the 'romance' just m/m his cock and ass
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If there was a checklist for us to read over and tick the boxes that relate to our curiosities, I am sure that the number one choice would be that our wives or S.O. has lost interest in sex, while we have maintained a higher drive.
Since a majority of us guys are just looking for 'sex' and not a romantic entanglement, we begin to turn an eye towards other men in our same situation. The trouble is, that we expect to find that magical someone living close enough, yet not too close, we want to know that they are compatible with us and meet our standards. We want them to like everything exactly as we do. And we want to make this happen all with one click of a mouse, or swipe of a finger. It takes some kind of further committment than that.
My curiosity hit me head on around the age of 60. I wrestled with it for about 5 years, hitting forums and chat rooms, never making a connection. Everyone was too far away or wanted to do things that I did not want to do. Then I got serious about it and sought out a couple of sites that catered to what I was looking for. (Silverdaddies being my favorite) Still, it took a lot of time and effort to cull out the nut jobs and the pretenders. Once I made the right connection, I knew it. The curiosity was satisfied, and the reality of being a cock sucker is upon me.
Since a majority of us guys are just looking for 'sex' and not a romantic entanglement, we begin to turn an eye towards other men in our same situation. The trouble is, that we expect to find that magical someone living close enough, yet not too close, we want to know that they are compatible with us and meet our standards. We want them to like everything exactly as we do. And we want to make this happen all with one click of a mouse, or swipe of a finger. It takes some kind of further committment than that.
My curiosity hit me head on around the age of 60. I wrestled with it for about 5 years, hitting forums and chat rooms, never making a connection. Everyone was too far away or wanted to do things that I did not want to do. Then I got serious about it and sought out a couple of sites that catered to what I was looking for. (Silverdaddies being my favorite) Still, it took a lot of time and effort to cull out the nut jobs and the pretenders. Once I made the right connection, I knew it. The curiosity was satisfied, and the reality of being a cock sucker is upon me.
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If it didn't, maybe this site might be a lot more empty....
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Excellent post! I wonder why so few guys are willing to make the "investment" of time to truly locate a good match. I guess it's all about instant gratification.
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God sounds hot. I’m only 24 but I’ve always wanted an older man to take my holes like no other... I just want to get as much as I can before I can’t find anymore to be quite honest
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66 married and curious also. Definitely playing out more fantasies in Lit.
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Another New Englander!
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65 and married. Fantasies are played as well.
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Mostly because
Mostly because you've been there done that with respect to MF relationships and you're now older enough and smart enough to realize you've missed out of MM relationships. I got my taste of cock very early and I'm thankful for that!
Hey,, I'm 65 and for some reason finding a curiosity about M2M play. I've played a little over the years and would love to chat with someone real. I get horny and have no one to chat with.
Would really like to talk to people like me horny & curious.
Mostly because you've been there done that with respect to MF relationships and you're now older enough and smart enough to realize you've missed out of MM relationships. I got my taste of cock very early and I'm thankful for that!
The answer is, I think, rather simple. As they get older, women often become less attractive, less interested in sex and less interested in being some guys side piece. Moreover, getting them into bed requires a significant investment of time and money and, if successful, requires continuing investments of time and money to maintain. Same sex encounters, on the other hand, simply require mutual interest, maybe a beer, and a place.
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As time goes by and you think more about it, the curiosity does tend to get stronger.
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I'm in a senior-induced 'dry' spell of 20 years and fantasize a LOT. Right now I'm very turned on by trannies and shemales with hard cocks and could eventually just get hot for cock. Need some help...
Wanted something new and exciting
I have been very lucky sexually. I came of age in the late 60's when the sexual revolution blew up and everyone fucked and the 70's were more of the same.
The 80's for me meant a dependency on coke and it seemed that everyone i knew was also stuck in the snow storm. everyone was still fucking.
I was married a couple of times to women that were as sexually adventurous as i.
There were some dry spells in between the wild times and I started to have fantasies of sex with men. The thought of sucking cock excited me. it was a forbidden new adventure.
But I waited until my 60's when I took the jump and gave it a try.
I took to it immediately with no shame or regrets.
