If I didn't know you well enough to know your relationship dynamic, I would be calling you the next day to find out if you needed help getting away from an abusive partner. And it would cause me a lot of turmoil knowing that I was going to stick my nose into someone else's business, and I would more likely lose a friendship than anything else.
I would never in a million years demand such stifled, controlled, behavior from anyone, It seems to me that a person would spend more time being utterly stifled and unable to communicate than anything else. I like bondage, but I would never want to tie down someone's mind.
I couldn't agree more. Yes the idea of a lady on the streets and a freak in the sheets is a fantasy for many, but to force the personality change in my opinion is wrong. Submission of who you are, whether a perfect lady or someone who has the mouth of a sailor, that is the true beauty in d/s relationship.
...just my opinion.