Women’s opinion on pegging (strap on)

[macgeetravis69]

That’s a shame mine has done it but only a few times. She gave a hard no at me wearing her panties. Felt horrible to see the disgust on her face.

Oh, I know that disgusted look all to well.

 

[pntyhseluvr]

It sucks being vulnerable Ang getting slammed

 

[LMWM321]

I’m not a woman, but I’ll answer anyway. IMO, more allocishet men should practice pegging in their relationships. The stereotype that only cis, gay men engage in anal play has got to go.

Couldn't agree more. The ONLY conclusion that can be drawn from a man enjoying the feeling of something pushed up his butt is this: He enjoys the feeling of something pushed up his butt. That's it! That's all it says! It reveals nothing about his sexual orientation or his personality type - ie., submissive vs dominant, etc.

I LOVE the feeling of being pegged and I am neither bi-sexual nor submissive, by nature. I truly feel bad for any guy who refuses to try it because of such idiotic hang ups.

ADDED: Telling a straight man he has a latent desire to be with men because he enjoy's being pegged is as wrong headed as telling a Lesbian she has a secret desire to be with men because she and her partner use a dildo.

C'mon people, this isn't rocket science. Your sexual orientation is a function of the gender of your preferred partner, not what toys or orifices you involve in your sex.

 

[Scareltt]

I've tried it but straps seem to be really poorly made so they have to be tightly strapped on and they look and feel awful. There's one I tried that was well-designed with some inches that mutually went inside and added sensation so the awful straps were less uncomfortable and less visually intrusive.

I agree with you..

Even the most expensive equipment isn’t easy to use. I do like the idea of a Feeldoe but the reality is they slide out of me. Now a Feeldoe with the right strap can work pretty good it’s still frustrating.

Then you have to actually use it! I have to say men have great abs because after a few minutes I’m getting tired.

Maybe that’s just because I’m old.

 

[pntyhseluvr]

Figuring out the straps was part of the fun. We were laughing the whole time but I agree they probably aren’t comfortable for the long haul. We did do a long double ended dildo between our asses. That was more comfortable and didn’t involve those abs as much

 

[Wildfly11]

I agree with you..

Even the most expensive equipment isn’t easy to use. I do like the idea of a Feeldoe but the reality is they slide out of me. Now a Feeldoe with the right strap can work pretty good it’s still frustrating.

Then you have to actually use it! I have to say men have great abs because after a few minutes I’m getting tired.

Maybe that’s just because I’m old.

You think someone would have figured out a solution to the equipment problem my now...there is money to be made...and satisfaction to be delivered

 

[Boat1]

You think someone would have figured out a solution to the equipment problem my now...there is money to be made...and satisfaction to be delivered

Y'all are about to "challenge" me right to my workbench!

 

[Wildfly11]

Y'all are about to "challenge" me right to my workbench!

Test subjects apply to....

 

[RAS0523]

Hi Ladies.
Mrs shrek here.
What is your opinion on pegging? Love it? Hate it?
For me I side with loving it. Not often but when the mood is just right it’s great fun.
First time, felt a bit silly. A bit self conscious and didn’t really know what to expect.
Now, I really get off on the power exchange. The look in his eye and the little moans he makes. The way his cock responds not completely sure if to be completely hard or not. And when he cums he almost looks shocked.
Last time, I actually scooped his cum up and tubed it on the strapon before fucking him again. So wrong I know :/
I have to say, respect to men for getting the rhythm right when they shag us. It’s not completely easy.

I prefer the real deal. Don’t know if the feel of the cock has changed but I love real cock and the fake ones feel too fake for me!

 

[subdudeme13]

I agree with you..

Even the most expensive equipment isn’t easy to use. I do like the idea of a Feeldoe but the reality is they slide out of me. Now a Feeldoe with the right strap can work pretty good it’s still frustrating.

Then you have to actually use it! I have to say men have great abs because after a few minutes I’m getting tired.

Maybe that’s just because I’m old.

A Domme that used me walked around during the day with the feeldoe (the red one) inserted. She didn't use a harness and I was amazed not to say in heaven. I have seen harnesses with spikes too, just throwing that in there for consideration.

 

[subdudeme13]

Y'all are about to "challenge" me right to my workbench!

Quit lying. You have already been there! How is the leg?

 

[subdudeme13]

I prefer the real deal. Don’t know if the feel of the cock has changed but I love real cock and the fake ones feel too fake for me!

I am sure you do prefer a real cock, but your a woman and you don't have one to use on your partner.. That is the point of a strap on for a woman to use on her parnter thought there are some that are hollow.