Now in my "golden years" I am a bi man comfortable with that choice.
I have been very lucky sexually. I came of age in the late 60's when the sexual revolution blew up and everyone fucked and the 70's were more of the same.
The 80's for me meant a dependency on coke and it seemed that everyone i knew was also stuck in the snow storm. everyone was still fucking.
I was married a couple of times to women that were as sexually adventurous as i.
There were some dry spells in between the wild times and I started to have fantasies of sex with men. The thought of sucking cock excited me. it was a forbidden new adventure.
But I waited until my 60's when I took the jump and gave it a try.
I took to it immediately with no shame or regrets.
Now in my "golden years" I am a bi man comfortable with that choice.
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I am also of that age (64 ) and also have that curiosity about being with another man. However, I have a serious lingerie fetish and would need both of us dressed completely (panties, camisoles,etc).
I agree that women lose that desire for sex and we turn to other situations to satisfy our desires.
Even so, I have been married for many years and can’t see “rocking the boat” at this point in my life. Fantasy and coming here to chat will have to do.
I agree that women lose that desire for sex and we turn to other situations to satisfy our desires.
Even so, I have been married for many years and can’t see “rocking the boat” at this point in my life. Fantasy and coming here to chat will have to do.
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Never really thought about this until my 27 year marriage ended 10 years ago, most of the ladies that I have met my age (I am 72) did nothing for me except trying to get you tied up in a relationship. What I need is a guy friend that we can get together a few times a week , his place or mine, have a few beers, get naked and then get each other off to release the tension. No romance or dating type of thing, just two guys in the same boat helping each other out.
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Hey,, I'm 65 and for some reason finding a curiosity about M2M play. I've played a little over the years and would love to chat with someone real. I get horny and have no one to chat with.
Would really like to talk to people like me horny & curious.
Because its perfectly natural!! You were told to only eat salads when you were growing up and that's exactly what you did.....until one day you woke up and said WTF - while can't I have steak too! The more something is denied, the more we want it.....
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Posted this on another thread...
For us in the older generation... growing up, sex was a taboo not to be discussed in the open, and anything other than mf sex was verboten... We get older and realize that maybe there isn't really a taboo to it... especially seeing what the internet has to offer in porn these days and how wide open the younger generation is... it all gives a bit of a normalcy to being curious.
For us in the older generation... growing up, sex was a taboo not to be discussed in the open, and anything other than mf sex was verboten... We get older and realize that maybe there isn't really a taboo to it... especially seeing what the internet has to offer in porn these days and how wide open the younger generation is... it all gives a bit of a normalcy to being curious.
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I think I first had a serious desire to suck cock and be fucked when I was in my mid to late 30s, but it definitely got stronger as I got older. I think it's a combination of low testosterone but high sex drive, lots of time to fantasise plus not getting any sex from my wife. I still only desire women but my way to keep the association with all that glamour and femininity is for me to adopt that role.
I'm early 50s now and I'm at the point where I'd like to find a man locally to fuck me maybe 2 or 3 times a week.
I'm early 50s now and I'm at the point where I'd like to find a man locally to fuck me maybe 2 or 3 times a week.
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I'm in the same boat. 37, sex life slowly dwindling, my sex drive probably increasing, needs not being met, looking elsewhere. I've always watched porn not just for the girls but have always been turned on by watching another cock thrust inside someone and cum. So for me it's been a few years of "i'm getting more and more turned on by this. Should I look to satisfy this urge?".
And thats the question. Should I satisfy it. How do I go about satisfying it? Do I just go to a gloryhole drunk and get it over and done with, or do I need to find a connection with someone else first? When I do it, am I going to want to do it regularly? How will that effect my sex life at home? What if my wife finds out? What if my kids find out?
So many questions to sort through, but in the meantime, its still a strong urge!
And thats the question. Should I satisfy it. How do I go about satisfying it? Do I just go to a gloryhole drunk and get it over and done with, or do I need to find a connection with someone else first? When I do it, am I going to want to do it regularly? How will that effect my sex life at home? What if my wife finds out? What if my kids find out?
So many questions to sort through, but in the meantime, its still a strong urge!
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