Women: Do you have to behave like a lady in public

If I didn't know you well enough to know your relationship dynamic, I would be calling you the next day to find out if you needed help getting away from an abusive partner. And it would cause me a lot of turmoil knowing that I was going to stick my nose into someone else's business, and I would more likely lose a friendship than anything else.

I would never in a million years demand such stifled, controlled, behavior from anyone, It seems to me that a person would spend more time being utterly stifled and unable to communicate than anything else. I like bondage, but I would never want to tie down someone's mind.

I couldn't agree more. Yes the idea of a lady on the streets and a freak in the sheets is a fantasy for many, but to force the personality change in my opinion is wrong. Submission of who you are, whether a perfect lady or someone who has the mouth of a sailor, that is the true beauty in d/s relationship.

...just my opinion.
 
My wife (and slave) already spoke for us but I will say that I like her to act like a lady in public.... For the most part. I expect her to still be a good girl and follow my orders acting like the perfect wife and slave, I also don't mind if she is feeling playful for her to be a little naughty in public IE touching my coc or leaning in to give me a deep kiss ect ect.
 
hmm to be continued.... I have a friend in need at the moment.
 
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I'm not in a Dom/Sub relationship so I'm not even sure if my opinion even matters, but while I love when my Husband takes an upper hand in the bedroom I could never tolerate him treating me like that in public. Maybe that is because of my past from being in a bad relationship, but now I just can't relinquish control. I am who I am and I'm not looking for a parent to tell me how to act. Just follow your gut, only you know your relationship and where to draw the line.
 
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