Women, Choose your own man here

[naughtygirl]

my thoughts....

I only looked at a few of the pics and then decided to stop...

Personally, I have dated many "stereo"types of men at different stages in my life...jocks, pretty boys, big guys, average looking men, geeky guys, tattooed men with piercings (a favorite of mine , macho macho men, and I have come to realize that I dont have a specific type. I LOVE MEN!

what i believe it boils down to is -- connection. I once dated a man who was not the norm of "good looking"...but he had the most intense ice blue eyes that touched my soul when he looked at me. (He was also a big goof ball and went out of his way to make me laugh and that was a big plus in my book.)

But I digress...I dont have a specific fantasy as my fantasy is always changing. When I first meet a man, yes, I might look right away at his physical features, but that soon isnt important to me. what is important is the connection for me. I have met good looking men who were interested in going for it but if I didnt feel that connection then I didnt waste my energy or time.

in regard to men and their fantasies, yes most men fantasize about women who have "model" characteristics. and yes, some women can feel insecure about their physical features because the majority of us will never meet that standard. however, i also think that can be overcome with some confidence. I have never had a problem dating men and/or getting my rocks off. and I am by no means a model. i would prefer to lose 30 or 40 lbs, but this is more of a health issue for me, rather than me trying to meet the standard. the majority of the time I am confident and very sure of myself and what I desire. and this goes a long way with men I have found. and my experience has been that men gravitate towards women who are confident (not to be confused with conceited) and sure of who they are and what they want.

what I look for in a man is sense of humor, the ability to have a thoughtful conversation, sincerity, honesty, respect - for me in particular, all women in general, and a high sex drive (i have to be honest that this is extremely important to me...but I have never met a man who didnt have one, lol). if they possess these characteristics then they will get a long way with me. It doesnt completely matter what they look like to me, if there is that connection, then I will be attracted to them.

ok so Im drinking and babbling a bit. hope that made sense.

NG

 

[intrigued]

You ladies confuse me.

What i dont understand is how do you know the guys in the pics arent your type? It seems most womens "type" is some personality trait. dont judge a book by its cover, you might miss a friend, you might miss a lover. Especially when the book looks pretty good.


Which brings me to another point.
I have noticed a sterotyping or prejudice against male bodybuilders, models and guys in good shape. Most women think that they are not their type. Or that they have bad personalities. I think a person can have a good/compatiable personality no matter what they look like. Why are you ladies affraid to approach or try a relationship with a handsome or built guy?

The problem here is that the post originator posted PICS ONLY....he did not request that we base our opinions on anything other than LOOKS. Thats a bit hard to do, unless we're talking about in a "one night stand" kind of way....

What we are saying is that its so much more than looks....and there is a bit of a steroetype here, I admit, amongst these "model, bodybuilder, GQ" types, that they seem to be superficial. That is very wrong to do on every level, but we do it. And I have nothing against pursuing a relationship with these types at all, as long as there is something compelling upstairs to attract me as well. Looks just don't hold me.

Now, to answer the question....they are excellent as far as eye candy goes, certainly. But my body needs so much more to respond....I need something that starts in the mind first, and then travels elsewhere.....

If this doesn't help you any, I'm sorry, my mind is mush.

 

[SexyLilTerp23]

boxerdown and kevindean from the 2nd list...ahhhhhhhh

 

[beth-n-mike]

what kind of man ...
while the whole post is intriguing , the most interesting thing , is who you picked , picture wise, for us females to choose from ..

, all these models , and so called perfect specmins....the actors and what not... none of them have that human quality.... how to explain , a good man , is a blend , he still has some of the little boy shyness, but hes all male, strong and capable, compassionate and passionate..... oh , the 90' man ...no , not quite, but its better than the completely emotionless 80's yuppie..
lets see....


none of the pics did a thing for me , for one thing,
no ink, for another , no facial hair..

and, the eyes.. ohh how misunderstood men are about thier eyes.. any man that can make good i contact, and not say a word while he does it, but can look into my eyes ,and i "know" what hes thinking.. i go all mushy pudding...


i have always dreamed high, and i never expected to get a good looking built guy to be interested in me, a bbw.. but i did

luckily. he wasnt as shy as i was...

i mean lets face it , after talking on the net, and 1 face to face meeting while i was at work ,
the man comes to my house, wearing nothing but a tan , and skimpy jean shorts, and , like everyother good naturalist, he did exactly what he threatened , which i didnt believe he would do.. walked in and dropped his jeans at the door...
come on , whats not to love.... when after he does that, he looks up at me with this impish grin and says"told ya".... the rest is a long story , and involves a microwave...

but , i guess to answer what youre asking , and not asking...
looks are a factor, but only a factor in intial appeal , i would much rather be with a fun guy than a sexy guy , cause lets face it , in 20 years, noone looks as good as they used to

be available, be honest,have emotions, and share them , admit your imperfections, be reliable and dependable, call when you say youre going to , show up reasonably on time, unlless you have the speeding ticket to prove why youre late...dont be a doormat,interest me , and listen when i am talking, dont offer advice if its not specificly asked for, and if you do , dont get hurt if we dont take it....

remember , women relate- men activate....

all the above , in my own unique and daring style!

 

[Suzi]

Another comment....

What is all this about judging by the cock? I mean, isn't it what it DOES that counts? When it shrinks, size is of no consequence! How turned on we are is determined not by the cock, but by how much kissing, touching, talking, holding...all the foreplay and mental anticipation. If the woman places so much emphasis on the size, then she is bound to be disappointed many times in her life!