 

[subdudeme13]

Figuring out the straps was part of the fun. We were laughing the whole time but I agree they probably aren’t comfortable for the long haul. We did do a long double ended dildo between our asses. That was more comfortable and didn’t involve those abs as much

They work pretty good. I taped out one time it got so intense.

 

[Boat1]

Quit lying. You have already been there! How is the leg?

Thanks!
The leg is probably at 80-85%...

 

[subdudeme13]

Thanks!
The leg is probably at 80-85%...

Good to hear! You into leather work...................wait! I knew that. I should send along the harness I say with spikes in it! That would be right up your alley.............

 

[Boat1]

Good to hear! You into leather work...................wait! I knew that. I should send along the harness I say with spikes in it! That would be right up your alley.............

I definitely have spikes in my crafting supplies, but my Goddess is apprehensive of me putting them on our impact implements... as you said in my early days on Lit, Re my Goddess and me... "It's good that one of you has some sense."

 

[LisaMayTurner]

I agree with you..

Even the most expensive equipment isn’t easy to use. I do like the idea of a Feeldoe but the reality is they slide out of me. Now a Feeldoe with the right strap can work pretty good it’s still frustrating.

Then you have to actually use it! I have to say men have great abs because after a few minutes I’m getting tired.

Maybe that’s just because I’m old.

Maybe you just need to find one that fits you more snugly, so a Christmas shopping trip may be in order? A friend of mine used to copy porn movie scenes where you use pantyhose with a hole cut through to hold it all together. She's shown me photos and it looks really sexy and inviting on her with that lovely cock shape and size rising up for her legs.

I suggest you try this design a the root is flexible so the bulb is nicely designed. Plus the flexi design makes more stimulation possible for you to enjoy...

https://www.sinful.co.uk/p/strap-on-me-bendable-strap-on-large-award-winner/1022518?variantSku=22519

 

[MissMarie32]

Hi Ladies.
Mrs shrek here.
What is your opinion on pegging? Love it? Hate it?
For me I side with loving it. Not often but when the mood is just right it’s great fun.
First time, felt a bit silly. A bit self conscious and didn’t really know what to expect.
Now, I really get off on the power exchange. The look in his eye and the little moans he makes. The way his cock responds not completely sure if to be completely hard or not. And when he cums he almost looks shocked.
Last time, I actually scooped his cum up and tubed it on the strapon before fucking him again. So wrong I know :/
I have to say, respect to men for getting the rhythm right when they shag us. It’s not completely easy.

Never done it

 

[DaddyLovesKitten]

Hmm.. I've sometimes wondered about pegging, but never tried it.

I have, not a lot, but I have.

On the face of it, it just doesn't seem like a great idea - there isn't much physical stimulation for the woman doing it

This is very true- this is also true for a lot of other things I appreciate sexually, for example when I pleasure my partner with my hands, lips, tongue, or a toy, I'm usually not even touching myself.

I get aroused by the fact that she's getting aroused and making the sounds that indicate she's really excited, moaning... gasping... and it goes straight to my penis. I get achy after a while and wish to touch something. But the prolonged foreplay really gets me going.

This is also true when you're giving a handjob to your partner, or oral sex, you might get aroused by the visuals or the moans or the physical contact, or the fact that your partner is getting so excited. It's half in your mind, and half your own body reacting to the non-touching stimulus. If your mind isn't into it, it won't do anything for you.

However- you CAN slide a small vibe inside of yourself or have it positioned in such a way as to stimulate your clit or the inside of you to receive SOME physical stimulation at the same time.

For some it may be enough to orgasm, but for many it is not, so, you might consider this kind of activity to be "foreplay".

It is meant to get you mentally excited and your partner mentally and physically excited, and then he may turn around and eagerly return the favor, because you've got him so wild.

So, whatever it is that DOES turn you on physically, he might do in response.

So, it's sort of like a down payment on getting a lot of physical stimulation later, in exchange for playing with your partner in a selfless way right now.

Also....

Yes, there's definitely trust and intimacy and power dynamics going on. A man will probably never feel more submissive than being on his hands and knees being manually stimulated by his partner or penetrated by her with a strap-on or fingers.

If both partners are interested in D/s things... this hits the spot so to speak.

And I've never had a prostate massage. it was still fun for both partners because of the vibe, and what we did after.

and it would seem rather difficult for her to hit the spot just right for the guy too. There are plenty of guys talking about how hard it is even for themselves to massage their prostate.

Yep, never had a prostate orgasm, I HAVE felt good feelings from massaging there with toys before. But I would need a partner to go further. Due to the angles.

So is it 'just' the power dynamics that make it attractive? Or is it more of an add-on, so pegging + handjob/masturbation is what gives the good effects?

All of this and more.

 

[DaddyLovesKitten]

that last post sent too quickly, I edited it to finish it out.