wife wants me to suck a guy's cock. is this normal?

[PleasePeesMe]

Fuck!

I wish my wife had your attitude.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

In my opinion

my wife has been talking about me letting a guy suck my cock, and then she wants me to suck his? is this normal for a wife to fantasize about this? my wife says she cums hard when masturbating and thinking about me getting my cock sucked and me reciprocating.

you are a very lucky man.

 

[willbethere]

My BF looks so good with a cock in his mouth. I like to hold the back of his head while my other hand holds a nice big dick in front of him. I whisper for him to stick his tongue out and lick up the pre-cum before he pops the head in his mouth and suck away as if it were a lollipop. Sometimes I tell him to open wide and bounce the cock off his face while I tell him what a good cum slut he is. It's really fun when we have two cocks to play with - he can be very greedy sometimes and looks wonderful when he has sperm all over his face and in his hair. So sexy!!!

You have a very lucky bf, I envy him!

 

[plainguy13]

Not sure if it is "normal" I always thought that was a setting on a clothes dryer, but it does sound exciting and very hot, I'd be "up" for it

 

[PleasePeesMe]

First of all, I'd kiss her

my wife has been talking about me letting a guy suck my cock, and then she wants me to suck his? is this normal for a wife to fantasize about this? my wife says she cums hard when masturbating and thinking about me getting my cock sucked and me reciprocating.

Then tell her how much you love her. Then take your clothes off and show her. Then get dressed and talk about who this guy might be. You lucky suckerfucker.

 

[Clem99]

my wife has been talking about me letting a guy suck my cock, and then she wants me to suck his? is this normal for a wife to fantasize about this? my wife says she cums hard when masturbating and thinking about me getting my cock sucked and me reciprocating.

My wife is very much into this as well. What is normal? Sounds like fun, actually.

 

[blowit]

I would love my wife to ask me to suck cock for her.

 

[Lord_Steve]

the question is, do you want to suck a guy's cock? "normal" is a fake idea but if she's pressuring you to do something outside your own proclivities, that could be a problem.

if you do, suck away

 

[txfuncouple]

my wife has been talking about me letting a guy suck my cock, and then she wants me to suck his? is this normal for a wife to fantasize about this? my wife says she cums hard when masturbating and thinking about me getting my cock sucked and me reciprocating.

I don't think being normal has anything to do with it. You're married, obviously have a wife that is willing to share with you her fantasies, so explore them with her. Ask her why it turns her on, what she wants to do, how far she wants it to go, etc.

Mine has expressed the same desires and we've discussed it. Even brought toys into play and said it was another cock and she was guiding me to suck him. Strap on play too has been fun. The point is that I didn't look at any of that as "not normal" because who is to say what we do together isn't normal for us. Her fantasies don't extend to me watching her with or being with another man without me. She is turned on by the taboo of it and gets crazy excited guiding me to suck and much more. There is no doubt this is hot for us both because like yourself, turning my wife on gives me pleasure and doing things together for the first time is something you both can share. And it's opened me and her both up to new and different ways to enjoy ourselves not to mention the new sensations we've both experienced.

Hope that's not too psychoanalytical, just my opinion.

 

[rafea118]

Omg that's hot haha

 

[MarianneRavenwood]

Only do it if *you* want to.

 

[Cubantripod]

For the OP:
You'll have to realize that many people posting here are either bi or gay, and unlike most hetero guys, think this is something that all guys must do.

If you have no desire to suck a dick, and your wife knows it, I think she's really pushing your envelope for an odd reason. Like another poster said, maybe she has a guy picked out for this task for nefarious purposes. Or, she may have no desire for it other than she likes watching MM action and wants you to act it out. Is this in response for you asking for her and another girl in bed?

I guess that answers my question. It just seemed odd at how many guys were acting as it's normal. If you're hetero, it would be a big deal. I guess that's why I was surprised by some of the responses.

 

[PetiteDiane]

I guess that answers my question. It just seemed odd at how many guys were acting as it's normal. If you're hetero, it would be a big deal. I guess that's why I was surprised by some of the responses.

Is it any different than guys constantly wanting to see girl/girl action? I can't tell you how many guys...actually I can, every guy I've dated...that wants to see that and will bring it up at some point.

Maybe she gets turned on by gay porn. What is the harm in bringing it up? Perhaps it was a secret fantasy of yours that you were too afraid to mention. How would she know?

If it is not something you want then just be honest and polite. It may or may not be "normal", I can't answer that. One person's normal is another's NO WAY! But at least be proud in her that she is willing to discuss what she likes and probing to see if it is something you would like as well. I think too many of us fail to share our fantasies and wants with our partners.

 

[gamegamale]

Is it any different than guys constantly wanting to see girl/girl action? I can't tell you how many guys...actually I can, every guy I've dated...that wants to see that and will bring it up at some point.

Maybe she gets turned on by gay porn. What is the harm in bringing it up? Perhaps it was a secret fantasy of yours that you were too afraid to mention. How would she know?

If it is not something you want then just be honest and polite. It may or may not be "normal", I can't answer that. One person's normal is another's NO WAY! But at least be proud in her that she is willing to discuss what she likes and probing to see if it is something you would like as well. I think too many of us fail to share our fantasies and wants with our partners.

So well stated, PD. In a healthy relationship partners should be able to express their desires and not have to fear ridicule. How else can partners be honest.

