Wit & Nipples šŸ’

Unfortunately not anymore :(

I won’t share everything but I’ll explain it a little….

After a loss in my family last year my ex moved back in with me. I didn’t share any of that here because I like having my private fun life here and what with reality being as hard as it is sometimes, this can be a really great escape.

My ex and I are platonically in love but we haven’t slept together in over two years. He’s my person just not physically.

His moving back was platonic and to make sure I was okay. I was weak and feeling vulnerable so I needed it.

He’s also (as of late). become nasty. I’m no good in arguments and tend to break down and cry… mostly… and well…. Today he caused a big scene when we were out … didn’t understand why calling me names and poking digs at me isn’t exactly anyone’s idea of a nice time…

Anyway. Fast forward to right now and I’m back home… he’s packed all his things and left.

I… feel kinda weird airing this all out but I’m… heartbroken. I was going to be surprising him with tickets to the stranger things theatre show next week and now… everything’s come crashing down and I feel lost. It’s all happened so
Quickly I haven’t had a chance to take it in… and now I’m doing a typical bean thing of taking my dirty underwear and airing it out in public.

Anyway.

Umm…. Im just really really fucking sad.
Are this sucks! A lot of us are here if you ever need to chat, pick up a phone, etc.
 
Unfortunately not anymore :(

I won’t share everything but I’ll explain it a little….

After a loss in my family last year my ex moved back in with me. I didn’t share any of that here because I like having my private fun life here and what with reality being as hard as it is sometimes, this can be a really great escape.

My ex and I are platonically in love but we haven’t slept together in over two years. He’s my person just not physically.

His moving back was platonic and to make sure I was okay. I was weak and feeling vulnerable so I needed it.

He’s also (as of late). become nasty. I’m no good in arguments and tend to break down and cry… mostly… and well…. Today he caused a big scene when we were out … didn’t understand why calling me names and poking digs at me isn’t exactly anyone’s idea of a nice time…

Anyway. Fast forward to right now and I’m back home… he’s packed all his things and left.

I… feel kinda weird airing this all out but I’m… heartbroken. I was going to be surprising him with tickets to the stranger things theatre show next week and now… everything’s come crashing down and I feel lost. It’s all happened so
Quickly I haven’t had a chance to take it in… and now I’m doing a typical bean thing of taking my dirty underwear and airing it out in public.

Anyway.

Umm…. Im just really really fucking sad.
We love you sweetheart and care a lot about you.Your X didn't have your best interest in mind, so it's better that he's gone. Put as much space as possible between you and him.
Stay strong
XO
 
Hey there Miss @SpicyBean99

Just checking in…hope all is well.
Missing you on here but make sure you take care of yourself.
Here’s a *hug* because why not - everyone needs a hug right?
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I bet she was fake too! Just like Kit. So poof she or he

I bet she was fake too! Just like Kit. So poof she or he is gone!!!
Really I think this myth is done. There were two profiles one was fake, got called out. The other is definitely not fake.

I’m pretty sure she has now left because of the unwarranted abuse. Hopefully in Beans own time she can rest and get back here because she’s missed.
 
How’s everyone doing? I won’t pretend that we’re better without Bean as it has been pretty crap without her. Personally, I don’t like that the thread dies without DopaBean and I think we should actually give her something to reply to. With that in mind, how’s everyone? What do we miss? What are we hoping Dopamine tells us when she’s back?
 
Ummm hey guys 🄹

Wow….

Firstly can I start by saying thankyou? For the majority of kind and lovely messages both here and in the DMs!

Secondly… I did need time away…. (@Knuts57) because I was seriously overwhelmed with the whole chocolate bar escapade (I really can’t even be bothered to bring the name into it šŸ«) I received hate?? From a handful of men who were in shock… evidently… and I experienced being body shamed for the first time as an adult since my teen years… something that no woman should ever experience ever…. It took a toll on me…. And being here has had a habit of doing so… firstly with šŸ« (I felt slightly bullied here and there from when I first joined last year) and then with outing šŸ« as a fake account. So yes. I did take some time away!

A friend actually messaged me earlier regarding the thread and I decided to have a sneak peak… before I reply to everyone I just wanted to say hey!!!

Let’s get back to positive posting? Pretty please? I miss it and I miss you (most of you anyway)!

How has everything been without me here? šŸ˜‰
 
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