 

[Cubantripod]

Is it any different than guys constantly wanting to see girl/girl action? I can't tell you how many guys...actually I can, every guy I've dated...that wants to see that and will bring it up at some point.

Maybe she gets turned on by gay porn. What is the harm in bringing it up? Perhaps it was a secret fantasy of yours that you were too afraid to mention. How would she know?

If it is not something you want then just be honest and polite. It may or may not be "normal", I can't answer that. One person's normal is another's NO WAY! But at least be proud in her that she is willing to discuss what she likes and probing to see if it is something you would like as well. I think too many of us fail to share our fantasies and wants with our partners.

Yes, it is different. Women are much more bi-curious than men. Just the way it is. There are certain things that I know that my wife just isn't into. If you've been with someone long enough, you know certain things aren't really happening.

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

Only do it if *you* want to.

well after the first time there is no question of wanting to suck But the first time is so much nicer when she forces you. I like the do it or I am leaving you talk. I man does not have a lot of ways to really show his submission and this is one way he can let his wife or GF. know she is in control. But it needs to be genuine.

 

[WHOAMI2JUDGE]

Has your wife (or any woman) ever given you a BJ? Did you cum in her mouth? If so, you owe it to her, if for no other reason than to find out what it feels like. One consideration - men sometimes lose their unquenchable desire for sex right after they cum. With this in mind, you might want to suck cock before you get your rocks off, because if you wait until afterwards, you might change your mind. (It might be a good idea to practice with a cucumber. You need to test your limits. It would be a shame if your jaw locked up before you got your mouthful.)

I see this as an opportunity to increase the bonds between you. Not many couples share such an experience. Consider yourself lucky that your wife is so open minded, and definitely come back and tell us all about it.

as a woman with a bi mate i find that its really good and yes i find it normal for women to have there thoughts just like men. as the bi male here also loves all forms of male to male sex it excites me for my gal to think about it-fantasize it-and want to see it and even participate on me as the male and i have contact as well. i never thought id suck a males privates as i grew up but after trying it and experiencing it i found that it is truely intrriguing and pleasant with the right individual. we both get turned on immensley thinking and talking about me giving a bj and vica-versa....which is garanteed to lead to other things males can do...(u know what i mean) so yeah...its normal in our eyes....try it you WILL LIKE IT and she will love you for fullfilling her fantasy right before her very eyes!!!!

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

What's Normal ?

Heck my wife even hates to suck another man's cock. Yars ago she'd suck mine but swallowing makes her sick. A good reason not to suck. On occasion she has licked, kissed, and briefly sucked a friend because she knows that's what men want. But she has to trust him.
Don't even get one close to my mouth. I have one of my own. I know, we're not normal but we already know that.

 

[gamegamale]

as a woman with a bi mate i find that its really good and yes i find it normal for women to have there thoughts just like men. as the bi male here also loves all forms of male to male sex it excites me for my gal to think about it-fantasize it-and want to see it and even participate on me as the male and i have contact as well. i never thought id suck a males privates as i grew up but after trying it and experiencing it i found that it is truely intrriguing and pleasant with the right individual. we both get turned on immensley thinking and talking about me giving a bj and vica-versa....which is garanteed to lead to other things males can do...(u know what i mean) so yeah...its normal in our eyes....try it you WILL LIKE IT and she will love you for fullfilling her fantasy right before her very eyes!!!!

I have been involved with several women who were fascinated by male-male interaction. Whether it be voyeuristic, giving us instructions as to what they wanted us to do or becoming part of the activities all the ladies were very enthusiastic about the male-male play. And the more often we got together the more adventurous the ladies became in regard as to what they wanted to see us men do to each other.
Some of the women even put on a strap-on and took charge of the activities.

 

[txfuncouple]

my wife has been talking about me letting a guy suck my cock, and then she wants me to suck his? is this normal for a wife to fantasize about this? my wife says she cums hard when masturbating and thinking about me getting my cock sucked and me reciprocating.

I don't think getting hung up on "normal" is important. The question is do you want to do it to please your wife and expand your own personal boundaries? If the answer is yes then don't worry about labels and open up!

 

[NorCalCumCannon]

I don't think getting hung up on "normal" is important. The question is do you want to do it to please your wife and expand your own personal boundaries? If the answer is yes then don't worry about labels and open up!

I agree. I personally find it awesome and hope I can find a wife who enjoys this. Getting your cock sucked by a guy isn't bad and sucking cock isn't bad.

If you would feel better, ask if you can try it with a versatile TG first. Though if she may suck and fuck you so well, you may want to leave your wife lol

 

[Mr. Briggs]

I don't think getting hung up on "normal" is important. The question is do you want to do it to please your wife and expand your own personal boundaries? If the answer is yes then don't worry about labels and open up!

Agreed

 

[Semler]

Xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[yesplease8]

My BF looks so good with a cock in his mouth. I like to hold the back of his head while my other hand holds a nice big dick in front of him. I whisper for him to stick his tongue out and lick up the pre-cum before he pops the head in his mouth and suck away as if it were a lollipop. Sometimes I tell him to open wide and bounce the cock off his face while I tell him what a good cum slut he is. It's really fun when we have two cocks to play with - he can be very greedy sometimes and looks wonderful when he has sperm all over his face and in his hair. So sexy!!!

Sweet dreams are made of THIS!

 

[paulman999]

Sweet dreams are made of THIS!

I agree 100%